Someone calm me down please.

[Bonkerz]

Ok i need rational people to calm me down.

As some of you know i have had 2 mc in the last year. My last one was january. Have not been ttc but not been cautious either.

Since mc have had 2 periods first started 26 days after d&c and second was 24 days in to my cycle. I am now on day 34 and would have expected to start af on saturday. No symptoms and small changes are beginning to be apparant, it was DH who pointed out something tonight and then we started looking at dates etc.

DH wanted to go out and get a test tonight but all shops are now shut so will have to wait till tomorrow. Am so scared. someone please just calm me down. fell like i want to cry.

[george32]

Bonkerz, big congratulations to you
Hope you are doing OK.
Hope you come & join us on the Dec thread soon.
xxx

[Debbsy]

bonkerz congrats hun sending you lots of positive healthy vibes take care sweetheart ((((hugs))))

[sansouci]

Oh Bonkerz, I am so delighted for you! I wish you all the luck in the world. Keep calm, be happy & fingers crossed for Friday & most importantly, next Christmas! Yipppeeee!

[hunkermunker]

Congratulations, Bonkerz!

[bubbly1973]

congratulations bonkerz!

christmas day baby huh...wouldnt that be a wonderful gift to have!!

sorry dont have any good advice for you to ask your gp, but wishing you all the luck and very best in your pregnancy

[hereshoping]

Hi Bonkerz - hope you remember me from that illfated aug thread
i had 2 missed mc aug 04 and jan05 and just got another BFP today
I think we also have 3 children each?
my GP is refrring me to EPU, dont take no for an answer as there is evidence that tlc and early scans increase your chances of successful pgs
esp if youve had missed mcs - you need it so you dont have the horrible wait until booking to find out youve lost it
thinking of you and know what youre going thru LOL

[Bonkerz]

Hereshoping, glad you got a BFp too. I am going to push for the referral and feel quite strong at the moment because i want this baby and know im gonna have to fight to get my rights.
Dh and I havent really acknowleged the baby yet, we are both too scared really. I havent got any signs either really yet except sore boobs which is odd cos i had sickness by now with my last 2 mc. i only have 1 child and dh has 1 but we have none together. I do childmind for 3 kids though which is probably where you got the 3 from!!

[Spacecadet]

bonkerz and hereshoping, congrats to you both!! i was on the ill fated aug thread too, but lost my baby at 16 weeks so only had 1 af since misscarriage in march, ,me and dh have decided to try again, best of luck to both of you, you deserve it ask for early scan at 6 weeks to put your mind at rest and referral to consultant care.

[Bonkerz]

OK update: Went to the doctors yesterday and spent an hour crying and trying to explain myself. He eventually agreed that i should be given aspirin due to family history of bood clotting and also took my bloods to check. He referred me to EPU and i have a scan on Wednesday at 8.30, he said it was up to me to convince then i need to be scanned again at 9 weeks. He also has arranged for midwife to ring me next week about booking in etc. All he kept doing was looking at his watch and telling me its no guarentee that i will keep this baby. Had to make him understand that the reason i want all of this is to giove my baby the best chance and that all i wanted was to know if my baby dies and not have to find out at 12 weeks that this baby has died at 7 or 8 weeks like the last two!.

Am feeling more confidnet that i am doing what i can this time and not just waiting for it to happen. No symptoms except tiredness and sore boobs but that could be a good sign right? With my ds i didnt get symptoms till 9 weeks and then they came with avengence but with my last 2 i had symptoms from day1.

[Flumpette]

Hi. Praying for your baby and I haven't read all the comments below, only yours as I was desperate to find out if you are pg.

It sounds like you are getting priority treatment and that you are ensuring that you are looked after. Thinking of you. x

[Newbarnsleygirl]

Missed this.

Big congratulations Bonkerz.
I hope everything goes well.