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munz · 15/05/2005 10:13

right then, here goes hope this one's as luck as Rom's thread,

we have some priority orders coming to the top for HQ, (will catch up on the old thread then post on this new one!)

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spacecadet · 05/06/2005 22:53

af isdue on tues am tempted to test tomorrow, but bad idea i guess.

munz · 06/06/2005 08:44

morning all,

well yesterday wasn't too bad, no pain at least, but today theres a bit of discomfort, and a watery brownish discharge (sorry if tmi) so have rung the DR's back for an emergancy apt this morning. althou we have to speak to the nurse first so she can decide if it actually is an emergancy! - bloody cheek. anyhow. clam breath. DH isn't saying much as usual, he last night admitted he does care but feels he can't show me emotions as he has to be my rock to break on. I don't know how to get him to open up, he say's he doesn't need to talk about it, but I fear it will cause a rift if we don't talk about it.

wend - good news for you hon, put ur feet up and keep legs in the air! lol.

hiya to all the newbies as well, sorry the threads been depressing of late thou.

I vote hula to start a new thread off?

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Hulababy · 06/06/2005 08:49

Aw munz, bless you. I don't mind but think there are others who have been here longer maybe???

Hope your Drs appointment goes well munz. BTW, then I had my mc DH was also very quite about it and we didn't talk about it much at all. As you suggest, like your DH, I think he was being the rock for me. I know on a night out a few weeks later he did talk to a good friend of his about it, which I hoped helped im. It's difficult knowing how much to push to talk. Maybe we should have talked about it a bit more, but it was hard - for both of us. But we did get through it and we are really string together, and we do now have a beautiful 3yo DD together. You will get through this - they'll be some tough times I know - but take care of yourselves, give yourselves time and you will be ready to contemplate TTC again. Thinking of you.

Hulababy · 06/06/2005 08:51

So sorry Trix. Take care.

munz · 06/06/2005 09:08

apt for 10.20 will let u know how I go.

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Hulababy · 06/06/2005 09:10

Thinking of you munz. I'll be out this morning at DD's gymboree class - but will check back in later to see how you are doing.

sparkly · 06/06/2005 09:16

Munz, I'm so sorry to hear you're having to go through this. I hope that the dr is supportive this morning. When I had my early mc in February, my dr was really supportive as we're the staff at the early preg clinic. I think my dp found it really really hard to deal with. Some weeks later he did have a good cry with me - I think they deal with it differently to us.

Please let us know how it goes if you're feeling up to it. Big hugs to you and your dh.

MRSflamesparrow · 06/06/2005 09:19

Thinking of you Munz, and good luck to Wendy.

xxx

Worriedbev · 06/06/2005 12:01

Not be around for a few days as really busy at work.
Sorry to hear about the m/c Munz, keep your chin up hun, thinking of you and hope you go on to conceive again quickly. How long have you been ttc. I have been ttc for 14 months now and it is agonising every month af arrives.
On CD11 now so starting to bed again but in the end you think what is the point it is never going to happen.
Sorry having a bad day thinking about it ever happening.
Everybody else, happy to see some pgs on here and hope there are lots more soon, including mine.
Bev

romilly · 06/06/2005 12:52

hi everyone. munzie - how are you hon? i hope the docs. appt. went ok and they were helpful. i know exactly where you are coming from with d/h not talking about it - i had the same, but i think they are just in protective mode, knowing the pain you are going through. i am sure you will talk about it in time. i do think it helps.

sorry trix and worriedbev are feeling down too.

we do need some good news to cheer us all up soon.

glad wendy is not here today because hopefully that means she is resting loads!!

george32 · 06/06/2005 13:04

Hi Rom, thanks for your message (phew, glad it's not twins, feel bad enough with just one!).
I'm glad your weekend went better than you thought.

Wendy, what brilliant news. As everyone has said, no moving for you for the time being. Legs in the air & lots of daytime telly only!!
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spacecadet · 06/06/2005 13:11

Munz, so sorry about m/c, lifes just not bloody fair is it.. , lots and lots of {{{hugs}}}

charleepeters · 06/06/2005 16:21

will start a new thread need a good name hmmmm let me know if anyone thinks of one!

charleepeters · 06/06/2005 16:25

what do u all think of www.beaniesrus.com?

Hulababy · 06/06/2005 16:45

Go for it charleepeters - how about a slight change to beanies4us?

charleepeters · 06/06/2005 16:46

ok will do it now if anyone can create a link for it it would be great i cant do the bloomin things!

charleepeters · 06/06/2005 16:51

Right new thread done

www.Beanies4us.com

hope its lucky!

Diddle · 06/06/2005 16:51

www.beanies4us.com

Here you co Charlee

charleepeters · 06/06/2005 16:52

ta x

munz · 06/06/2005 17:55

hi all, i've come over to the new thread with u,

trix - sorry you're feeling so down at the mo hon. ((((((hugs))))))

rom - DH has conessed (and I know this is gonna sound bad) but he's said he doesn't care about the beanie or that we had a m/c he's more bothered about me and how i'm coping which is quite sweet I thought, anyhow Dr sent me off to A&E to a check with the gyno who confirmed what we knew already. so that's that really my beanie has gone, have to back in 2 weeks for a scan just in case it was eptopic. we're coping v well all things considered I think. still not sure if we will continue trying I think we will but not sure about this month, in a way I want to get straight back into it to hopefully catch quickly. but we'll see, DH is on guard over the 'crucial' time this month and away again at the same time next month so it won't amount to anything - who knows.

wend - how r u doing?

anyhow i'll stay with the new thread if u girls don't mind?

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