Someone calm me down please.

[Bonkerz]

Ok i need rational people to calm me down.

As some of you know i have had 2 mc in the last year. My last one was january. Have not been ttc but not been cautious either.

Since mc have had 2 periods first started 26 days after d&c and second was 24 days in to my cycle. I am now on day 34 and would have expected to start af on saturday. No symptoms and small changes are beginning to be apparant, it was DH who pointed out something tonight and then we started looking at dates etc.

DH wanted to go out and get a test tonight but all shops are now shut so will have to wait till tomorrow. Am so scared. someone please just calm me down. fell like i want to cry.

[Bonkerz]

did a test this morning and i am pregnant.

Feel numb, happy but sad and terrified. havent stopped crying. have arranged to go doctors on friday morning with dh so we can see what we need to be doing.

[WigWamBam]

Oh, sweetheart, I know this is going to bring a lot of really conflicting emotions, but congratulations. I know it's a difficult time and it'll be hard to put everything into perspective but try not to worry.

Lots of love and hugs xxxxx

[leahbump]

congratulations bonkerz!

Glad you've got the GP sorted..hopefully they will be supportive and hopefully offer you close monnitoring.

lots of ((())) for you and you dh.

take care of you all (inc bean!)

xx

[MINNIE1]

Bonkerz,
Congrads,
I understand your feelings as i found out i was pg last thurs and had a mc last year.. Sending you all the luck and babydust i can sparexxxxxxxx*x

[golds]

Huge Congratulations to you both x

[Flossam]

Good luck!! Congratulations! I so hope it all works out for you. xxxx

[Flossam]

Good luck!! Congratulations! I so hope it all works out for you. xxxx

[Nemo1977]

aww bonkerz hugggggggggggggge hugs to u hun

[Bonkerz]

thanks everyone. May be on here more now cos dh and i are only gonna tell people who we need help from etc. are not telling our parents or family yet.

Not eally sure of my dates but if i go by my cycle being 25 days like mast month then my bean will be due on christmas day! its too hard to think about that though. I htink im 6 weeks pregnant so will be demanding a scan in the next 2 weeks really. im also gonna ask for my levels to be checked. Does anyone else have any advice about what i should be asking from my gp baring in mind ive had 2 mc previous (july 04 and jan 05)

[RTKangaMummy]

Oh Bonkerz

DEFFO BRILL NEWS

Will keep everything crossed for you over coming weeks

Congrats to you both

[Toothache]

Congratulations Bonkerz - I hope it all goes well this time!

[expressmummy]

congratulations ive been on all morning waiting for you this is fab news im really chuffed for you and your dh i bet your still shaking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
loads of sticky baby dust your way put your feet up and relax.

[Cadbury]

Good news Bonkerz! My warmest wishes for a safe pregnacy.

[dramaqueen72]

well firstly congrats bonkerz! I'm due on christmas day too! we shared our last crappy m/c together and now get to get some GOOD luck huh?
take it easy! calm down and keep plenty of tests about so you can retest when you get a 'i dont believe it' moment!!! LOL!
as for your dr appointment. ask for plenty of early scans to reassure yourself. ask them what they think you should be doing -if anything special at all,- and tell them how scared you are. I know how scared you are, after 2 missed m/c myself, but youre doing okay, look (if your due dates right!) you got to 5wks and 3days already!
theres a due in dec thread already, full of us worrying and being delighted and scared all at once. come and see.......
((hugs)) to you!

[Thomcat]

Oh bonkerz, I'm so happy for you and sending you positive, healthy, happy vibes. try not to worry, just be chilled and relax, keep your feet up as much as poss, and allow yourself to feel okay and happy about it all. thinking of you and very, very happy for you. TC x

[ginastitch]

Hi I had 2 miscarriages close together, one in Nov 01 at 14 weeks and another in Feb 02 at 10 weeks, I fell pregnant again in October 02 and my daughter was born in Jul 03, so I know what you are going through emotionally. Because of my miscarriages my gp organised early scans and I carried on having scans regularly through my pregnancy, it was really good to have the reassurance of seeing her move about on the scan. I was lucky enough to feel her move at 14 weeks too (I have a son too, born before the miscarriages so I knew how the movements felt) so from that moment on I knew all was well as I could feel her move regularly. The next few weeks will be very emotional for both you and your husband with lots of highs and lows, just rest as much as you can and eat well to give your baby the best possible start. I hope all goes well with you and will keep my fingers crossed.

[romilly]

bonkerz - congrats to you hon. and wishing you all the stickieststicky dust in the world....

[Kayleigh]

Congratulations . Am so pleased for you.

[Diddle]

congratulations bonkerz.
i had 2 m/c this year, 12 wks and 3 wks ago, and i am terrified of the next time. I can understand how you are feeling. stay calm take it easy and ask the doctor everythign you can think of.

[Lottielou]

CONGRATS Bonkerz! am so pleased for you.
I had my first m/c 3 weeks ago and am waiting for AF before we try again, am absolutely petrified so know how you feel. Keep calm, relax and enjoy if you can huni x Huge Hugs x

[ssd]

Congratulations Bonkerz!!!!
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[piffle]

huge congrats, I really am wishign everything goes well for you Bonkerz
hope to be joining you in the up the duff club as soon as we can manage it!

[HRHDuchessofPeahead]

oh bonkerz, congratulations! glad the "getting pissed beforehand" charm worked as usual . Christmas day, huh? So will it be Noel, Noelle, Holly or Gabriel?

[HRHDuchessofPeahead]

How could I forget Rudolph off that list?

[RTKangaMummy]

My Godson is called Gabriel


His birthday isn't til late Jan though

And he is georgeous

He is 5 years old and very very cute