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First time TTC?!! Let's get through this together - Calling all first time frolickers and fully proficient frolickers!

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summerbird · 09/04/2009 15:50

A new thread to follow on from Part 3 - AKA the lucky thread!

Lets get some more BFP's this month

x

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crunchynutter · 11/04/2009 12:37

Hi all! I've had a day off and missed loads! LOL.

It was our anniversary yesterday and we had a lovely day although the sickness is now teemed with severe heartburn it hurts! I had a little cry too which is quite unlike me so I think these hormones are really kicking in! My mother has assured me I should be safe to take gaviscon though so that is now the plan- along with the gingerbread men lol

We are rushing to finish off our house now too so off to buy carpet in a bit and things to fix my toilet (don't ask lol)

summer you bought a tear to my eye about my BFP I still can't believ you and Dawn will have your little ones soon, it seems ages ago the three of us started our little thread not sure if anyone would join and now look at it it's lovely to go through everything together though xx

Kay4MattTTC · 11/04/2009 12:46

hey MAF sorry diddn't reply last night. i went to bed.

crunchynutter · 11/04/2009 13:10

Hey Kay- sorry to be naive but what is GOF??
welcome to the thread by the way!

Kay4MattTTC · 11/04/2009 13:14

thankQ CN GOF means good old fu*k

crunchynutter · 11/04/2009 13:16

OHHH lol that was in my head TBH but thought I just had a naughty mind lol

Kay4MattTTC · 11/04/2009 13:18

lol.
so whats your story then CN?

crunchynutter · 11/04/2009 13:40

well, I came off the injection in June and have been TTC since then- i got a BFP last Saturday though which i'm really happy about, especially as we were told it would take about 18months! I've been married two years yesterday and have been with DH since I was 16. I'm 24 BTW!

it's an emotional time TTC but I think most parents would agree it's worth it, no matter how you get there or how long it takes! I think this site has proven how many different experiences there are for people and really there is no 'normal'. Everybody's different! xx

Kay4MattTTC · 11/04/2009 13:52

CN: awww am happy for you.
yerr i know what you mean it is very emotional for me.
i have wanted a DC ever since ...[something that happened a few years ago] ... and now i have found someone i want a DC with it just doesn't seem to be happening for us i can't help to think that it is my fault. and know just about everyone around me etha has a new baby or is PG and i just feel so ,, but also very for them.

kormachameleon · 11/04/2009 13:53

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Kay4MattTTC · 11/04/2009 16:27

lol kormachameleon the ironic thing is that i am acctully looking forward to that.

crunchynutter · 11/04/2009 16:51

that's my sister by the way kay who likes to spy on us now and again. I'm training my dog to do night feeds and bum changes he's very clever!

Kay4MattTTC · 11/04/2009 16:57

lol
n oh oki, does she have a DC??

crunchynutter · 11/04/2009 18:37

yes- he's 5 and he's lovely- she just likes to moan.

Kay4MattTTC · 11/04/2009 21:30

has anybody else been feeling really latly?

PistachioLemon · 12/04/2009 07:18

Morning Ladies, HAPPY EASTER!
And HAPPY ANNIVERSARY Dawn, enjoy your dinner

DawnAS · 12/04/2009 11:03

Thanks Pistachio!!

I have been spoilt today, even though DH and I agreed not to do presents (so now I feel a bit guilty...).

DH bought me 40 bright pink roses and another bouquet of mixed flowers. He also bought me a CD that I wanted, but by far the best present was one that he made himself at work. He works for a photographic company and took in one of our favourite wedding pics and blew it up onto a lovely canvas, in black and white, for our bedroom. I'll see if I can find some of our wedding pics to put on MN... My dress was black and white and I'm really sad about the fact that I only got to wear it once!! It's under the bed at the moment, don't think I could do it up now though as Jelly tends to get in the way - !!

Anyway, I hope that everyone is having a lovely Easter and that you're all eating lots of chocolate for me!!

We're going out for dinner nice and early tonight, at 6.00pm, so we can have an early night!!

xxx

fairywing · 13/04/2009 08:08

Hi all, feeling a bit this morning. Yesterday i was feeling really positive. I felt awful! really sick, trapped wind, indigestion, constipation (nice!!)all good signs i thought. Today i wake up and all my symptoms have gone. No nausea, tummy is fine, no sore boobs. Realised ive felt no stretching sensations for a couple of days now. Doesn't look good really does it. Last time, although i didn't miscarry until almost 12 weeks it was this week that things started to go wrong as at 8 weeks i was only measuring 5+5 and im 5+1 today. Nothing i can do about it really. I'm not at docs till next monday as he's on holiday so will try to get an early scan then. Think i probably meed to prepare myself though.

fairywing · 13/04/2009 13:43

Appologies for the slightly irrational outburst I have had a nice relaxed soak in the bath and have since realised i have sore nipples again, am feeling a little nauseous after doing a bit of housework and just remembered the bizarrely inappropriate dream i had last night . Plus i just did another test and i know it means nothing really but the line is the strongest i have ever had - stronger that the control line even!! So perhaps i was a little hasty in thinking the worst. I have to stop doing that but its so much harder to think positively sometimes.

crunchynutter · 13/04/2009 14:07

I posted a reply to your first message fairy and it's not shown up!

I am glad you are feeling better though- it must be scary after what you've been through so you are by no means being irrational! I can't walk at the moment without going dizzy and nearly passing out it must be the anaemia as I don't think thats a pregnancy symptom but like yourself i can't get to the doctors for a while- i've no idea how i'm going to cope at work I can't stand up for more than 5 minutes without nearly blacking out! I just hope it's not bad for the baby (or babies )

PistachioLemon · 13/04/2009 14:33

Afternoon Fairy, I'm glad to hear you're feeling a bit better - I agree totally with Crunchie and think that you weren't being irrational at all, especially with what you've been through. Yay for the strongest blue line ever!

