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Snowypeak · 17/02/2024 13:18

@FOJN
i agree with what you say about a population being controlled by fear. It’s exactly what is happening.

ScrollingLeaves · 17/02/2024 13:31

HeidiInTheBigCity · 16/02/2024 22:55

This might be a weird "thanks" but: yes! Many of them are genuinely terrified!

Terrified and indoctrinated to be so. And armed to the teeth. It makes for quite a horrific combination!

My one single "most haunting" memory of Palestine does not include anyone being killed or maimed - although I have seen people, including children, be killed and maimed before my own eyes!

My one "most haunting" memory of "first time in Palestine" consists of something "very normal and par for the course" at the time: the realisation that - as we approached those teenage soldiers with their APC, their armoured Jeep and their machine guns that one day - they were so terrified of me (an unarmed, white, British, underweight 20-year-old) that, first, they stuck any and all guns in my face. And once they realised they were not going to die [which they were never going to - we were just trying to pass, all civilians, all unarmed], they decided to "only" beat the one Palestinian in our little group of three to such a pulp that the remaining two of us had to drag him and hold him up for the rest of the way.

But still, and this is the bit that REALLY haunts me: one of those teenage soldiers - I would have been around 20 and blonde and very pretty back then - decided to ask for my number and suggested I go to some party in Tel Aviv with him on the weekend. He had only just a) been terrified at the sight of me, b) determined I was not personally a threat and, c) participated in brutally assaulting someone I was with, a friend!

What really haunts me to this day is: one minute, he was terrified! But the very next: he asked me on a date, having just taken part in the brutal assault against a friend of mine. And - as per what I could tell - he genuinely did not understand that "fuck, no! I will NOT date anyone who beats a friend of mine to a pulp!!!" was a total "deal breaker" for me. He did not even seem to be entertaining the notion that - to me - he might be "one of the baddies", or that his behaviour might read as "vile".

So, yes, they are terrified.

But being terrified is no justification for "being a monster"!

This one genuinely haunts me to this very day! It is not the beating. Not the unwarranted violence!

What still haunts me is that he - ever so casually - assumed I might still go on a date with him. Ever so casually assuming that I did not think less of him, on a personal level, for just having participated in a violent assault on someone I cared about. But the victim was "only" Palestinian. And I would have been young and pretty.

What haunts me is the realisation that he just, very casually, assumed I would care about Palestinians as little as he did, and that him literally brutalising my friend was not going to be a "hard no" in terms of "but: would she date me"?

Yes, he was terrified! And, still, he was a horrible monster!

How haunting, HeidiOnTheBigCity

It is as though, in his eyes, the beaten one’s existence was an irrelevance, or even a pestilence like a cockroach, assumed to be such by anyone ‘civilised’ like you (as he believed you must be) and him. It seems like viciously enacted racism.

Snowypeak · 17/02/2024 13:42

Yes, this is what bothered me initially about the coverage of Israel/Gaza (less so now, thankfully). That we must all be automatically on the side of Israel because they were human, “like us”. The hundreds of Israeli victims’ names and photos being published while the thousands of dead Gazans were just random nameless bodies.

I think it came as a surprise to some that so many people cared just as much about those Gazan children as they did about the Israeli children.

FOJN · 17/02/2024 14:15

madderthanahatter · 17/02/2024 13:16

Whilst the Israeli impulse to seek vengeance is understandable

This is what I don't get. Israel have been oppressing, occupying, killing and torturing Palestinians for decades. The numbers from the last twenty years alone show this is not some sort of tit for tat conflict.
Hamas killed 1600+ people on 7/10. So many more Palestinians have been killed prior to this, and 25k+ in the last 100 or so days. So why is Israel's impulse to seek vengeance understandable? Should it not be the other way around?

The Israelis think and appear to have always thought they are victims of Palestinian violence, their violence towards the Palestinians is necessary and justified. Because many don't see Palestinians as human beings of equal worth 1600 dead Israelis is much worse than 25,000 Palestinians.

I think the shock and brutality of the attack genuinely felt like an existential threat and they wanted it dealt with at any cost. I can understand why they felt that way.

I am not claiming that represents an accurate or considered assessment of the threat but that I can understand why there would have been a desire and support for "act now, ask questions later" in the immediate aftermath of the attack.

