June 2025 TTC Support Thread

[FlyHighSky72]

Welcome to June @Iris2024and @Ec2808

@FlyHighSky72im wondering if i should just do this from days 10-22 of my cycle? Try and get in maybe every other day and forget about the peak exactly? what do you think, i feel that way il be covered but not really sure how many dpo i am lol

urgh!! My LH is even lower this evening 😢😢😢what’s going on???

I dont know what’s going on cd16 and still no lh surge did i miss it because i cant test 2 times a day? Do i have to bd until Af now or what? Average cycle length is 27days…😩😩

@Ec2808how many cycles have you been tracking LH for? This is only my second month tracking - last month peak was CD17 so maybe I’m a late ovulator?!?

@FlyHighSky72i’ve been tracking for four months and i get my surge between 12-14 normally.. this month still nothing 😩😩 maybe you are… but for me and my previous cycles this seems late 😕

This is how I felt! Nightmare! Then I get stressed that my stress is causing ovulation delay!

@bigbird1234i know it’s torture.. i was doing so well too but this is putting me off 😩😩

Heyy! Sorry if I'm getting this wrong...but what I'm seeing from last cycle is you had a low test on CD15. Is that 0.1? So you've got a good few more days until CD18 when you got your peak last month. I wouldn't be worried at all. Sorry if I've misread anything, I don't ever register my tests on the app I literally just ignore anything that is a light line, only pay attention when it's as dark as or darker! 🤍

@FlyHighSky72this happened to my last cycle, Premom was convinced I ovulated on CD14 as the test was 0.57. I didn't trust it and kept testing, CD22 I went to 2.11 so knew that was peak, then Premom switched! I usually end up testing 3 times a day when I start to see numbers go up as my peak rises and falls so quickly!

@NavigatingLifewow that’s a big difference what is your average cycle length?

any recommendations for cheap pregnancy test strips? I’ve seen premom ones on Amazon, are they worth it? I don’t want to buy shite. But also don’t want to fork out £10 for 2 FRERs again!

I got my BFP at 10 DPO with the Wondfo cheapies 20 pack, they are 10 miu sensitive 😊

Are you tracking your temperature as well? I don’t think I’m going to feel like I’ve OV unless I get a test and then the rise in temps these days.

Not everyday because i did that last month and it caused to much stress but this morning my temp was very low only 36.12…so bizarre

So my chemical bleeding lasted only two days and was really light. I’m hoping that means it’s all done, dusted and I’m onto a new cycle where I’ll actually OV.

Been super weird and sad coming to terms with losing it when it was such a miracle to get that positive digital 18 hours after a stark white BFN. Then within 36 hours it was gone again. It’s made me reluctant to test early at all because what’s the point. If I hadn’t tested, I’d never have known, and not spent the last few days crying. I think my autism is making it harder for me to come to terms with logically on top of emotionally.

Considering myself CD4 and just going to have loads of sex this month. HOWEVER! I learnt something about sperm I never knew before! I knew men produced it all day long, but I had no idea it takes 3 months for the sperm to develop. So whatever they ejaculate has been developing for up to 90 days being affected by their lifestyle, not what they produced that morning. And for my partner that means his hot baths he takes for psoriasis.

I discovered even just 20 minutes of exposure to high temperatures once a week for men is enough to use hot baths as birth control! So no more laptop on his lap and he needs to keep his balls out of the water 😅 Apparently the heat can fracture the DNA and be a contributing factor to chemical pregnancies. So we may actually be screwed for the next few months as his current sperm has been exposed.

@LookForTheLiight nobody is out until AF, I’ve had friends have nothing at 10 and 11DPO and then 12DPO throw the test in the bin but it did have a faint line and she has her baby in her arms now. Don’t lose hope 🤍☺️

@Bumblebee1984 My Mum keeps saying to me watch you catch on holiday when your more relaxed 😌 fingers crossed for you 🤞🏽 I’m 41 so we have similar situations.

@FlyHighSky72 Hi darling, it can fluctuate so much the numbers, I’d say your still waiting for peak so keep testing testing testing ☺️🤣

@Esssa just want to say I’m so sorry for your losses and sending so much love. Everything crossed for you and sending baby dust ✨

5dpo today and it’s going so sloooowwww! I’ve already told myself I’m out lol 🤣

@bigbird1234 Ive got an ultrasound on Thursday and no idea what to expect? What do they check for?

We are all here for you hun ❤️ I never knew that information.

Reading all your posts about catching peak etc I’m now here worried that my fast peak was it actually peak 😩🙈🙈

I peak CD 17/18
I seem to get a little mini rise around 13/14 then drops right down before the surge - so try not to worry ☺️

Yeah, was total news to me. My partner was actually quite relieved to find out he “worked”, so wants to make sure he has good quality sperm now as well.

This is one of the links I read www.mcgill.ca/oss/article/health/facts-and-myths-male-fertility-tight-underwear-hot-tubs-marijuana-and-more

@Ec2808around 35/36 days, so frustratingly long! My peak will be in around the time I'm going to be at Disney paris with my family... thankfully separate hotel rooms but defs not exactly the vibe I was hoping for, hoping i peak a day or two earlier than last cycle 🙈

@EmPeEfso sorry to read this, I can only imagine how upsetting it is to see BFP and then go through that. Be kind to yourself and hope youre okay 💕

@NavigatingLifeoh wow that is loong! I’m normally between 25-30 days but with peak between 12-14 and this month still nothing.. starting to think i might have a problem 😔

@NavigatingLifeat least you have separate rooms where there’s a will there’s a way 🤣🤣

The way they described it to me was looking to see if there’s anything “structurally” wrong.

they measure your endometrium, your ovaries, count how many follicles you’ve got, see if you have fibroids or lesions.

It can’t detect everything - ie you might have superficial lesions on your endometrius (which is what I’m worried about) - but it can pick up big stuff.

they also did a vaginal probe

my blood tests have come back all fine, so not sure what next really!