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Do you see what I see?

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DoraBella88 · 02/07/2024 06:16

5 days late, had slight blood the day after I was due when wiping then spend last night in tears as had some brown when I wiped.

woke up this morning and decided to test again as no actual period yet.

i did 3 tests 🙈 husband can see them too but says we should just stay calm and relax 😂 we’ve been ttc for over 10yrs so we’re both extremely cautious

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peribaddreams · 24/02/2025 07:53

Love this! Such exciting news! So wonderful, congrats ❤️❤️

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DoraBella88 · 24/02/2025 07:58

Thank you ladies. I’ve spent the past hour going from crying to laughing 😂 I can’t stop shaking. This is just insane

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Olika · 24/02/2025 08:24

Amazing news!! Congratulations! 💞🤩

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DoraBella88 · 24/02/2025 09:06

Thank you. I’m just in utter shock. I can’t believe it 🥹

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DontBiteTheCat · 24/02/2025 09:25

DoraBella88 · 24/02/2025 07:58

Thank you ladies. I’ve spent the past hour going from crying to laughing 😂 I can’t stop shaking. This is just insane

Oh bless you! I had a massive grin on my face reading your post, I really am so happy for you.

Remember it’s normal to be nervous, I don’t think I relaxed for the whole 9 months after my MC, but this is a brand new pregnancy and the odds are that everything will be fine. Please, please keep us updated on your journey!x

SirChenjins · 24/02/2025 09:28

Oh that's amazing news, congratulations! I've often thought of you and wondered how you were getting on - some threads just stick with you for some reason, and yours was one of them. Wishing you all the very best! Smile

Strictlymad · 24/02/2025 09:34

Wow what news! Hopefully epu will look after you straight away and maybe do some progesterone or something. Biggest hugs

3within3 · 24/02/2025 09:42

Oh OP what a wonderful message to wake up to. Delighted for you both x

Cattery · 24/02/2025 10:00

Brilliant news 🥰

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DoraBella88 · 24/02/2025 10:34

Thank you everyone for your kind messages. As soon as I saw the words pregnant I knew I had to come back to this thread to let you all know 😂

fingers crossed for a better outcome this time ❤️ xxx

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DoraBella88 · 24/02/2025 10:36

SirChenjins · 24/02/2025 09:28

Oh that's amazing news, congratulations! I've often thought of you and wondered how you were getting on - some threads just stick with you for some reason, and yours was one of them. Wishing you all the very best! Smile

That’s sweet. Thank you.

I often come back to this thread to read it. I was only reading it last night actually. When I’m feeling down and sorry for myself I like to read back to remember how I felt in the very beginning before it all went wrong. Like it gives me hope I guess. And now here we are 🥹

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nzeire · 24/02/2025 10:50

Sending you all the good thoughts from nz xxxxx

Incakewetrust · 25/02/2025 23:32

Congratulations!!!

summerlovingvibes · 26/02/2025 14:15

@DoraBella88 just seen your Monday update. Have been following the thread since last year.

Oh my goodness, you poor thing with your rollercoasters and now this!

Have you spoken to the EPU / started progesterone?

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DoraBella88 · 26/02/2025 16:00

I called EPU as instructed when I had my positive tests. Basically everything they said was a lie. They won’t help me as I don’t match their criteria. So have basically been told to wait and see what happens 🙄 so far so good though.

I have self referred to the midwife though as that way this pregnancy will show and count, should anything go wrong again. I have also done a econsult request with my GP (although they were useless last time) to see if they will do anything. But if not, I just have to wait and see what happens

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summerlovingvibes · 26/02/2025 19:36

Oh keeping EVERYTHING crossed for you!

emms38 · 27/02/2025 01:32

DoraBella88 · 26/02/2025 16:00

I called EPU as instructed when I had my positive tests. Basically everything they said was a lie. They won’t help me as I don’t match their criteria. So have basically been told to wait and see what happens 🙄 so far so good though.

