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Conflict in the Middle East

To be worried about the effects on British society of the conflict in Gaza

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mids2019 · 02/04/2024 20:39

Everyone is aware of the conflict in Gaza and we are delivered information on a daily basis through a range of online media.

I personally think there is an immense human tragedy here and the reporting on the whole is responsible. However I think we must realise in reality we fundamentally can't change the actions of foreign states but governments when appropriate can exert diplomatic pressure. Ultimately the US is the biggest geopolitical player when it comes to Israel.

I do think we have to be conscious of effects within or society in the UK about the prolonged deep feeling about this conflict including rising anti semitism and Islamaohibia. I feel it is very important to maintain community relations within a diverse country and I fear the polarisation brought in some parts of so sorry brought on by the Gaza conflict has a direct and maybe permanent impact on the community ties that bind us in the UK.

I think we have to remember we are all citizens of the UK and we live in a democratic state whose aim on an international level is to act on our interests forging alliances with friends and allies in the world. Israel is an ally of the UK and independent of the current crisis we will have trade and military ties with this partner state.

We have a record of welcoming historically welcoming both Jews and people from majority Muslim countries into the country and I would hate to think that the inflamed feeling about a foreign war leads to permanent division in the UK.

I feel we polarize society into 'Pro palestine' and 'pro Israel' at some level of our identities and these divisions may become permanent given the length and intracractibility of the conflict.

What can be done to make everyone feel safe in this country as far as possible and bond us in terms of being UK citizens in a global community?

OP posts:
PinkTeaForMe · 03/04/2024 11:09

Dancingontheedge · 03/04/2024 10:53

PinkTeaForMe

’Please take your 'concern' elsewhere. Maybe to the Daily Mail forums where you can openly rant til your heart is content and not have to think so carefully about how to disguise your actual views.’

‘The Daily Mail website had more than 218 million unique visitors per month in 2020.’

People tend to worry more about things that directly affect them first.
Number of Israeli acts of terrorism on UK soil?
Number of terrorist attacks by Islamic militants on UK soil?
Extend that to Europe.
People who are afraid for themselves and their families are often irrational.
218 million a month are reading the Daily Mail’s website and internalising their message.

The press report what they want to report and with whatever lens suits their narrative. Unfortunately people are internalising that message - all 218 million of them per month. It's no wonder Islamophobia is rife.

Dancingontheedge · 03/04/2024 11:20

So, how to counteract that?
What to put in the other pan of the scales weighted down with negative images of Islam that aren’t just baseless lies?
Because you are working against terrorist bombings, child grooming gangs, threats to women’s rights, illegal immigration, killing and death threats against teachers, Afghanistan and the Taliban imagery, people fleeing Muslim countries for fear of persecution and claiming asylum in the UK, claims that Islam will be the dominant faith in Europe in a generation….all of which make headlines and make people shudder and fear.

All Israel has to do is continue to present itself as the front line against the threat, the David facing the monster and they will be seen as a necessary evil.

Scirocco · 03/04/2024 11:24

The amount of casual and potentially even unrecognised Islamophobia on these boards is rather disappointing. It's just 'normal conversation ' now.

Dancingontheedge · 03/04/2024 11:28

Scirocco
How would you go about countering it?
Undoing the fear that drives most of the prejudice, to make everyone feel safe and secure?

headstone · 03/04/2024 11:37

There is currently a thread in chat about a daughter reverting to Islam if you want an active example of casual islamophobia.

greenlettuce · 03/04/2024 11:56

I think there is danger with using a "phobia" suffix. People are allowed views, this is the same for many topics and the labelling of phobic is not helpful in my view.

Scirocco · 03/04/2024 12:04

greenlettuce · 03/04/2024 11:56

I think there is danger with using a "phobia" suffix. People are allowed views, this is the same for many topics and the labelling of phobic is not helpful in my view.

I don't like the term either. A 'phobia' is generally thought of as a health issue, for which a person is not responsible and has limited or no control. That trivialises and excuses prejudice and hate. The Wikipedia article on the term has a brief summary of its origins and differing views on the term.

headstone · 03/04/2024 12:04

What happens when those views perpetuate unpleasant and harmful stereotypes? We wouldn’t tolerate those views relating to other minorities.

greenlettuce · 03/04/2024 12:08

It is possible that people have view which depend upon the cirumstances - the use of the term phobic shuts down discussion

headstone · 03/04/2024 12:10

It clearly doesn’t shut down discussion, or change any of these ‘views’ however it serves as a reminder that these views are often harmful.

