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Justifying the rape of women

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armchairactivist1 · 25/10/2023 18:35

Something I keep coming back to.. for the people whose sympathies lie with the Palestinians and think an eye for an eye and that Hamas have been pushed to act the way they have, how do you justify the brutal rape of women by Hamas?
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Gruntsandgroans · 26/10/2023 12:57

Maireas · 26/10/2023 12:56

No, @Gruntsandgroans . It was minimising/denying specific atrocities.

Yes. The same thing that is happening right now about the atrocities being committed in Gaza?

Just to add in case it wasn't clear from my first post. I think both are wrong.

Maireas · 26/10/2023 13:00

Good grief, @Gruntsandgroans - am I minimising that or anything? If you see that, challenge it, as would I, and have done when I've seen questionable posts.
Dear lord. I can't believe this.

EasternStandard · 26/10/2023 13:01

Gruntsandgroans · 26/10/2023 12:55

I don't agree with how that poster is going about it but aren't they just trying to highlight the hypocrisy of the situation? Palestinian children have been written off by lots of posters here as collateral damage. For the past few days there has been a massive push to deny how many people are being murdered in Palestine. She is literally just echoing back the pro Israel stance?

Like I said I don't agree with how she is going about it but her point is really clear to see. If it is appalling for her to do it about innocent Israelis then it is clearly appalling to do the same for innocent Gazans. None of the children who have been hurt or killed asked for this, no matter what Israeli politicians say.

No they are not.

CornishClott · 26/10/2023 13:02

ShellySarah · 25/10/2023 18:38

Women stay oddly silent at that here. Just chest beating screams of stop harming Gaza.

I think it's just men tbh. Gang rape happens in most armed conflicts. Even in Ukraine. It makes me think that given half a chance most men would do it if law and order broke down.

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Agreed . We were discussing the police at work many years ago and what would happen if law and order completely broke down . One of the blokes piped up " Yeah just image all the rapes that would happen" my blood ran cold .

Maireas · 26/10/2023 13:02

Thank you for clarifying, because I was a bit shocked.
No justification for denying or minimising atrocities, and that should be the line in the sand.
Edited for error.

Gruntsandgroans · 26/10/2023 13:07

Maireas · 26/10/2023 13:00

Good grief, @Gruntsandgroans - am I minimising that or anything? If you see that, challenge it, as would I, and have done when I've seen questionable posts.
Dear lord. I can't believe this.

I didn't say you were. I'm pretty sure Easternstandard has though. So have very many posters on mumsnet. It is widely accepted that Palestinian children are just collateral damage. Look at all the cries of 'what else do you expect Israel to do?'. Like we can't expect Israel to not kill children at a rate of 1 every 13mins.

Anyway, I'm out, I've got work to do but I will say it again. If it is wrong for someone to say that about Israeli children(and it is), it is wrong to say it about Palestinian children(even if they are teens).

EasternStandard · 26/10/2023 13:08

Gruntsandgroans · 26/10/2023 13:07

I didn't say you were. I'm pretty sure Easternstandard has though. So have very many posters on mumsnet. It is widely accepted that Palestinian children are just collateral damage. Look at all the cries of 'what else do you expect Israel to do?'. Like we can't expect Israel to not kill children at a rate of 1 every 13mins.

Anyway, I'm out, I've got work to do but I will say it again. If it is wrong for someone to say that about Israeli children(and it is), it is wrong to say it about Palestinian children(even if they are teens).

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What a claim. You are wrong.

I have spoken up for Jewish posters a fair bit though and against minimisation of the barbarity on October 7th.

You are confusing me with someone else.

Gruntsandgroans · 26/10/2023 13:09

EasternStandard · 26/10/2023 13:08

What a claim. You are wrong.

I have spoken up for Jewish posters a fair bit though and against minimisation of the barbarity on October 7th.

You are confusing me with someone else.

Sorry. You have misunderstood me. You have minimised the killing of Palestinian children.

EasternStandard · 26/10/2023 13:10

Gruntsandgroans · 26/10/2023 13:09

Sorry. You have misunderstood me. You have minimised the killing of Palestinian children.

Incorrect again. You won’t find that because I have not posted it.

Gruntsandgroans · 26/10/2023 13:49

EasternStandard · 26/10/2023 13:10

Incorrect again. You won’t find that because I have not posted it.

Apologies if you personally haven't. I'm not wasting my time wading through your posts to check.

I'm not commenting further on this either because like I said I don't agree with that posters methods but their post was a clear mirroring of loads of posts I have seen on here in the last few weeks minimising what is happening to Palestinian children. For me personally, it is wrong to minimise any of it.

EasternStandard · 26/10/2023 13:51

Gruntsandgroans · 26/10/2023 13:49

Apologies if you personally haven't. I'm not wasting my time wading through your posts to check.

I'm not commenting further on this either because like I said I don't agree with that posters methods but their post was a clear mirroring of loads of posts I have seen on here in the last few weeks minimising what is happening to Palestinian children. For me personally, it is wrong to minimise any of it.