I have self referred to the midwife though as that way this pregnancy will show and count, should anything go wrong again. I have also done a econsult request with my GP (although they were useless last time) to see if they will do anything. But if not, I just have to wait and see what happens

Hey there, I've just joined this sight and was reading through you thread and wow what a journey you have been on, I actually felt like I have been through it with you, and I've never read something so much and wanted a happy outcome for you and your partner.
I also was trying for tears went through a few miscarriages did 4years of IVF which my partner at the time I found out he was having an affair got rid and met my current partner, I was only with him 5 months and on the morning of my birthday found out I was pregnant. Went for a scan and I was 8wks with twins, unfortunately I lost one of the twins but my little miracle baby was born day 1 of lockdown, I then found out I was pregnant last year to then loose it and have to have a d&c at 10 wks due to the miscarriage not happening naturally. So for me that was it turn 38 was happy with my little girl to now find out 3 days ago I'm pregnant again, but I'm so scared that the same as last year will happen again. I'm like you have brought so many bloody tests but untill I have my scan which I have to wait two weeks for I won't know if it's all ok. It's all such a worry, but I wanted to message you to say keep positive and I have everything crossed for you. Sorry for the long message lol xxx

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DoraBella88 · 27/02/2025 07:17

emms38 · 27/02/2025 01:32

Hey there, I've just joined this sight and was reading through you thread and wow what a journey you have been on, I actually felt like I have been through it with you, and I've never read something so much and wanted a happy outcome for you and your partner.
I also was trying for tears went through a few miscarriages did 4years of IVF which my partner at the time I found out he was having an affair got rid and met my current partner, I was only with him 5 months and on the morning of my birthday found out I was pregnant. Went for a scan and I was 8wks with twins, unfortunately I lost one of the twins but my little miracle baby was born day 1 of lockdown, I then found out I was pregnant last year to then loose it and have to have a d&c at 10 wks due to the miscarriage not happening naturally. So for me that was it turn 38 was happy with my little girl to now find out 3 days ago I'm pregnant again, but I'm so scared that the same as last year will happen again. I'm like you have brought so many bloody tests but untill I have my scan which I have to wait two weeks for I won't know if it's all ok. It's all such a worry, but I wanted to message you to say keep positive and I have everything crossed for you. Sorry for the long message lol xxx

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Thank you for your kind message ❤️ this thread really is a rollercoaster of emotions.

sorry you’ve been through so much too. Congratulations on your BFP!

it’s a worrying time when you’ve had such bad experiences before. I’ve stepped away from the tests. I got my positive digital on Monday and I haven’t tested since. I realise on reflection that testing so much last time was actually causing me more stress. So I’m not doing it this time. And so far I feel a lot calmer. This pregnancy feels different too. Last time I was just so tired. So far this time I’m tired, constantly hungry, peeing more, my heart rate has risen slightly and my god the night sweats are horrific 😂 so overall feeling quite calm and positive.

I really hope this works out, for both of us ❤️

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DoraBella88 · 27/02/2025 10:41

I have a blood test this afternoon to check my HCG levels. So fingers crossed for a good number xxx

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SirChenjins · 27/02/2025 10:57

Sending lots of positive wishes your way @DoraBella88 - I've got everything crossed for you.

ThelastRolo20 · 27/02/2025 11:25

@DoraBella88 oh my goodness what an update! I had two miscarriages and then a healthy one so I have everything crossed for you 🥰

34and3 · 28/02/2025 05:21

DoraBella88 · 27/02/2025 10:41

I have a blood test this afternoon to check my HCG levels. So fingers crossed for a good number xxx

How did you get on? X

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DoraBella88 · 28/02/2025 07:07

34and3 · 28/02/2025 05:21

How did you get on? X

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Blood tests were done late afternoon so I’ve not had the results back yet. But I’m feeling good so got everything crossed for a nice level 🤞🤞

I’ll update as soon as I hear from them x

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DoraBella88 · 01/03/2025 10:20

Still not had blood results back yet.
had an anxious day yesterday and I’ve had some light brown spotting. Trying to tell myself it’s normal but this is how my previous mc started. But trying to remain positive. It’s not every bathroom visit so fingers crossed

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Cattery · 01/03/2025 10:23

Fingers crossed for you 🤞❤️