ScrollingLeaves · 17/02/2024 14:31

10UsernamesNotAvailableTryAnotherOne · 17/02/2024 10:01

Snowypeak-You're absolutely correct, except for one thing. Only one side is being indoctrinated into hating the other and it isn't the Palestinians, or at least not nearly to the same extent. It is important to remember that whether in the West Bank, Gaza, or East Jerusalem, all the education materials of the Palestinians is vetted by either Israel or the UN. Palestinians don't nearly have as much control over their lives as the Israeli's and that also applies to their education. They don't need to be indoctrinated into hating Israel, because Israel is oppressing and killing them. Robert Martin had a very interesting interview with Professor Nurit Peled Elhanan (Miko Peled's sister) on the subject.

https://twitter.com/RobertMartin72/status/1727559005445537842

https://twitter.com/RobertMartin72/status/1727559005445537842

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That interview is very interesting, thank you for posting it. The effects of the Jewish education system in causing Jewish children to both fear and despise Palestinians is very clear; as is the Jewish education system’s intent to explete Palestinian’s own knowledge about themselves.

I note she has taken this interest in the plight of the Palestinians as created and maintained by the Israeli education system even though her own daughter was murdered in a Palestinian suicide raid.

On the other hand, haven’t we seen evidence posted on threads here that UNWRA schools were teaching anti-Israeli propaganda? Though if true that could well be an effect of the Israeli subjugation discussed in the interview.
She mentioned the common semantics of reversing cause and effect.

10UsernamesNotAvailableTryAnotherOne · 17/02/2024 15:08

ScrollingLeaves-You are very welcome! I'm glad you found it interesting. The fact that she lost her child due to a suicide bombing and still has a deep empathy for the Palestinians struck a cord with me as well. She is a amazing women.

Even though there could be some anti-Israeli propaganda out there (which is, like you said, the effect of how Palestinians are treated), the accusation that there is wide-scale indoctrination is not possible. Palestinian education is too strictly controlled for that. I think the accusation that UNWRA schools teach hate is simply projection. I noticed that Israel and Israel supporters like to do a lot of projection. And also Israel HATES UNWRA and is willing to fling as much mud as possible at it until something sticks. You see this with the claims that UNWRA members are Hamas and took part in the October 7 attacks, which there is still no evidence for this.

fleurneige · 17/02/2024 15:19

To tell people of such a small land to flee to one part where they would be safe, wait for them to get there, in huge numbers without any facilities, and bomb them in their 1000s is a very very clever military tactic. It has a name GENOCIDE. And to tell those remaining that leaving for another country, where they are not welcome, and without the right to return, also has a name ETHNIC CLEANSING. Both diabolical and illegal too.

Babyboomtastic · 17/02/2024 16:03

10UsernamesNotAvailableTryAnotherOne · 17/02/2024 15:08

ScrollingLeaves-You are very welcome! I'm glad you found it interesting. The fact that she lost her child due to a suicide bombing and still has a deep empathy for the Palestinians struck a cord with me as well. She is a amazing women.

Even though there could be some anti-Israeli propaganda out there (which is, like you said, the effect of how Palestinians are treated), the accusation that there is wide-scale indoctrination is not possible. Palestinian education is too strictly controlled for that. I think the accusation that UNWRA schools teach hate is simply projection. I noticed that Israel and Israel supporters like to do a lot of projection. And also Israel HATES UNWRA and is willing to fling as much mud as possible at it until something sticks. You see this with the claims that UNWRA members are Hamas and took part in the October 7 attacks, which there is still no evidence for this.

I struggle with the hypocrisy that it's apparently horrific when 'hate' is taught in Palestinian schools, but mandatory government training for Israeli 18yo's on how to actually kill Palestinians is fine.

Snowypeak · 17/02/2024 17:07

@fleurneige
It’s unbelievable.

And to 10Usernames - I won’t argue with you about the teaching. We keep being told about all the hate that Palestinian children are taught and I’m sure there is some so I didn’t want to say it doesn’t exist - but I must say I’ve seen some far more chilling videos from Israeli classrooms. Talk of making Arabs their slaves. Stuff you wouldn’t believe an adult in this day and age could teach a child in a school.

Blackkittypoo · 17/02/2024 17:15

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

I never said that and you know I didn't.

Stop making nasty disingenuous allegations without foundation.

Babyboomtastic · 17/02/2024 17:31

Blackkittypoo · 17/02/2024 17:15

I never said that and you know I didn't.

Stop making nasty disingenuous allegations without foundation.

You did.

You are just trying to deny it because it was deleted.

Blackkittypoo · 17/02/2024 17:33

Babyboomtastic · 17/02/2024 17:31

You did.

You are just trying to deny it because it was deleted.

I deny it because it didn't happen.

You seem to be making stuff up.

whatsitcalledwhen · 17/02/2024 17:38

@Blackkittypoo

I never said that and you know I didn't.

Stop making nasty disingenuous allegations without foundation.

Even if that wasn't what you meant, it's exactly what your post seemed to say. Which is why it was deleted.

Why do you think it got deleted?

ConnieCounter · 17/02/2024 17:39

Babyboomtastic · 17/02/2024 17:31

You did.

You are just trying to deny it because it was deleted.

Correct.