I’d prefer if you didn’t make incorrect claims to start with.

You are talking about other posters.

And I still don’t see the pp as ‘mirroring’

ganondoof · 26/10/2023 14:05

Alcemeg · 26/10/2023 10:35

Well, obviously, I'm not celebrating anything. I'm a peace-loving non-Jewish/Muslim/any-kind-of-religion person living quietly in a small European country (not UK).

As a compassionate human being, I can totally understand why someone who has been brutalised by another culture might be pleased to hear bad news about the other side. In private!

But these huge street celebrations? That guy phoning his parents, who were ecstatic to hear his news about killing 10 Jews? That's something else, it's on another level. The public, shameless depravity is what makes it so shocking. It's clearly cultural, not personal.

Believe it or not, I started off a fortnight ago with a kind of automatic sympathy for the "Palestinians." I had the vague idea that they were the underdog and that Israel, backed by the US, had an unfair advantage.

I'm deeply, deeply ashamed to admit that my first reaction, when I heard that Israelis at a peace festival had been attacked, was partly to just think "Ah well, daft hippies, having a peace party in a war zone, what did they expect." 😨 😢 That's how fucking ignorant I was.

Then I started educating myself.

I was really curious to understand things better and have watched lots of info from both sides, including Al Jazeera.

I've found out that Hamas are mind-numbingly rich, but have always chosen to invest in warfare rather than improving the infrastructure in Gaza. Because their focus is on wiping out Israel. I mean, they don't even make any secret of this! It's their stated goal, enshrined in their covenant. They constantly bombard Israel with missiles, which is why those beautiful souls at the festival took no notice at first.

Hamas play dirty by using their own people as human shields (i.e. basing missile launchers and ammo depots in hospitals, schools, mosques etc), which is a war crime that complicates the picture of fair warfare. They never bothered putting in a missile defence system like Israel's "iron dome." And they steal any aid that gets through.

Against this background, I'd have expected "Palestinians" to be equally keen on destroying Hamas. Everyone's lives would be so much better without them. Surely they don't all share the ambition to wipe out Israel...? Or...??????????

I've been so shocked by the anti-Israeli sentiments expressed on this thread, like the one above saying the global press briefing was just "propaganda." I don't know quite how to describe that level of wilful ignorance.

As a compassionate human being, I can totally understand why someone who has been brutalised by another culture might be pleased to hear bad news about the other side. In private!

As a compassionate human being, I thibk that anyone celebrating the mass murder or civilians including children I'm under any circumstances is a monster.

ganondoof · 26/10/2023 14:07

Worddance · 26/10/2023 11:30

Wow, such paranoia and bitterness. Yes, I absolutely did comment and post in a spirit of shocked sadness at that time. You are bigoted and to be pitied. Your thought patterns are dangerous and will lead to more suffering on both sides. I don't give a fuck about your clever maths re Biden - think of those children and wind your neck in.

Yes you did, for example you posted that Jews everywhere should "exert their influence" to stop the bombing in Gaza.

Alcemeg · 26/10/2023 14:08

ganondoof · 26/10/2023 14:05

As a compassionate human being, I can totally understand why someone who has been brutalised by another culture might be pleased to hear bad news about the other side. In private!

As a compassionate human being, I thibk that anyone celebrating the mass murder or civilians including children I'm under any circumstances is a monster.

Well, congratulations on securing the moral high ground! 😇

Big respect to you for knowing that if your child had been killed by XYZ, you'd feel deep humanitarian sorrow if something bad happened to XYZ.

Hopefully we'll never be put to that test 💔

ganondoof · 26/10/2023 14:10

Alcemeg · 26/10/2023 14:08

Well, congratulations on securing the moral high ground! 😇

Big respect to you for knowing that if your child had been killed by XYZ, you'd feel deep humanitarian sorrow if something bad happened to XYZ.

Hopefully we'll never be put to that test 💔

Whose child did the people murdered in the massacre kill exactly?

And yes, I do t think would ever celebrate children being brutally killed even if that had happened to my own. It doesn't make me an angel, just not completely fucking depraved.

Alcemeg · 26/10/2023 14:12

ganondoof · 26/10/2023 14:10

Whose child did the people murdered in the massacre kill exactly?

And yes, I do t think would ever celebrate children being brutally killed even if that had happened to my own. It doesn't make me an angel, just not completely fucking depraved.

I think we've got the wrong end of each other's stick here somehow, not sure how! If you can be arsed reading my other posts, I hope they'll reassure you that's not what I meant. Flowers

Edited to add:
...or maybe I'm just shit at expressing myself 😜
What I mean is that if I were a Gazan parent whose child had been killed by an Israeli, if a missile landed in Israel I don't think I'd be thinking "Oh dear, I do hope no one was hurt." And vice versa...

ganondoof · 26/10/2023 14:19

Alcemeg · 26/10/2023 14:12

I think we've got the wrong end of each other's stick here somehow, not sure how! If you can be arsed reading my other posts, I hope they'll reassure you that's not what I meant. Flowers

Edited to add:
...or maybe I'm just shit at expressing myself 😜
What I mean is that if I were a Gazan parent whose child had been killed by an Israeli, if a missile landed in Israel I don't think I'd be thinking "Oh dear, I do hope no one was hurt." And vice versa...

