Sorry high big hugs. Its not whinging at all, its a very real sense of miserableness that I can totally understand. After my last baby (who we lost and I am never sure if it was all the shock that put my hormones up the spout) I had hugely heavy and irregular periods (but not as irregular as you).
I had acupuncture and found it definitely made a different to my cycle - it gave me a 28 day cycle, a change from the previous 25-35 day cycle. Clomid made my cycle slightly more random again. Acupuncture seems to be very successful in helping implantation in IVF, so I'm assuming (altho the research hasn't been done on this) it could help when you are ttc normally. Its not a quick fix though, be prepared to commit and fork out for several months to get the best results.
The fertility books will tell you the usual stuff about giving up caffeine, eating healthier, etc etc. Knowing your fertile signs as well. My acupuncturist told me to give up wheat and dairy (altho I had to cut down alot, couldn't completely give up ) as it gives you sticky blood(?) which is not good, apparently! She also recommends homemade chicken soup which is good for building the blood. Keep your tummy warm. Exercise.
If your BMI is under 20, has anyone commented on this as yes, I've also read that it can affect your chances, although i don't know how much of a difference it makes. Have you had any hormone tests done - I know in the UK they sometimes put you on clomid before doing anything else. Did they scan you to see if you're ovulating, if not, did you feel any of the twinges to suggest you were?
lady fingers still crossed.
We've had a great day, DS was 6 today so we had a little party for us and my parents (he had his proper party last weekend) and my mum thought up a potato and spoon race! Amid much hysterical laughter as the dog (greyhound) joined in racing circles around us, DH moved faster than my parents ever thought possible to come a respectable second, I was left to run, carry my spud AND film it. Yes, we are slightly mad, but it is so nice to have a good laugh, I often feel that we don't do it enough.
Hope you all had a good one.
super strength belly-rubbed babydust
jo
xxx