Blackkittypoo · 17/02/2024 17:45

@Snowypeak "Interesting discussion above. "

That was in your post of 9.39.

It wasn't a discussion - it was some people hurling abuse at me because I flagged up an issue.

It's sad that some people are so quick to throw stones.

Blackkittypoo · 17/02/2024 17:47

@whatsitcalledwhen it's exactly what your post seemed to say.

"Seemed to say "

The problem here is with your interpretation.

Blackkittypoo · 17/02/2024 17:49

ConnieCounter · 17/02/2024 17:39

Correct.

There's no reasoning with you is there?

I will ask MN why it was deleted (they certainly haven't contacted me about it) and ask for it to be re-instated.

Blackkittypoo · 17/02/2024 17:52

@whatsitcalledwhen Why do youthink it got deleted?

I don't know, that's why I've contacted MN.

I doubt I'll get a response before Monday now.

Blackkittypoo · 17/02/2024 17:53

ConnieCounter · 17/02/2024 17:39

Correct.

I "denied it because it was deleted" ? What sort of crazy logic is that??

whatsitcalledwhen · 17/02/2024 18:21

Blackkittypoo · 17/02/2024 17:47

@whatsitcalledwhen it's exactly what your post seemed to say.

"Seemed to say "

The problem here is with your interpretation.

Maybe you should be much clearer when you're speaking about the murder of children.

If multiple people, including MN admins who felt it broke talk guidelines, found your post to be offensive / impossible to let stand then the issue might be with how you communicate your opinions. Rather than the way other people interpret them.

Blackkittypoo · 17/02/2024 18:34

whatsitcalledwhen · 17/02/2024 18:21

Maybe you should be much clearer when you're speaking about the murder of children.

If multiple people, including MN admins who felt it broke talk guidelines, found your post to be offensive / impossible to let stand then the issue might be with how you communicate your opinions. Rather than the way other people interpret them.

I disagree.

I am not responsible for what others think.

I take strong exception of being accused of supporting pedicide and will be taking this further.

Please do not contact me about this again.

whatsitcalledwhen · 17/02/2024 18:41

@Blackkittypoo

I take strong exception of being accused of supporting pedicide and will be taking this further.

What an odd thing to say. You sound like you're going to write to my parents to complain or something.

It's a discussion forum. Your post was received poorly by a number of people who felt it was callous / offensive. That same post was deleted for breaking talk guidelines. I'm sure MN will confirm the specifics if you ask them.

Again, if multiple people react in the same way to your words then it's worth considering whether your choice of words might be the reason for the reaction, rather than assuming everyone is out to get you or something.

I'll leave you to it 👍🏻

BlueNetting · 17/02/2024 18:52

whatsitcalledwhen · 17/02/2024 18:41

@Blackkittypoo

I take strong exception of being accused of supporting pedicide and will be taking this further.

What an odd thing to say. You sound like you're going to write to my parents to complain or something.

It's a discussion forum. Your post was received poorly by a number of people who felt it was callous / offensive. That same post was deleted for breaking talk guidelines. I'm sure MN will confirm the specifics if you ask them.

Again, if multiple people react in the same way to your words then it's worth considering whether your choice of words might be the reason for the reaction, rather than assuming everyone is out to get you or something.

I'll leave you to it 👍🏻

I didn’t see the post. But I hope that nobody on either ‘side’ is ‘openly’ excusing or supporting the massacre of innocent kids, as is happening currently in devastating numbers in Palestine (and as happened to many Israeli kids on 7/10). That would be a seriously new low for MN posters.

Efacsen · 17/02/2024 19:11

whatsitcalledwhen · 17/02/2024 18:41

@Blackkittypoo

I take strong exception of being accused of supporting pedicide and will be taking this further.

What an odd thing to say. You sound like you're going to write to my parents to complain or something.

It's a discussion forum. Your post was received poorly by a number of people who felt it was callous / offensive. That same post was deleted for breaking talk guidelines. I'm sure MN will confirm the specifics if you ask them.

Again, if multiple people react in the same way to your words then it's worth considering whether your choice of words might be the reason for the reaction, rather than assuming everyone is out to get you or something.

I'll leave you to it 👍🏻

Well said

Rangelife · 17/02/2024 22:01

BlueNetting · 17/02/2024 18:52

I didn’t see the post. But I hope that nobody on either ‘side’ is ‘openly’ excusing or supporting the massacre of innocent kids, as is happening currently in devastating numbers in Palestine (and as happened to many Israeli kids on 7/10). That would be a seriously new low for MN posters.

I saw the post. There is never ever a reason to place any value judgement or speculation, at any time, in any place, for any reason, on the murder of any children. There is nothing more to state but 'That is an abhorrent act'. Nothing else. Musing any further is heinous. I'm surprised the poster has not been banned. What is happening to people?

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