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So you don't think it's understandable yo celebrate the 7th October massacres in private?

CurlewKate · 26/10/2023 14:19

Do you mean Palestinians, or do you mean Hamas? There is a difference. Just as there is a difference between Israelis and the IDF.

Alcemeg · 26/10/2023 14:28

ganondoof · 26/10/2023 14:19

So you don't think it's understandable yo celebrate the 7th October massacres in private?

Speaking for myself, even if I had personally suffered at the hands of Israel, I'd disown anyone who could act with that level of sickening barbarity.

Clearly, many folk feel differently.

Palestinians celebrate in Nablus after fighters infiltrated Israel

Palestinians in the West Bank city of Nablus celebrate after fighters from the Gaza Strip infiltrated Israel, a major escalation in the Israeli-Palestinian c...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWOw7YI7vzo

Itsaharddlife · 26/10/2023 14:41

"Speaking for myself, even if I had personally suffered at the hands of Israel, I'd disown anyone who could act with that level of sickening barbarity.

Clearly, many folk feel differently."

You clearly seem to think it's only one side that celebrates. I've already given you proof that israelis have celebrated over many years at the deaths of Palestinians.
You could've simply said anyone celebrating is sick but you seem to believe as long as the Israelis do it in private it's ok. Just to clarify they don't do it in private either. There's several videos of them making large celebrations at gaza being bombed over the years. Stop expecting one side to behave in a better way, when you have the audacity to excuse the others for doing the same.

Alcemeg · 26/10/2023 14:45

Oh don't be so daft. I've clearly said that it's natural for both sides to feel antagonism towards the other.

What doesn't seem natural to me is the open celebration of this level of barbaric atrocity, not just in Gaza but around the world. WTAF is that about...?!

Itsaharddlife · 26/10/2023 15:24

You also clearly said it is understandable for isreal to celebrate deaths in private.

"Can you explain it to me, please? Given that it's "only Hamas" posing a real threat to Israelis?"

What??? Who are you quoting. Are you seriously asking me to explain why there's fcked up people in the world who will support and celebrate atrocities? Why should I do that? Can you explain why israelis are OK to chant "death to arabs" and "burn your villages" on their celebrations?
Also a few lunatics supporting hamas shouldn't justify what Israel is doing which is genocide. Nothing justifies the murder of innocent babies.

On that note, some of the earlier posts I skimmed past, just ridiculous. I get that there were reports about beheaded babies etc which were not confirmed. But putting that issue aside, there were still innocent children murdered. Why do we need to debate how they were killed. Isn't it bad enough that they were killed in the first place that we now need to debate in what manner they suffered.

Alcemeg · 26/10/2023 15:37

Itsaharddlife · 26/10/2023 15:24

You also clearly said it is understandable for isreal to celebrate deaths in private.

"Can you explain it to me, please? Given that it's "only Hamas" posing a real threat to Israelis?"

What??? Who are you quoting. Are you seriously asking me to explain why there's fcked up people in the world who will support and celebrate atrocities? Why should I do that? Can you explain why israelis are OK to chant "death to arabs" and "burn your villages" on their celebrations?
Also a few lunatics supporting hamas shouldn't justify what Israel is doing which is genocide. Nothing justifies the murder of innocent babies.

On that note, some of the earlier posts I skimmed past, just ridiculous. I get that there were reports about beheaded babies etc which were not confirmed. But putting that issue aside, there were still innocent children murdered. Why do we need to debate how they were killed. Isn't it bad enough that they were killed in the first place that we now need to debate in what manner they suffered.

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You also clearly said it is understandable for isreal to celebrate deaths in private.
I also said, at least twice, that it was only natural for Gazans to feel the same way. That's human nature.

Re the video I shared, I just can't see similar scales of public celebration relating to Gaza being under attack. Have I missed something? This was New York. And the timing of it, right after 7 Oct. I just don't get it...? Why this, why now?

Completely agree with you about it being somewhat beside the point to debate precisely how babies lose their heads. I said the same earlier.

Itsaharddlife · 26/10/2023 15:41

"Re the video I shared, I just can't see similar scales of public celebration relating to Gaza being under attack. Have I missed something? This was New York. And the timing of it, right after 7 Oct. I just don't get it...? Why this, why now?"

I have seen a few videos of celebrations on Israel's side too. Some recent some old. A recent one was them chanting that gaza is a cemetery etc. I wish I knew how to attach the video, I think YouTube has taken it down once already.
Either way it's all disgusting and frankly terrifying that there could be so much hate towards another person.
I've just seen another report about more people taking down posters of hostages. Like wtf was the purpose of that? How can you expect anyone to feel sympathy for your cause if you can't do the same.