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Conflict in the Middle East

To wonder how anyone thought what was happening in Gaza was ok?

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march10th · 26/03/2024 17:47

I see all these threads popping up about outrage about what's going on, especially now the UN and the US have started acknowledging the situation.
AIBU to wonder how people didn't see this from the beginning??

It's been months and thousands of people have been wiped out. As an Arab with close family links to Palestine, I think this is ethnic cleansing, similar to what Western countries have done to the indigenous people of Australia and America.

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Treeper22 · 26/03/2024 20:31

CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 20:27

Thanks for the reply. It’s so easy to shout past each other in this discussion, I’m pleased this isn’t happening. I guess a constructive way to look at it would be to focus on a solution. I pray for a ceasefire but I understand (and agree with) the position that you can’t have a ceasefire without any conditions. Some people are saying that Israel should stop their military campaign even without the return of the hostages.

I also think you cannot have a lasting peace with Hamas and they are not a viable negotiating partner on any negotiation on statehood. So it’s difficult to know what to do.

I do think the Israelis have probably given up on any two-state solution though - for them it’s just a perpetual management of the status quo.

I think this is probably the closest we will come to agreement! Yes, the terrible thing about this is that, after all the shouting and mud slinging and insults, the majority do just want peace.

Sadly, I agree, I don't see how this can ever come to pass.

Scirocco · 26/03/2024 20:32

Treeper22 · 26/03/2024 20:28

Except the reasons behind her perspective is based on fallacy and a refusal to countenance that there are those in the IDF (as there are in all armies of any country) open to killing civilians. There is no race/religion above the most vile of human actions sadly. No side is all virtuous and no side is all evil

The poster clearly indicated she didn't want to engage in a discussion with me, so I've thanked her for replying and respected that.

Treeper22 · 26/03/2024 20:34

Scirocco · 26/03/2024 20:32

The poster clearly indicated she didn't want to engage in a discussion with me, so I've thanked her for replying and respected that.

Fair enough

PeasfullPerson · 26/03/2024 20:38

Comedycook · 26/03/2024 19:33

We just know that if we voice our opinions it's what they are labelled as

Well you've voiced your opinion here and haven't been called anti semetic have you? In what situation do you feel you can't voice your opinion?

I'm afraid I see this notion that you can't speak out against Israel without being called anti semetic as absolute nonsense.

It reminds me of right wing types who proclaim that they can't say "happy Christmas" anymore, because people get offended. It's just not accurate.

I'm Jewish, my dh is not...but I had one of his relatives sit in my house whilst speaking out against Israel while I listened in silence, then proclaim that he couldn't say anything about the situation without being called anti semetic. Utterly bizarre.

I have to disagree, it isn’t nonsense, there have been consequences for some people (not all) who have spoken out about what is happening in Palestine. This was especially the case towards the start of the war. I think OP’s concerns are valid, especially as they say they are an Arab with links to Palestine. Unfortunately not everyone is able to accept other peoples views without stereotyping, demonising, or resorting to trying to devalue that actual individual.

Comedycook · 26/03/2024 20:43

PeasfullPerson · 26/03/2024 20:38

I have to disagree, it isn’t nonsense, there have been consequences for some people (not all) who have spoken out about what is happening in Palestine. This was especially the case towards the start of the war. I think OP’s concerns are valid, especially as they say they are an Arab with links to Palestine. Unfortunately not everyone is able to accept other peoples views without stereotyping, demonising, or resorting to trying to devalue that actual individual.

You'll be far safer walking round London with a Palestinian flag than you would be with an Israeli one.

march10th · 26/03/2024 20:49

Comedycook · 26/03/2024 19:33

We just know that if we voice our opinions it's what they are labelled as

Well you've voiced your opinion here and haven't been called anti semetic have you? In what situation do you feel you can't voice your opinion?

I'm afraid I see this notion that you can't speak out against Israel without being called anti semetic as absolute nonsense.

It reminds me of right wing types who proclaim that they can't say "happy Christmas" anymore, because people get offended. It's just not accurate.

I'm Jewish, my dh is not...but I had one of his relatives sit in my house whilst speaking out against Israel while I listened in silence, then proclaim that he couldn't say anything about the situation without being called anti semetic. Utterly bizarre.

