My family were "middle class" too, I suppose.
They were from Iraq, Lebanon, Iraq and Egypt where they had lived for hundreds of years after being expelled, like many Jews, from their birthplace of Israel. They had lived in relative safety and comfort, but, of course, they were dhimmi. Which meant they were banned, as Jews, from living in certain places, doing certain jobs, acting in government, bearing arms, testifying in court against a Muslim or wearing fancy or expensive clothes - amongst other things.
It was, of course, apartheid, in the most obvious way, but is reframed nowadays as some kind of benevolent generosity that the Muslims allowed the Jews to live. Whilst I harbour no animosity of any kind for what occurred before WWI, the truth is - Jews and Christians were conquered by Muslims who then subjugated them as second class citizens under law. This is a simple fact. They were also subjected to dozens and dozens of pogroms and expulsions. Things were never fair, nor equal.
Anyhoo, despite that, my family were lucky. One of my grandparents owned a little shop in Lebanon and her father was a well respected Rabbi. Another actually worked in the royal palace in Egypt as a teacher to the Pharoah's children.
And every one of them was ethnically cleansed out of their home by antisemitic Muslims; first in Iraq, the Egypt, then Lebanon. After years of horrific treatment - from street lynchings to anti-Jewish laws and daily broadcasts on the national radio stations by the Nazi party (who by the way literally TRAVELLED to these places to "train" the local Muslims on how to get people to hate Jews), they were stripped of everything they owned and booted out of the only country they had ever known.
Despite being full citizens of those places, they were Jewish, and thus did not count as equal to other citizens - they were considered foreigners in their own home country as has been the case for Jews since time began. They had no UNRWA, no foreign aid payments and no tears shed for them - they had to begin again in a country several thousand miles away they'd never set foot in before.
They have never had a cent of compensation, and neither has any of the hundreds of thousands of Jews who were similarly ethically cleansed from their homes in the middle east. The land they lost in total was 33 times the size of Israel and not a cent was ever paid to them for it. The wealth they lost was astronomical and not a penny was ever paid back. It was all taken, and that was that.
I never once heard them moan or whinge, they just moved forward. No they did not keep the keys to the homes that were once their which were taken from them or navel gaze for 76 years. They remembered their young years very fondly, and moved forwards. They wish no harm on the citizens of Lebanon, Iraq or Egypt. It's hardly their fault. They have no desire to kill anybody to "take back" what was once Grandmas in 1940.
Every single one of them was stripped of every single thing they owned, deprived of their nationality and booted out. And posts like yours absolutely infuriate me.
I harbour zero ill will towards Muslims, but this was a conflict, from the beginning of Muslim supremacy. They swept through the lands of the levant, persia and wider and took over the indigenous lands and subjugated all the people's who once lived there. Then made them dhimmi and reigned supreme.
Do I judge them for that?
Not really - frankly back then everyone was doing it!
Then when Jews were awarded the entirely fair right to autonomy in just a tiny part of the land which was once theirs, the fact is they didn't like the idea of Jews running the place. And therefore a war began which has lasted 76 years.
Were some Arab Muslims expelled from their homes? Yes, but these are the facts you are missing:
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Very few owned a damn thing! At that time more than half the land was owned by the Ottoman empire and half the remainder was owned by rich Syrians and Egyptians who didn't even live there!
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During the Ottoman empire, and even partly during the British mandate, Jewish people were banned from buying land in Israel. They were forcibly stopped from habiting the land of their natural identity because Arabs (sorry) frankly did not like the idea of Jews being in large numbers on their own land.
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Those who did live in their indigenous home, were forced to live as dhimmi, like all other non Muslims - making self determination actually very important. Had they been given a right to live freely and equally on the land which was historically their own then they never would have needed an independent state to begin with!
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The conflict both before and after the foundation of Israel as a modern state post WWI was not Jews decision! They invited and asked for peace and the Arab league got together and said there was absolutely no way they were accepting their dhimmi having rule over "Islamic land" and THEY decided to launch a war to try and kill all the Jews are take over Israel. The fact that they lost this war is the root of their tragic tale!
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Whilst SOME Arab Muslims were indeed forcibly removed from their homes, historical evidence demonstrates that SOME left of their own accord to avoid the war (fully expecting that they'd be back in two weeks once all the Jews were dead) and SOME were told by the Pan Arab league to leave to make way for war, with a promise they'd be home. Flyers were dropped from the sky telling them this!
The point being, had that war gone the other way, the Arabs would have won the war, killed or expelled all the Jews and Arab Muslims would be living in Jewish houses now. This is the simple way the world works!
Those Arab Muslims who decided NOT to try and overthrow Israel, remained where they were and are now thriving members of the Israeli community - with seats on the knesset, homes, jobs, serving in the IDF and more.
No blame is on modern day Palestinians for the behavior of others during the Ottoman empire, British mandate or even the Arab league war. Likewise no blame is on modern day Israelis. Peace is a two way street and the simple fact is that Arabs did not want Jews to have their own country and NOR did they want to allow them to live in their countries as equal and safe citizens. They wanted them wiped off earth.
The tragedy of the "nakba" is not that it occurred. A larger nakba occurred for Jews, and for many more people. Today alone, FAR more people are displaced and disposed. With a heck of a lot less support!
Modern day Israel is TINY. Large swathes of what was once Israel is now a part of Jordan, Syria, Lebanon or Egypt. There are not swathes of Jews or Christians crying decades later over being moved - although they were! Modern day Israel is 115km across. I mean, we are talking about moving from London to Birmingham! It is simply not a big deal and certainly not worth generations of death and bombs.
The simple truth is that Muslims did not want to live in equality with Jews, and both Jews and Muslims have a right to be there. As such, it is right and fair that there are two separate states, and the minute that's accepted and people stop trying to play off Palestinians are unique victims then they can move forward.
My family did it! And I am glad they did! I would HATE the idea that we'd wasted 80 years trying to kill Iraqis! This situation simply has to stop!