Trying To Conceive after a Miscarriage - We CAN Do It !!!!

[Diddle]

Thought as there was 955 messages on our old thread that we should have a new one again, its very annoying scrolling down to the bottom.

{grin}

Welcome to our new thread girls.

Should we put our stats again???
saves us thread hopping, and we have had newbies.
I will try and copy some from the old thread.

Hellkat - have you been back on the due in nov thread? have you seen whats happened to twinkle??

G'day girls

Hope everyone is well.

Lottielou-nice to see you back-I've had my all clear yesterday when I had my rescan so patiently waiting for my AF but between you and me DH and I aren't being very careful very naughty I know. Shouldn't think anything will happen though knowing my luck! {{x}}

I have been very busy today and cleaned all of the inside windows, the fascias and even the shed window inside and out. Repotted some plants and tended to my cucumber and tomato plants and done some washing which will be ironed later. Is this a sign of anything????? (Madness probably!)

Did another stick test and still a very faint pink line so HCG levels not quite dropped enough yet.

Can hear DD so she must be awake from her nap so best go.

Hugs to all and catch ya later!
x

Hi guys,
Yes, did a test BFN. I am not sure if I am glad or disapointed. Still no sign of AF though, but temperatures are dropping. So will probably turn up sooner or later.
Well off to medisave to order some OPKs and more pregnancy tests.

cori - sorry to hear you got a N, still hope though, as af hasn't shown up yet. hope you're really ok.

Cori so sorry about the neg. I know how you feel honestly i do. My temps are quite level so it makes me even more down heartened. Mind yopu i use my kids ear theom which your not meant to so my own fault really.

Diddle what is Merryhill???? Ive been to soft play this afternoon. I was sitting and brooding so not fair on kids. Feel alot better mother now

hi maddyd - sounds like you've been busy. i sit and brood when i'm at soft play too, watching all the mothers with thier tiny babies, not fair.

Merryhill is our local shopping Mall, in Dudley. Lottielou might be the only person living near enough to know about it. Sorry.

Thats ok did you buy anything nice?

i was brooding at home, thats why we went out. i stay away from the baies at soft play. Mind you there was alot of pg women that were hard to avoid. Prob just me taking more notice. We had a good play

maddyd - I'm local enough to know it too (Warwickshire/Solihull area).

Right you lot can set up your own litle club then

Im in the South. Berkshire. origonally from North Yorkshire though for my sins

Whereabout in North Yorkshire? dh grew up around Knaresborough, and we still spend a lot of time up there. ds must be a yorkeshireboy at heart too, 'co whenever he has his photo taken he says "Wensleydale" instead of "cheese"

Think I am having second m/c in six months only this time my hopes were raised by a h/b at 7 weeks. Now 8+2 and bleeding some red.... going to test to see if line is fainter. Scan tomorrow and then the delights of the decision how to 'deal with it' Feel blue as blue

I lurve Knarsborough especially market day. When we visit i tell my other half all about the witch and the bridge. Apperently if it falls down again the world will end. Its beautifull in the Summer months. Im from Harrogate

I am from Ilkley Maddyd

Oh mamatoto so sorry. Have you any back pain at all? It may be nothing. Can you rest?

Just cant face resting and mooching about...just want it over if it is not going to work out.....

I shouted at my dd (!) and then felt this gloop (TMI) and it was a fair amount...scan tomorrow!

maddyd - bought dh a joystick for the pc and flight simulator game. its keeping him very occupied at the moment, he'll be quiet for a few days now.

mamatoto - so sorry to hear` what you're going through, you never know it could be nothing. Lots of people have bleeding during pregnancy and continue to full term. Hope tomorrow is positive for you and that it all works out, let us know how you get on.
You must be feeling so scared, we all know just how you feel. I've had 2 in the last 6 months as well, its heartbreaking. I'm sure you're holding onto every last ounce of hope that you can.
I will keep everything crossed for you.
Are you taking it easy? Are you bleeding heavily?

No not heavy just cloudy stuff with blood in it! Yeuch. had four successful pregnancies ( one with fertlity treatment) now feel I am maybe asking too much/too old......always wanted lots of children ..its all i ever wanted I am crap at everything else. now it looks like I am crap at this too.

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I don't think there's enough babydust on ths thread, so heres a good showering of it, get as much as you can.

How old are you Mamatoo? You sound verty similar in your thoughts to me. I also have had 3 healthy Pregnancies. And took it for granted that my 4th would be ok too. Im blaming my age. Feel like the last one was my last chance.

Gloop doesnt sound good. But dont give up yet. Will you come back and let us know how you get on?

mamatoto - i don't think its something we can be crap at, it is totally out of ours hands, there's nothing we can do to control this. Unless of course, some of us are unlucky enough to have had 3 in a row and got as far as testing for possile causes.
I'm sure there are plenty of things you are good at, but its so hard to be positive at a time like this when you feel so drained and fed up, and annoyed, and angry with the world.
I know its easy for me to say but it really could be nothing.
I wish there was something i could do or say to take it all away from you, but we both know that it won't make any difference.
Are you passing clots, or just yucky stuff?

It cant be easy for you Diddle. You have been through it too. Mamatoto and i have been blessed 3 times whch in no way makes it any easier. Miscarriage is just the worst and i wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy if i had one.

Of all the people on these threads its you and Lottie with no children that im rooting for.

Just yuck but....only once a day...I am not hopeful. I am 37 ( My friend just texted me from holiday tosay I have an emotional cervix! Hmmmmmm)

Thats right Maddyd I can go and cling to my babs ( even though they are all big now and dont want it!)