Crunchie sorry to hear about the anaemia, hopefully your GP will be able to sort it out for you. My sister had it really badly and it was a nightmare, she kept nearly passing out all over the place just like you but she's fine now.

Afternoon MAF how was your Easter? Did you manage to pot on all your plants?

Dawn your DH sounds lovely, what wonderful anniversary presents, so thoughtful. How was your dinner last night?

Hi to everyone else I missed out, hope you're all having a lovely long weekend.

summerbird · 13/04/2009 17:11

hi guys - fairy you are not irrational just naturally anxious, this is the place to air your worries anyway and we are all here for you.

crunchy just relax and try to take it easy if you can, one of the best pieces of advice i read was when pregnan you should listen to your body and do what it tells you to!

dawn your DH is an absolute star!!! what lovely pressies

my sister has offered to come and stay with us the weekend of our wedding anniversary so that we can either go out for a nice meal or even go away for the evening. our WA is in August and the babba will be 2 months old by then, so she will babysit for us, she is such a sweetie!

hope you are all catching the sun in the garden or park!

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DawnAS · 13/04/2009 17:45

Hello all,

Fairy, please don't apologise honey. You will naturally have wobbly moments right up until your 12 week scan, as anyone does, even if they haven't MCd!! I guess in a way, I was slightly luckier because the MC was even earlier than yours, at 5 weeks, so I only had to wait until 6 weeks to get past that first hurdle. But I still don't relax even now so unfortunately all you PG ladies will have to get used to that.

There are constant hurdles to go through, right throughout the PG. The 12 week scan, the 20 week scan to make sure everything's where it should be and working, then 25 weeks when a large number of babies can survive if they're born too early. But I really think all this is preparing us for Motherhood - when we will NEVER STOP worrying!!

So Fairy and all the other PG girls, feel free to have wobbles whenever you need them and those of us that are slightly further on, will offer all the reassurances that you need, while worrying about our own next hurdles. MN is great for supporting each and every one of us.

Back to your original messages Fairy, glad that you started to get those PG feelings back again after relaxing. I'm sure that you are going to be fine, but maybe with some wobbly moments thrown in for good measure. It's amazing, I really thought people breezed through PG - but I'm not convinced that anyone has a trouble-free one...

Pistachio, I had a lovely dinner thanks darlin', although I did have some forbidden food and am trying not to think too hard about it. For my starter I had a Chicken and Chorizo (forbidden food) skewer. There were only a couple of bits of Chorizo though and I haven't been ill so I'm sure all is fine. I then had whole Seabass with a pesto sauce and some chips and veg, followed by Apple and Blackberry Crumble and Clotted Cream. I took 12 units of insulin before my meal and my reading was 6.9!! I was so thrilled that I'd kept it below the dreaded 7!! Did you have a nice weekend honey? Back to work tomorrow - yuck!!

Summer, hey hun, how was your weekend in Newcastle? Hope you had a good time!! What a gem of your Dsis to offer to come and stay so that you can go away. Luckily by our next WA, Jelly will be about 10 months old, although it's more the animals that we would struggle to get looked after, but I'm sure we will have lists of people offering to babysit so that we can go out for dinner!! And at least by then, I'll be allowed to have whatever I want without have to worry about injections first - sheer bliss!!

Crunchy, have you already been diagnosed with Anaemia or did you have it before PG? It's quite common in PG so when they test you they will just put you on Iron tablets I would imagine. Try not to worry too much, horrid when you're going through it though. I've had a few dizzy spells in the last couple of weeks and wonder if it's something to do with lack of iron now that I've had to change my diet so radically...

Anyway, hope everyone has had a lovely weekend and eaten lots of choccies for me!!

xxx

PistachioLemon · 14/04/2009 10:34

FIRST TIME FROLICKERS

PistachioLemon: Cycle 5 CD1
Maf: Cycle 4 CD11
VeryAnnieMary Cycle 3 CD14
Kay4MattTTC: Cycle 10 CD14
ShirleyC: Cycle 2 CD16
Wildfig: Cycle 12 CD23
Thandeka: Cycle 3 CD23
Linwin: Cycle 4 CD28
Vix: Cycle 8 CD29

FULLY PROFICIENT FROLICKERS

Flirty - EDD 24 April 2009
Hever - EDD 2nd May I think
Saz - EDD 15 May 2009
Summerbird - EDD 3 June 2009
Dawn: - EDD 10th June 2009 (MC Aug 08)
MichaelaS: - EDD 13 Aug 2009
heylottie - EDD 11th Oct 2009
BubbaP: EDD 18 Oct 2009 (MC Oct 08)
Crunchynutter - EDD?
Fairy - EDD?(MC Jan 09)
Shirley -

Kay4MattTTC · 14/04/2009 13:48

afternoon all. hope everyone is oki.

here's an update about me:
i am now on CD14. hopeing there is a chance somthing might happen after last night , but not sure anything has cause i haven't noticed an ovulation on my FC again . today i am feeling pritty . so thinking i might stay indoors.

summerbird · 14/04/2009 15:13

kay have you heard of Preseed? you can order it here pre seed it worked for me and a few others on MN. It is basically a lube that the little wrigglers love and swim towards rather than away from (as is what happens with ordinary lubes).

On that pleasant subject of lube i shall leave you all to your afternoon tea!

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