PinkTeaForMe · 03/04/2024 12:13

headstone · 03/04/2024 11:37

There is currently a thread in chat about a daughter reverting to Islam if you want an active example of casual islamophobia.

Thanks for the heads-up. I've just had a read. Definitely the DM brigade on that one!

greenlettuce · 03/04/2024 12:14

The use of the term "phobic" in any circumstances and applied to any views is basically stating the fear is irrational and inbuilt. It is possible to have a view on this conflict without being phobic.

Dancingontheedge · 03/04/2024 12:15

What happens when those views perpetuate unpleasant and harmful stereotypes? We wouldn’t tolerate those views relating to other minorities.

Really?
You don’t think unpleasant and harmful stereotypes are tolerated by people unless they’re about Muslims and Islam?
Tell the Black Communities, the Traveller Communities amd a dozen other minorities that they are not subject to harmful stereotyping.

headstone · 03/04/2024 12:22

I’m sorry, yes we do unfortunately tolerate a lot of unpleasant views about many ethnic minorities and it shouldn’t be seen as acceptable.

Underthinker · 03/04/2024 12:24

PinkTeaForMe · 03/04/2024 12:13

Thanks for the heads-up. I've just had a read. Definitely the DM brigade on that one!

Really? I read three pages of it, and it was mostly people helpfully suggesting Halal recipes and a couple of clarifications around the terms revert vs convert. I quite possibly missed something offensive but the overwhelming tone was supportive wasn't it?

headstone · 03/04/2024 12:30

Underthinker, whilst there are many posts about food suggestions. There are quite a few with the stereotypical view she must be brain washed and that this is a parents worst nightmare.

mids2019 · 03/04/2024 12:31

OK

You've got me. I am 'pro Israel's

I am pro Israel if that means:

Accepting a right of a nation state to defence after a mass terrorist attack

Accepting the existence of the state of Israel and it's legitimacy

Acknowledging the supply of arms to Israel as it needs a defence against a number of regional enemies including Iran

And ......I am distressed by the images and stories coming out of the middle east. I am human

I think if we want sustained community relationships in the UK we can't start from a premise that Israel is a malign state which is hell bent on the destruction of the Palestinian people. That narrative leads to Israel and by extent it's people being portrayed in a simple negative light which is unfair.

We need to recognise feeling about civilian casualties in Gaza while simultaneously recognising the genuine fear of Jews in this country partly due to the only Jewish state coming under extremely hostile sloganising.

Can anyone criticise the below document which states the UK position until 2030.

Israel is strongly supported by the UK as evidenced by our immediate sympathy by our PM after the events of October 7th.

I am against anti Muslim sentiment but we need to start constructive debate which doesn't allow anti semitism as a price worth paying for unfettered protest against the Israeli leadership and military.

In my view such a stance is no way against a section of UK society or discriminatory.

We dont need to embed community division by angry protest that ultimately doesn't change the dial in terms of a foreign conflict

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.gov.uk/government/publications/2030-roadmap-for-uk-israel-bilateral-relations/2030-roadmap-for-uk-israel-bilateral-relations&ved=2ahUKEwjov4eV96WFAxVwV0EAHedVATIQFnoECCkQAQ&usg=AOvVaw379LIzn94IvAYceRO9K1Td

https://www.google.com/url?opi=89978449&rct=j&sa=t&source=web&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.gov.uk%2Fgovernment%2Fpublications%2F2030-roadmap-for-uk-israel-bilateral-relations%2F2030-roadmap-for-uk-israel-bilateral-relations&usg=AOvVaw379LIzn94IvAYceRO9K1Td&ved=2ahUKEwjov4eV96WFAxVwV0EAHedVATIQFnoECCkQAQ

OP posts:
PinkTeaForMe · 03/04/2024 13:20

Underthinker · 03/04/2024 12:24

Really? I read three pages of it, and it was mostly people helpfully suggesting Halal recipes and a couple of clarifications around the terms revert vs convert. I quite possibly missed something offensive but the overwhelming tone was supportive wasn't it?