Thats the thing, you cant decide my experience is invalid because you cant imagine it happening. When this first started I had my account closed twice, and honestly, all I did was ask the same stuff I'm asking now. I never said anything hateful.

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march10th · 26/03/2024 20:53

Treeper22 · 26/03/2024 19:54

Precisely!

yes. And the Israeli government is not hiding that it wants Palestine for itself. What happens to the people already there? Well, it's what's happening now.

What Hamas did is a result of 70 years of caged-up humans turning into vile monsters. It was disgusting and inhuman. They dont represent the people of Palestine, not one bit. But Israel has used it as an excuse to wipe out everyone that remains.

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Parkingt111 · 26/03/2024 20:54

@march10th it is tough and I'm sorry for what you are going through. I feel I'm in the same boat as you and there's alot I struggle with. I was one who always envisioned a two state solution and a future of peace but as each day goes by, its more and more difficult to see it actually happening
Gaza has been destroyed. Whole generations traumatised. Everyone has lost someone, thousands of children dead and thousands more injured and there's no end in sight.

march10th · 26/03/2024 20:54

CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 19:59

You are right, you can’t defeat an ideology with bombs, but you can kill a lot of terrorists and enfeeble their infrastructure and organisation. Israel face a mortal threat from an enemy who would commit another holocaust against the Jews given half the chance.

Israel are not deliberately killing civilians. Civilian deaths are a cost of war. A terrible but unavoidable cost. As I say, no easy choices. I believe it is a just war. But I know people have entrenched positions on this.

I ask this with the desire to understand... are you personally Jewish or Israeli? In my head I see you are not wanting to see the other side, and I just want to understand why.

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march10th · 26/03/2024 20:55

Comedycook · 26/03/2024 20:43

You'll be far safer walking round London with a Palestinian flag than you would be with an Israeli one.

I dont feel safe wearing a Palestinian scarf or anything with a flag/watermelon.

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CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 20:57

march10th · 26/03/2024 20:54

I ask this with the desire to understand... are you personally Jewish or Israeli? In my head I see you are not wanting to see the other side, and I just want to understand why.

Neither

Auvergne63 · 26/03/2024 20:59

CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 19:59

You are right, you can’t defeat an ideology with bombs, but you can kill a lot of terrorists and enfeeble their infrastructure and organisation. Israel face a mortal threat from an enemy who would commit another holocaust against the Jews given half the chance.

Israel are not deliberately killing civilians. Civilian deaths are a cost of war. A terrible but unavoidable cost. As I say, no easy choices. I believe it is a just war. But I know people have entrenched positions on this.

You consider deliberately starving an entire people a just war?

march10th · 26/03/2024 21:03

CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 20:57

Neither

That confuses me even more. Why can't you see the other side then? Palestine was thriving when my grandparents lived there. My parents had to leave by the skin of their teeth to neighbouring Arab states where they were second-class citizens. They raised us with all they could. They'll never go back to their homes or their land. And they have it better than those who are still there, living in a literal open prison for decades. We have jobs, food, warmth, and comfort. Although most refugees who left Palestine and are living in arab countries are undocumented and 'stateless', most are without passports (unless they managed to obtain Western passports through immigration).

Do you not see that the Palestinians opened up their country to refugees, who then went on to slowly take over and build a country with one of the most intense militaries in the region, while the Palestinians became rock-throwing refugees in their own country?

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CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 21:04

Auvergne63 · 26/03/2024 20:59

You consider deliberately starving an entire people a just war?

I don’t accept that is what is happening. Neither that the civilian deaths are deliberate. Individual soldiers committing misconduct is not the same as saying that the Israelis as a whole deliberately target civilians. I see Hamas for what they are though - they are jihadists and hold to an ideology that hates Jews (we know this because jihadism is a global problem and not Gaza-specific).

CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 21:08

march10th · 26/03/2024 21:03

That confuses me even more. Why can't you see the other side then? Palestine was thriving when my grandparents lived there. My parents had to leave by the skin of their teeth to neighbouring Arab states where they were second-class citizens. They raised us with all they could. They'll never go back to their homes or their land. And they have it better than those who are still there, living in a literal open prison for decades. We have jobs, food, warmth, and comfort. Although most refugees who left Palestine and are living in arab countries are undocumented and 'stateless', most are without passports (unless they managed to obtain Western passports through immigration).

