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right then, here goes hope this one's as luck as Rom's thread,

we have some priority orders coming to the top for HQ, (will catch up on the old thread then post on this new one!)

Rom where are you hun are you ok ??

debbsey s right i had the depo and it took 1 1/2yrs for my period to return and another 6mths before i started to ov properly. they never told me that at the time! i even said to the doctor i was coming off it to ttc and he said i should be fine in a few months!!! would never have it again..

Rom are you around? hope alls ok honey...

Thanks everyone glad im ok to worried about Rom where are you honey are u ok?????

charlie what u doing on here you should be bding lol

i know i know waiting for dp to stop faffing about lol plenty of time tonight dont you worry if he moans he tired for work tomorrow it will be for a good cause just cooked him a nice meal to get him in the mood lol

still not speakingto him note lack of dh not a dh in sight just come in joking as if nothings the matter asking me do i still want to divorce him THE BLOODY MAN INFURIATES ME GRRRRRRR GRRR GRR GRR GRR SEEING BLOODY RED AND HE CAN GO AND DO WHAT EVER HE WANTS GO AND HANG HIMSELF BY HIS BALLS FOR ALL I CARE !!!

Make sure he doesnt eat too much and fall asleep

charlee - i am so relieved and happy for you that all went well today - and sounds like you have timed it perfectly for this month get bd'ing!

milosmum, bella, debbsy and charlee - thankyou for missing me today. must admit, have hit a bit of a ttc slump

will be back on form tomorrow i promise.

wendy - i am starting to think i may have to go the same route as you. did you have to go on a long waiting list - or are you doing it privately? do you know if there is an age limit if it is NHS? sorry for questions....

debbsy - hmmmm, i can relate - why are they like this just when you need them most

sorry to here your feeling rought today rom hope your feeling better tomorrow, thanks again to everyone else for supporting me anyway im off to savage dp weather he likes it or not xxxxxxx

Rom so sorry your feeling down come on cheer up we are all in this together im in still on the verge of crying every 5 mins but i know it wont do me any good and ive got to get on with things mainly ttc and we will do it again i know we will come hell or high water rommy (((((hugs)))) know just how you feel blieve me it hits you someyimes and ur chest gets tight and you start to panic and then you start to cry then you get frustrated cos hubbys cold or wonders why you are so upset and if mine says one more time it will happen im going to punch him in the mouth moments..

Debbsey - glad DD?s comment made you smile today  So sorry you are having such a hard time; must be very difficult with DH not supporting you. Really hope your holiday brings you back closer together and you have a nice time.

Hi Handbag. Good to hear your Spa treatment is still on. Fingers crossed for you.

Spacecadet ? sorry to hear about your lost baby  and the hard time you have had. Hope the baby dust this time round is extra sticky just for you.

Charleepeters ? good to hear the scan was all good

Munz ? hope the BD does it trick!

Rom ? sorry to hear you sounding so down 

CD19 here. Must have OVd by now ? well I hope I have anyway. So on for the 2WW ? anyone joining me?

Rom - {{{{HUGS}}}}} honey xx
Who have you spoken to so far regarding TTC....ie clinic, GP? What does your Dh think?

Debbsy - oh dear sounds like your Dh is totally out of favour...oops! I must say it made me laugh to read that it is not just me that feels like wanting to punch someone when they say "why are you upset, it will happen"....ARH !!

thanks hula fingers crossed for you what does it mean when you put & 61514 please thanks for support too bella you do feel like that though dont you sometimes lol

Sorry about that Debbsey - as these threads are so busy I tend to write my replies in a text editor on Outlook and then copy and paste. I will have been either a or a (can't remember which without looking back down here) originally. MUST preview!

Hi everyone, just joined thread from the last one. I really do hope we get our spring babies - by god we deserve them.

reminder of my stats.

Age 32
DH 34
DS 3.5
TTC for 2.5 years - two m/s last one at 15.5 weeks but baby died at approx 10 weeks (in Dec 05)

Now on day 19 of my cycle - shall be testing on 27th / 28th - usually have a regular 28 day cycle.

Good luck again to all. Please order me a baby head office any sex just a healthy baby. Im obsessed!!!!

thanks charlee, hula, debbsy and bella - i will stop being a whingebucket soon!

debbsy i think hula's cryptic numeral (61514!!) is a shortcut for doing smiley or weepy emoticons, but for some reason its not working?!! well, thats my guess anyway

bella - i have spoken to my unbelievably ill-informed GP about IVF (mr. rom has sperm banked from when he had his surgery years ago, but it was of poor quality because it was post-surgery although the sample was taken before the radiotherapy IYSWIM) and asked if that was a better route for us - but he seemed to think we should keep trying naturally for now despite my age, as we did get pg. once. i say ill-informed because he umms and ahhs a lot and quite often admits to not having a clue to my questions, ie. age limits for IVF.

Any chance of speaking to someone who specialises (or knows more about) IVF rom? Think your GP needs to take your concerns seriously and put you in touch with someone you can at least chat too.

Rom, I would seek a second opinion he does not sound as though he knows a great deal about it. I heard that there is supposed to be a very good IVF clinic in aldridge in the West Midlands - have heard quite a few success stories where couples had failed attempts elsewhere...

Can anyone advise me on this. I am on day 19 should I still have CM - I had lots of very milky cm yesterday? Sorry about being so graphic.

yes hula - i agree totally with you - i think i need to look into a fertility clinic sooner rather than later

trix - we are all obsessed! its par for the course here

Rom - have a read of this - I picked it up from another thread the other day. Think it includes some stuff about age limits, which I seem to recall ranged from 34-45, depending on the clinic.

HFEA IVF info

Trix - I'm planning on testing on 28th if no AF by then, so we'll be together. Hula - will that be about right for you too?

I would seek a second opinion your doc does not inspire much confidence. I have heard there is supposed to be a very good IVF clinic in Aldridge in the West Midlands and know people who have been successful there after in some cases many failed attempts elsewhere...

Can anyone advise me on this please? do you still have mc on day 19 thats where I am now. I had a lot of very milky mc yesterday. apologies for being so graphic.

tabs - a huge thankyou for that link - you are a star

trix - milky cm is quite normal - did you have EWCM around OV time? you can get different patches even after OV

Hi tabs, we can give each other suppor then until then. Fingers crossed. I find the 2 weeks waiting the worst do you?

Rom - yes I did - i am a novice to all these different tips and things to look out for.

my friends who do not have any problems with getting pregnant would not have a clue about any of this. they would think I am mad..(envy)