One person commented that she needs to get her children to the church before the unthinkable happens. And the general tone of being brainwashed and naive. I guess you're being extremely selective in the bits you're commenting on here.

Parkingt111 · 03/04/2024 13:35

@mids2019 if you were living in a place where everyday you risked dying, you and your children are starving and alot of your friends and family have been killed, your home destroyed. And everyday you wake up not knowing if you will survive to see the next or blown to pieces.
Would you expect your friends and family in other countries to just say yes very sad and continue with their lives or would you want them to speak up and do everything possible to raise awareness of your plight in the hope it will make a change?

1dayatatime · 03/04/2024 13:51

@Scirocco

"There is a very strong anti-Muslim sentiment in many areas of society and government. So it would be inaccurate in the eyes of many to promote the current government and society as being 'not anti-Muslim'"

There is without doubt very strong anti Muslim sentiment in many areas of society and Govt just as there is very strong anti Jewish sentiment.

The issue I see is that the conflict in Gaza creates further polarisation and division in UK society (as if the division caused by Brexit wasn't enough) that fuels further anti Muslim and anti Jewish sentiments in UK society and Govt making the existing problem bigger.

There is currently no seeing the conflict from the other side. It is simply I'm right and you are wrong plus you are an evil terrorist supporter or evil genocide supporter for Kayan opposing view.

SummerFeverVenice · 03/04/2024 13:59

And what of the Palestinian Christians also trapped and dying in Gaza, East Jerusalem and the West Bank?

This isn’t a Muslims vs Jews war. It is Israelis vs Palestinians war where Israel has a full army/air force/navy and the Palestinians have nothing but illegally armed and formed grassroots terrorist groups that Israel apparently thinks all Palestinians are card and AK-47 carrying members of.

Silence1 · 03/04/2024 14:01

@mids2019 There has been a lot of criticism of that roadmap and that was before what is happening in Gaza now. The average UK citizen probably wasn't even aware that the UK was becoming besties with a lunatic Israeli govt.

stormy4319trevor · 03/04/2024 14:14

@SummerFeverVenice Yes, there is very little concern for Palestinian Christians, which I think is tragic. They are probably the oldest Christian community in the world, and seem to suffer some hostility within Jerusalem itself. I'm always surprised that Christians abroad don't seem to express much concern for them, though I know the Pope has done. I also wonder what is happening in the Armenian community in Jerusalem.

SummerFeverVenice · 03/04/2024 14:25

stormy4319trevor · 03/04/2024 14:14

@SummerFeverVenice Yes, there is very little concern for Palestinian Christians, which I think is tragic. They are probably the oldest Christian community in the world, and seem to suffer some hostility within Jerusalem itself. I'm always surprised that Christians abroad don't seem to express much concern for them, though I know the Pope has done. I also wonder what is happening in the Armenian community in Jerusalem.

They are currently trying to fight off a land grab by an Israeli settler developer.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/mar/03/jerusalem-land-grab-armenian-community-fear-eviction-after-contentious-deal

The community has been in East Jerusalem for 1,600 years. Longer than the Normans currently populating the British ruling class and royal family…..

Jerusalem ‘land grab’: Armenian community fear eviction after contentious deal

A developer has acquired historic land at seemingly bargain rates, amid claims of links to a settler group

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/mar/03/jerusalem-land-grab-armenian-community-fear-eviction-after-contentious-deal

Looolaa · 03/04/2024 14:27

TextureSeeker · 03/04/2024 00:54

I think we have to remember we are all citizens of the UK and we live in a democratic state whose aim on an international level is to act on our interests forging alliances with friends and allies in the world. Israel is an ally of the UK and independent of the current crisis we will have trade and military ties with this partner state.

And this is more important to you than the fact that it is very likely that your country is aiding and abetting war crimes breaking International law?

I'm not in the UK I have no skin in the game but I was wondering earlier how 3 British citizens being killed whilst on a humanitarian mission to feed people who are being starved to death has gotten fuck all reaction on mumsnet. When the news last night suggested that an Irish citizen was killed Irish forums were ablaze with 'our government needs to act now' but 3 British citizens are killed and crickets....

The UK is complicit in war crimes, stopping this is where the urgent attention of every single British citizen should be. How on earth can you expect there not to be 'tensions' when your government is complicit in the deaths of your citizens and the family and friends of your citizens.

This. Spot on.

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