I'd really like to talk properly about each of these things:
Anti-Semitic attacks having increased 1000%. Is that hyperbole or actual attacks? Do you have a link? My understanding is that there has been a steady increase in crimes based on race and nationality in recent years. Brexit etc. and the general polarisation of society is poisonous. The rise of anti-Semitic, racism and the associated violence is dreadful.
Secondly, 'the Jews'. My understanding, and again I could be wrong, was that Jewish people in the main were good with being referred to, when it's relevant to mention race and/or religion, as Jews. There was a long thread on here ages ago saying that although some groups of people, I'll use myself, would rather be called a Polish person or a person with ADHD, to pick a couple of things, than a Pole or an ADHDer, Many Jewish people pick 'Jews' because it's a race and religion and the identifier is good for them. If it's not, it's worth a conversation. And if people object, I will absolutely choose to refer to people in the way they prefer. Language changes but people may be trying to refer to people correctly.
Third, the vast majority of people on here and IRL favour Israel and Palestine co-existing peacefully. Yes, on both 'sides' there is a contingent of people wanting to wipe the others off the map but the only 'side' capable of attempting that (and currently succeeding) is Israel. And it's complicated by Israel being the only Jewish state. And so objecting to Israel looks like objecting to Judaism, in a way that objecting to Palestine doesn't look like Islamophobia. But generally next to no one wants Israel wiped off the map.
It is horrifying to see anti-semitism crawl out of the woodwork and it's unsurprising given history that people are terrified. However seeing Israel's mass killings as wrong doesn't make someone anti-Semitic.