I have family in israel (though the bet is that in a few years, they would all have left). As a Jewish person I want to support Israel. But my conscience doesn't allow me to. I support Israel 's right to defend itself but I cannot condone their killing of innocents.
My DH who grew up orthodox, who grew up singing the hatikvah, who attended Jewish school all his life including years in a chabad primary school, who went on school trips to Israel, who has family in Israel, who was never a supporter of the Palestinians cause. But he donated to Palestine via donating to unicef because he, like me, felt he could no longer condone this.
For him like me, probably our breaking point was seeing our relatives support the IDF's actions while
(a) not serving in the idf despite being israeli citizens and moving back to Israel as single men in their 20s
(b) wanting to squeeze out every shekel out of the israeli government
(c) moving away from Israel/planning to move away from israel once they got their partners as if the whole aliyah project is some sort of sex and shekels incentive scheme for the under 30s. Its not that our relatives are bad people, it's just what the schemes are there for. If you had this scheme in uk people would do the same too just that no government in their right mind would sanction this. I guess its just as Well it's hard to survive in Israel once the benefits end.
And no this is not a religious vs secular thing, the religious gets tons of benefits too like my MIL's settler friend whose house is in some poor Arab's backyard!
Yes these are people we know in real life and then we see the pictures of dead babies on bbc.
We might be zionists but we can also see when people are taking the piss. And no thats not just my relatives. What about the Russians who go there to get a first world passport and then go back? What about the settlers..what about the people who move beyond the green line for real life mcmansions
There are spongers in every country but only in Israel it is seen as some sort of godly ordained mission.
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