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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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HumphreysCorner · 20/01/2009 09:28

Over here ladies! Will try and link to here.

HC
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Dawni · 10/02/2009 21:04

Have poured my life story onto another thread in hope of help, a nice MNer has replied so here's hoping to lots of support yet again, i will not leave here though as you ladies are fab, just need a little more support from the other side iykwim

Hope everyone is well

D xx

pureeandpearls · 11/02/2009 07:47

Yippee for Willmouse- send some luck my way won't you?!

Dawni- don;t worry about the Clomid. OPKs aren't very effective, but the point of Clomid is that it TOTALLY sorts out your cycles, so they become very predictable. I couldn't use OPKs because of PCOS and have a happy healthy baby as a result. IME EWCM becomes a very reliable method of predicting ovulation but be very nice to yourself; for the five days I was taking them each month I was ridiculously emotional to the point where I tried not to go out!

I can't help you make the decision, and my five=pence worth might be too late, but I would do it all again (and may have to.) in a heartbeat. Babypearls totally rocks my world. HTH.

MrsPuddleduck · 11/02/2009 09:35

Hi all

Just a quickie today - DS2 has just come down with chicken pox!

Dawni - we will let you join another thread as long as you don't leave ours! Sorry you felt so low yesterday. I hope you got some support on the other thread - I think clomid has a good sucess rate (and for twins as HC said).

Hi to everyone else!

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Ceebee74 · 11/02/2009 10:19

Yet again me and MJIM seem to be on the same wavelength - I was just going to post to Willmouse that you should check your immunity - when I was reading up on it when my boys had it, I kept coming across info about chicken pox and pregnancy - hope your DS2 is ok and not suffering

LaDiDaDi · 11/02/2009 10:21

OOOh! Congratulations Willmouse!!!

So excited for you and so pleased to hear some good news .

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MrsPuddleduck · 11/02/2009 10:51

I have a feeling I was told I was immune last time I was pregnant - do they do a blood test for it?. Would it be in my notes? What can happen?

MrsPuddleduck · 11/02/2009 10:53

I have already had it anyway so I think I am ok I have had double exposure now anyway so its a bit late!

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Dawni · 11/02/2009 14:04

Good afternoon ladies

I thank you all for your sound advice, i couldnt bring myself to take the clomid this morning so will make an appointment with my doc, i dont want to make things worse for us by being stubborn and stupid. Although AF arrived on CD25, i have only had spots and brown yuck since, now on CD5 and the big AF is yet to begin, my worry and reason for not taking the clomid is, i want to ask the doctor why do i get my period around 7-10 days after ovulation, my body doesnt even seem to try, i shed whats there before anything can happen , i feel i will never have the BFP we so desperatley want.

Hope everyone is well

D xx

HumphreysCorner · 11/02/2009 15:47

Dawni-sending you virtual hugs and hope an appointment may help you on your way.

I am feeling doomful today as my symptoms seem to have disappeared overnight and I have terrible cramping. Have no bleeding so will sit it out and see what happens. Last time this happened it was another few weeks before the bleeding started so obviously don't want to wait that long.

Hope all OK.

HC
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Dawni · 11/02/2009 15:52

Oh HC Hope you are ok, try not to read too much into it, maybe your body is just giving you respite for a day xx

MrsPuddleduck · 11/02/2009 15:55

HC - hope everything's OK with you. Perhaps you ate better yesterday? Does the cramping go when you put your feet up an totally rest? If so do it! Thinking of you

detoxdiva · 11/02/2009 15:56

HC - try not to worry. The cramping could just be your stomach muscles stretching already, as well as the bean settling in I found the cramping a lot more noticable this time.

Dawni - sending you lots of good wishes for the results you want soon.

Willmouse - oh no another case of internet chickenpox Hope ds is not suffering too much.

Just woken from another snooze on the sofa Dd is being a little star - we cuddle up on the sofa with cbeebies on and I doze for an hour!! Took her swimming this morning so I think that took it out of me as well!

Dawni · 11/02/2009 18:16

Im back again for a whinge !!! Cant get to see my own doctor as she is only doing morning appointments then off on friday !!! I will just have to see anybody i can....Ive been feeling sick the last 3 afternoons, and im just feeling very down in the dumps at the mo, dont want to show it too much at home as DH has enough to cope with, we see the orthopedic surgeon tomorrow, hope he has something good to say. I dont want to give up TTCing but feel its fruitless at the mo and things are going against us . Bought yet another fertility charm, i am such a sucker eh !!
I could run away and hide right now, i just wanna eat shit and cry, ive not felt this bad for this long in a while, i know i should be happy with a beautiful healthy son and understanding husband, but i need something more in my life, i feel so empty and useless and just plain shit.....
Sorry my lovely ladies, just had to get rid of that

HC How you feeling now hun ??

Willmouse Has it sunk in fully, you lucky gal'

Detox Hope your keeping well hun xx

And hows things at the MJIM household ??

Hello and love to everyone else

D xx

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Ceebee74 · 11/02/2009 20:31

Evening all

Dawni for you! Really sorry you are feeling so down about things but you do have a lot to deal with at the moment - I guess all you can do is take one day at a time.

HC am sure everything is completely fine but totally understand why you are worried. Will really keep everything crossed that this beanie is a sticky one

MJIM I am sure the styes are because you are so tired and probably run down. Glad Naomi slept better last night - hopefully this will be her turning the corner

Detox gosh those early days of pg are so hard aren't they? Particularly with a toddler in tow aswell! I used to go to work for a rest but was so knackered by the time I got home and picked Josh up, I always fell asleep on the sofa whilst Josh was watching ITNG or whatever his viewing of choice was at the time! In fact, just watching Rubbadubbers now brings the general crapness back - it was on the Bedtime hour during my worst period

All well here

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Dawni · 12/02/2009 07:49

Morning to you all

Belgian hope things go your way hun xx

Woke this morning at 4am in pain, AF here for reall now, no more farting about !!! Temp dropped big style, so here we go again. Will still go and see doc though (when i can get an appointment) Going to hospital soon for DHs appointment with orthopedic surgeon, lets hope that goes well.....

Catch ya's later

Much love

D xx

HumphreysCorner · 12/02/2009 09:49

Morning all

Never slept last night with worry then had a dream that I went for a scan and there was something wrong with the spine. Have been sick again this morning so fingers crossed eh. Still got cramping though.

Dawni-you do need to see your Dr as soon as you can so they can set the ball rolling. Good luck with DH's appointment.

Belgian-wishing you lots of luck too. Let us know how you get on.

Hope all OK.

HC
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