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munz · 15/05/2005 10:13

right then, here goes hope this one's as luck as Rom's thread,

we have some priority orders coming to the top for HQ, (will catch up on the old thread then post on this new one!)

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MRSflamesparrow · 05/06/2005 10:25

Hi everyone,

I'm just starting out at TTC no 2, and thought I'd come join you guys.

I'm on something like day 15 of my cycle.. but having been on the pill since 17, I have no idea when the cycle ends . Last time I came off the pill to "get my body back to normal for a month or so" we forgot I was off it, had sex once, and DD came along.

Its weird being actively TTC. I keep reading about people who fell easily with their first, but are now on their 2nd or 3rd year TTC no 2.

I have read back through some of the thread, and I just wanted to say that my heart goes out to all of you who are grieving right now.

xxxx

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 10:26

sorry havent been on for a while, have had another mumsnetter, Mummytosteven, staying, so been really busy!, actually though, feel a bit low....someone i know, who is deeply depressed and struggling to cope with her children, who is in an unhappy relationship is preg again..i know it was deliberate i thinbk she thinks that a new baby will take all her probs away...i cant help feeliong angry with her and , is this normal?? i dont want to feel like this,, but i cant bring myself to ring her..im such a bad friend..trouble is ive bent over backwards to help her and her situation is very complex, i told her some months ago before i lost eve that another baby was a bad idea, shes always saying how miserable and isolated she is, she doesnt drive and relies on on her dp for everything,.god i must snap out of it, i sound really spiteful, trouble is the relationship is technically dead in the water, its not fair to bring another child into that, god everyone will flame me now, feel so , would have felt like thisregardless of my own situation anyway...rant over!

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 10:27

oh and munz[sad, im so sorry honey, you did nothing wrong, honest, sometimes the little beans dont implant properly, its not your fault{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

MRSflamesparrow · 05/06/2005 10:30

Spacecadet... I don't know your history, but if it makes you feel any better - I'm angry with your friend too!!!! How is that going to do her, her current children, or the new one any good at all????

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 10:35

thats what i was thinking newly wed one, she already has 3 under 5 and is struggling with her excisting children and she claims that her relationship is on the rocks.

MRSflamesparrow · 05/06/2005 10:47

Hmmm... more stress, that'll fix things!!!

I'm trying to think how I would react around her if it was my friend, but being honest, I do have a friend who is trying for another baby when it is just madness, and unfortunately, we are drifting apart because of it.

munz · 05/06/2005 10:57

MM - I know honney mine to u as well. I'm still bleeding heavily but at least it's stopped hurting now, yesterday I could bearly walk about so spent all afternoon on the sofa. I've got a box of chocs for today's sofaing. DH and I have talked about things he's upset but tries to put on the brave face for me, I think I might give his mum a buzz and ask her to call him as he talks to her and would propbably open up better as he won't feel like he has to be brave for me.

I think the idea for a new thread is great, if/when u start it can u post a link thou?

wend - thinking of u today hope all is well for you.

going for a much needed shower then back to my bed on the sofa.

love to all, and thanks for all ur support.

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spacecadet · 05/06/2005 11:00

i just feel sorry for the child flamesparrow

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 11:01

{{{hugs}}}milosmum too.

MRSflamesparrow · 05/06/2005 11:02

Yup - and the current children.

A mum of 3 under 5s is pretty frazzled as it is (unless she is a caffeine addict), how will they all cope with a pregnancy and new born?

Oooh, just all

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 11:08

as faras i know she was on ads, but i now suspect shes topped them which is why she got really depressed

RachelRog · 05/06/2005 12:18

Morning all......hello to newbies. I post every now and again but read it all the time!!

Currently on cd24 and 10dpo so waiting and hoping at the moment.

Really, really want a BFP this month......testing on Weds.....is anyone else testing soon????????

Love to all and so sorry to all of you who have had heartache recently.

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 12:41

rachelrog, ive just realised that im 10dpo and am on cd26/27 ive not being keeping track very well im afraid.af should be due on tues! ive been so busy i completely forgot, i feel sick and have tender boobs but i bet its bimin pmt!

MRSflamesparrow · 05/06/2005 12:52

Sorry to ask... what do CD and DPO stand for?

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 12:54

flamesparrow, cd, means cycle day and dpo, days past ovulation

Frizbe · 05/06/2005 13:12

hello to Mrsfs and Spacecadet, nice to see you joining us on here
Munz n Milsomum {{{{Hugs}}}} have some more virtual chocs from me.
Hope all is going ok Wendy, fingers x'd for you.

MRSflamesparrow · 05/06/2005 15:10

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh! With ya!!!

charleepeters · 05/06/2005 15:13

hello ladoes i hope yuor weekend has all been ok, are we starting a new thread whos starting it??? dont mind doing it if no one wants to.

im on CD11 and waitign for ov still temping, i hate this waiting bit at the begining of the months but im nding everyday so i dont miss ov! so dp's loving it!

hope everyones doing well welcome to all new people!

hugs to all xxx

luv cp x

wendy11 · 05/06/2005 17:35

Hello all,

Just a quick post before going back to the sofa for some more rest!
We had one 6 cell and one 5 cell embryo put back this morning so now it is just a matter of trying to keep calm and rest lots over the next few days. If af doesn't arrive we get to test on the 19th - fathers day - not sure how I feel about that but anyway.

Munz - keep your chin up ((((Hugs))))

Rom - Hope the weenend was not as bad as you expected ((((Hugs))))

Hope everyone is doing good this weekend.

Trix1 · 05/06/2005 18:37

Hello everyone, Hi to the newcomers hope you get some luck form this thread.

Thinking of you both Munz & MM - its really hard isnt t.

I was thinking this morning that I would have been 36 weeks pregnant this week (mc at 15 weeks) and got really upset first time in months I cried over it. I had to pull my self together before dh and ds came back from the park. Its really hurting now - if I could just get a BFP it would help a bit but at the moment I have a big hole inside me just an empty feeling.

Sorry for depressing you all. Good luck to those testing soon [o

RachelRog · 05/06/2005 19:36

Oh Wendy

That is brill! You must be so excited but scared at the same time.

Take good care of yourself and I am so happy that things are going well for you.

Hulababy · 05/06/2005 20:06

Good luck Wendy; have everything crossed for you.

romilly · 05/06/2005 20:30

just got back from my weekend away. not nearly as bad as i feared, it was fine - had told d/h and he was wonderfully supportive which helped me a lot.

wendy - now you sit down and REST, REST, REST - dont do a thing! let d/h wait on you hand and foot! fab. news about the two embryos. hopefully fathers day is auspicious

munz - i am absoluted gutted for you honey. so upsetting - it really is. and milosmum, still thinking of you too.

catch up with you all tomorrow, cause been away all wknd and must get some domestics done now!

also like new thread idea and title - who are we nominating to start it? handbag? hula? charlee??

romilly · 05/06/2005 20:33

sorry forgot to say a big welcome to mrsflamesparrow and spacecadet

Frizbe · 05/06/2005 21:01

Oh Trix, {{{Hugs}}} Hon, these things take a long time to get over, don't beat yourself up about it, here's hoping this month will be a good one for you

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I'm happy for anyone to start a new thread, go for it charlee

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