By the way you don't need to be sorry for my experiences and they weren't traumatic or anything. Not sure why you said that.
I lived years in the culture and will move back there once free to do so and spend a good few months a year there even now.
I'm an anthropologist originally hence going to live there in the first place to do fieldwork. Cultural differences are par for the course and I understand the massive impact culture and socialisation has on people. I also clearly love living in an arab country and a ton of things about the culture and character of the people on the whole or I wouldn't spend so much time in that region and have invested there.
I sat and observed a houthi missile land in the sea in the gulf of aqaba this year and we had another exploded in mid air that was so loud that everyone assumed a gas cylinder had gone off outside their house wherever they were in town.
On the other hand you couldn't pay me to live in Israel - I don't like it there or feel comfortable for my own reasons - there are many countries I don't like being in including this one.
I'm sure plenty of Palestinians will have felt dehumanised and hated in Israel I also have Palestinian friends including Gazans who have shared their experiences and the way they shaped them with me.
I was talking about the pretence that there isn't hatred towards Jews in the Middle East not that Israel has no blood on their hands.
This is a region and these are cultures that I have real experience of. This isn't about you or 'all' muslims. It is about a region. Do you think that Iran is some random outlier with it's parliament standing up and cheering at Oct 7th and chanting death to Israel, death to Jews? I just don't get the denial