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Trying To Conceive after a Miscarriage - We CAN Do It !!!!

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Diddle · 15/06/2005 07:59

Thought as there was 955 messages on our old thread that we should have a new one again, its very annoying scrolling down to the bottom.

{grin}

Welcome to our new thread girls.

Should we put our stats again???
saves us thread hopping, and we have had newbies.
I will try and copy some from the old thread.

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maddyd · 30/06/2005 18:06

Im 37 too. Were not too old are we???????

maddyd · 30/06/2005 18:06

How old are yours??

Mamatoto · 30/06/2005 18:18

MIne are 12(nearly 13)10,8 and 2.5 ...yours?

maddyd · 30/06/2005 18:31

17, 3 and 22 months. Girl Girl and a boy who is just the teenist bit edible if i may brag.

Xena · 30/06/2005 18:50

I didn't realise you guys had quite a few as well, I have had 3 healthy pgs the month after the m/c I was desperate to get pg again but noe i'm not so sure, I don't know what I think.

Xena · 30/06/2005 18:59

Hellkat and diddle I saw the thread Due in Nov (which is when I was due) how awfull what happenedto twinkle

maddyd · 30/06/2005 19:00

How long ago was your mc Xena, nd how old are the ones you have.

maddyd · 30/06/2005 19:00

What has happened to Twinkle??

maddyd · 30/06/2005 19:02

Xena i was on Nov thread too. Was cp3 changed names as my babies were gonna be Madeleine and Dennis

Xena · 30/06/2005 19:02

I found out on the 18th May, DS 7, DD1 3 and DD2 1 (next week)

Xena · 30/06/2005 19:06

Oh I remember you cp3! where you pg with twins or have you had 2M/C?
They are about 19/20 wks pg and she was assulted whilst walking her dog.

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Diddle · 30/06/2005 19:26

oh yes xena, maddyd - forgot you were on there with me too, all this baby talk makes you're brain fuddled i think thats my excuse anyway.
Horrible what happened to twinkle.
Thanks for the good wishes maddyd - but we're all in the same boat, and i have no idea if it makes it any better having children to cuddle, althouhg i am surrounded by them all day, they get all my loving, esp when i think about how lucky they are that they are here, and how cherished they should be.
We were surounded by little babies and pregnant women on holiday, but we tried to put it to the back of our minds. I think DH found it quite tough, he doesn't really go anywhere to notice them as much as me. I think we do notice pg women more though now we're all trying, we must have a 6th sense for them. Its very annoying.
I want it sooooo much!!!

maddyd & mamatoto - 37 is not too old, there are people much older who have babies. You keep going you two.

Maddyd - why the name change, any particular reason?

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Xena · 30/06/2005 19:31

Did you have a nice holiday diddle?

maddyd · 30/06/2005 19:32

Thats awfull for her, is she ok, is there a seperate thread bout it. God its shocking isnt it. Poor Twinkle

Diddle i changed my name cos i was just so distraught. Fresh start and all that. Started drinking gallons of water too. Not going back to gym though.

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Diddle · 30/06/2005 19:37

Xena - it was very nice thank you, very relaxing, i managed to read 2 books in 1 week.

maddyd - good reason, i'm drinking loads of water too, mainly to stop myself from having too much coffee as i love it. I was thinking of joining a gym, not sure i will have the will power to go all the time though. we'll see.
How come you're not going?

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Diddle · 30/06/2005 19:39

maddyd - don't think there is a seperate thread, read it on the due in nov thread, she had to got to hospital it was quite bad.

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maddyd · 30/06/2005 19:42

I had a miised mc and a 12 weeks mc so i blame the gym. I was going 3 times a week. i had to blame it on something otherwise id go mad. If i di fall pg again and i was still going to the gym and i miscarried again then id feel terrible. So if i ever fall aging its feet up and cream cakes for me

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Diddle · 30/06/2005 19:43

sounds much better than the gym, cream cakes here we come very true though, i blame it on lifting the kids too much and not being careful enough. but we can't wrap ourselves up in cotton wool.

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Xena · 30/06/2005 19:47

I blamed in on things like that, but now I worry about the fact that the baby wasn't growing proparly for 4wks but it had kept on growing IYKWIM, I worry about the affect on my 3DC's should we have another baby and it is born with SN. My time would be spilt enough with 4 children.

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Diddle · 30/06/2005 19:53

its a big decision xena, and only you know the effect it would have. You need to make the right decision for you.

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maddyd · 30/06/2005 20:04

There are many women our age with perfectly healty children. The risk is greater once you hit 40. I dont think i could cope with a child with sn and i have great respect for those who do. But it is a bridge ill cross if i should ever come to it.

maddyd · 30/06/2005 20:06

Right im off to have a cuddle with Dp. Night Night all and take care and thanks nce agian for all your support. I swear id go potty if it wasnt for all of you. xxxxx

Xena · 30/06/2005 20:24

Night guys xx

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Diddle · 30/06/2005 20:27

night xena
night maddyd - its our pleasure, glad to be a support to you, and you're just as much of a support.

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LunarSea · 30/06/2005 22:54

maddyd & mamatoto - If you 2 are too old thaen I've got not chance as I'm (whicper it) a couple of years older thatn you