Do you not see that the Palestinians opened up their country to refugees, who then went on to slowly take over and build a country with one of the most intense militaries in the region, while the Palestinians became rock-throwing refugees in their own country?

I don’t accept that. The Jewish people are also indigenous to that land - they are not refugees who took it over. But I fear this could start an even bigger debate!

march10th · 26/03/2024 21:08

CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 21:04

I don’t accept that is what is happening. Neither that the civilian deaths are deliberate. Individual soldiers committing misconduct is not the same as saying that the Israelis as a whole deliberately target civilians. I see Hamas for what they are though - they are jihadists and hold to an ideology that hates Jews (we know this because jihadism is a global problem and not Gaza-specific).

Dont you see that what Israel is doing to the people of Palestine is the same as what was done to them in WW2?

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CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 21:10

march10th · 26/03/2024 21:08

Dont you see that what Israel is doing to the people of Palestine is the same as what was done to them in WW2?

No. There is no proper comparison with the Holocaust.

Comedycook · 26/03/2024 21:10

march10th · 26/03/2024 21:08

Dont you see that what Israel is doing to the people of Palestine is the same as what was done to them in WW2?

6 million people were murdered. Put onto cattle trucks and gassed.

No. It's not the same.

march10th · 26/03/2024 21:10

CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 21:08

I don’t accept that. The Jewish people are also indigenous to that land - they are not refugees who took it over. But I fear this could start an even bigger debate!

Do you dispute that before WW2 Isreal didn't exist? and it was created in 1948 as a land within the already established Palestine?

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march10th · 26/03/2024 21:12

Comedycook · 26/03/2024 21:10

6 million people were murdered. Put onto cattle trucks and gassed.

No. It's not the same.

where the death toll is now estimated at 32,000, while uncounted thousands of other Palestinian people remain buried under rubble. Seventy percent of the victims, a UN committee found, have been children and women

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march10th · 26/03/2024 21:13

Comedycook · 26/03/2024 21:10

6 million people were murdered. Put onto cattle trucks and gassed.

No. It's not the same.

As Raz Segal – an Israeli-American associate professor of genocide and Holocaust studies – , Israel’s onslaught on Gaza is unique “in the sense of discussing it as what I think it is – that is, genocide – because the intent is so clearly articulated. And it’s articulated throughout Israeli media and society and politics.”

Raz Segal | The Guardian

Raz Segal is an associate professor of Holocaust and genocide studies at Stockton University and the endowed professor in the study of modern genocide

https://www.theguardian.com/profile/raz-segal

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CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 21:13

march10th · 26/03/2024 21:10

Do you dispute that before WW2 Isreal didn't exist? and it was created in 1948 as a land within the already established Palestine?

Israel existed as a kingdom in the ancient world. Palestine was never an established state - it was part of various empires and then was a British mandate before 1948. The UN partitioned it into two states which the Arabs rejected. But we can all read up on the history.

Tripper79 · 26/03/2024 21:14

CaterhamReconstituted · 26/03/2024 21:04

I don’t accept that is what is happening. Neither that the civilian deaths are deliberate. Individual soldiers committing misconduct is not the same as saying that the Israelis as a whole deliberately target civilians. I see Hamas for what they are though - they are jihadists and hold to an ideology that hates Jews (we know this because jihadism is a global problem and not Gaza-specific).

Unfortunately it doesn’t matter whether you accept or not, the evidence is there that it is happening. Just as the evidence is there that it is not a few rogue soldiers targeting civilians.

In the first few months of Israel’s bombing campaign, they dropped thousands of 2,000 pound dumb bombs - unguided missiles that were capable of killing and maiming people up to 1’000 feet away. In a highly populated area which they knew would be full of hundreds of children. And yet they dropped them anyway, not knowing where they would land. So the evidence is there, maybe you just don’t want to see it?

march10th · 26/03/2024 21:14

Benjamin Netanyahu twice “invoked the Biblical story of the total destruction of Amalek”, declaring: “You must remember what Amalek has done to you, says our Holy Bible. And we do remember.” A later passage in the Bible leaves no doubt for interpretation: “Now go and smite Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and spare them not; but slay both man and woman, infant and suckling, ox and sheep, camel and ass.” This was no throwaway comment. Consider the unprecedented slaughter of Palestinian children – or “infants and sucklings” – and note that six days after invoking Amalek in a national address, Netanyahu referred to it again in a letter to army soldiers and officers.

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