But this is dishonest. This is not what has happened. You are talking as if both sides of the debate have behaved the same. One side just decided to focus on Israel, the other on Palestine. And that is not what has happened.
But what happened is one of the world's most appalling atrocities was committed against ordinary and innocent civilians, and the other side either immediately celebrated the attacks, or immediately started denying atrocities happened, immediately started quibbling over the details of the atrocities, immediately started to demand ' context' to ' understand' the rapist, torturing murderers, immediately started calling accounts of the attacks 'evil propaganda' , immediately starting organising marches that did not recognise at all the atrocities that took place and the victims of them and immediately started marching alongside those celebrating the attacks and holding anti-semitic placards, and started tearing down posters of the hostages. I could go on.
So no, those asking for people to understand what Hamas did not, and are not behaving the way the 'other side' did.
There is no equivalence here and its dishonest to post as if there is.