Someone calm me down please.

[Bonkerz]

Ok i need rational people to calm me down.

As some of you know i have had 2 mc in the last year. My last one was january. Have not been ttc but not been cautious either.

Since mc have had 2 periods first started 26 days after d&c and second was 24 days in to my cycle. I am now on day 34 and would have expected to start af on saturday. No symptoms and small changes are beginning to be apparant, it was DH who pointed out something tonight and then we started looking at dates etc.

DH wanted to go out and get a test tonight but all shops are now shut so will have to wait till tomorrow. Am so scared. someone please just calm me down. fell like i want to cry.

[Bonkerz]

when he wants to be. Not sure what to do if i am pregnant though.


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[Nemo1977]

aww hun u will be fine
the way i see it is for however long my bean is here whether its a week a month turns into a tot etc then I am going to enjoy it and love it as much as possible

[Bonkerz]

ok am now crying. What makes it worse is i got VERY drunk saturday night.

[misdee]

dont know what to say, as never been in this situation, but another {{{{}}}} for you.

[Nemo1977]

lol bonkerz same here b4 i found out wiht this baby i got drunk the week before...

[sansouci]

Please don't cry, bonkerz. If you are pg, go to your gp & ask if you can see an ob/gyn to take you through it. I have a friend who has 4 dds but had to spend each pregnancy lying on her back! I hope you won't have to do the same but it would be good to have some professional guidance. Or maybe you have already done that?

[bubbly1973]

bonkerz good luck, hope its a bfp...dont worry about getting drunk (easier said than done i know) but for all the women who have got drunk and smoked and god knows what else before they found out they were pregnant, they all have had healthy babies

so get that thought out of your head

try to relax and take deep breaths and think nice thoughts

good luck xxxx

[Bonkerz]

Dh just rang he cant find anywhere thats open, tried spa and local shops in village. Chemist is miles away so we are gonna wait till tomorrow. Will save a wee sample in morning and test in town tomorrow.

[sansouci]

Keep us posted!

[nitehowler]

good luck hun. hope he gets back with a test soon the wait will get to us all. keep us informed. hugs

[HRHDuchessofPeahead]

bonkerz, it is a RULE that you have to get blind drunk the weekend before you realise you are pregnant, didn't you know that?! in fact I would say that it is almost proof that you are....
have a bath, go to bed, try to sleep, and let us know as SOON as you have peed on the stick in the morning?!

[Nemo1977]

good luck for the morning

[Bonkerz]

am going to take your advice your royalness and go and have a bath. Am in town first thing so should have a result then. will post at lunchtime. Am gonna just relax about it now.

Both Dh and I agree that if i am pregnant then we will go to the doctors on thursday (his day off) together and demand help. We have been told we need 3 mc to qualify for special care but we are hoping if we hassle and beg then we may get seen at epu. I hate this so much.

[RTKangaMummy]

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[expressmummy]

its sounds like you will have great news tomorrow well done

sending lots of baby dust your way
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[Bonkerz]

Thankyou every one. Not sure i want the news to be honest but if im pregnant i will have to be strong and try to cope as best i can. Dh and i are alot closer since the first 2 mc and although this time will be so hard im sure we will talk more and both be scared together! Am not going to tell ANYONE this time either except my mn mates ofcourse so may have to start me own thread if i am so i can bore you all with my emotions. Ok am off for that bath (by royal appointment) and then going to try to sleep. Night all and thanks again. Will let you all know tomorrow.

[RTKangaMummy]

Sweet dreams bonkerz

[HRHDuchessofPeahead]

sleep tight!

[WigWamBam]

Sleep well, sweetheart.

[RTKangaMummy]

Bonkerz am hopping it is

[WigWamBam]

Thinking about you this morning, bonkerz, hope you slept well and this morning brings what you want it to bring.

[Flossam]

Bonkerz? Any news? Hope you are ok. x

[Frizbe]

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[Toothache]

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