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TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

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Ella31 · 19/04/2024 23:16

Part three of of our previous threads.

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Claudiasaz · 22/05/2024 13:00

Checking in to see how everyone is. I'm sure you're sick of me but just like to see how everyone is.

Congratulations @DonnaWhat good luck with your pregnancy.

Hey @Ella31 you don't need to worry at all. Everyone is different. I was ovulating cd18/19/20 since my loss and I got pregnant. My luteal phase was only 11 days maximum. I just hope that helps you to not worry. Wish they hadn't said it to you really as my Dr had said not to worry about that and she is a professional hey! Hugs to you. Enjoy your trip away x

Claudiasaz · 22/05/2024 13:07

@Figtree11 I'm so sorry to see you are here. Sending you lots of love. You sound like you're a tough cookie. Really hoping that things work out for you very soon x

emmatcc1 · 22/05/2024 13:12

@Ella31 Late ovulation is considered after day 21 so you’re fine.

Ella31 · 22/05/2024 13:14

Claudiasaz · 22/05/2024 13:00

Checking in to see how everyone is. I'm sure you're sick of me but just like to see how everyone is.

Congratulations @DonnaWhat good luck with your pregnancy.

Hey @Ella31 you don't need to worry at all. Everyone is different. I was ovulating cd18/19/20 since my loss and I got pregnant. My luteal phase was only 11 days maximum. I just hope that helps you to not worry. Wish they hadn't said it to you really as my Dr had said not to worry about that and she is a professional hey! Hugs to you. Enjoy your trip away x

@Claudiasaz so good to see you. How are you and the little bean doing?

Thank you. It knocked me for six, the comment. I'm going to dtd every other day now just in case. I really don't think I've missed ovulation as I normally have a good bit of egcm which has started but it's very little. Maybe my body is gearing up, I don't know.

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Ella31 · 22/05/2024 13:15

emmatcc1 · 22/05/2024 13:12

@Ella31 Late ovulation is considered after day 21 so you’re fine.

Thank you. I needed to hear that. I wonder what yesterday was all about? How are you

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Ella31 · 22/05/2024 13:15

Onthedouble123 · 21/05/2024 13:11

Huge congratulations @DonnaWhat 💕💕 wishing you a sticky and then healthy pregnancy!
@Ella31 Ive not had coq10 but took Agnus castus for a month or two a while back and that played havoc with my timings! That doesn't look peak levels just yet though so I suppose could stay high a few days before a full on peak?
Nothing for me this month supplementwise but ended up 3 or 4 days early. I swear there's something in the air this month! X

Did you come off your supplements @Onthedouble123

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emmatcc1 · 22/05/2024 14:04

@Ella31 I’m fine, 3dpo today and I’ll try to resist the urge to test as long as possible.
I also had a higher opk this month very early and it dropped the next day, I ended up ovulating later than usual and in the middle of the day as well. Normally I ovulate early morning.

Ella31 · 22/05/2024 14:45

emmatcc1 · 22/05/2024 14:04

@Ella31 I’m fine, 3dpo today and I’ll try to resist the urge to test as long as possible.
I also had a higher opk this month very early and it dropped the next day, I ended up ovulating later than usual and in the middle of the day as well. Normally I ovulate early morning.

Do you mind me asking how you know what time of the day you ovulate? Usually the next day my test is lower

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emmatcc1 · 22/05/2024 15:45

@Ella31 I check my cervix and usually in the evening it’s still open and by the time I wake up it’s closed, but this month my cervix was open all day and closed by the end of the day. That’s why I find dtd on the day of ovulation useless.

Ella31 · 22/05/2024 15:52

emmatcc1 · 22/05/2024 15:45

@Ella31 I check my cervix and usually in the evening it’s still open and by the time I wake up it’s closed, but this month my cervix was open all day and closed by the end of the day. That’s why I find dtd on the day of ovulation useless.

Can i be cheeky and ask how you tell it's open. I've checked mine before, and I can feel the little slit in the middle. But what would closed feel like? Lol sorry now for the questions 😅

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emmatcc1 · 22/05/2024 16:49

@Ella31 It takes a lot of regular checking to notice the difference but for me when it’s open it’s very noticeable and my finger kind of dips into the opening rather than just feeling the slit when it’s closed.

Ella31 · 22/05/2024 19:00

I've small bits of watery cm since yesterday and can feel like it's there if that makes sense.

Finding this week hard. Month 6 is a lonely place to be at this point. Hope everyone is doing ok today. I'm off on a midweek break with my dh tomorrow so will switch off hopefully

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Onthedouble123 · 22/05/2024 19:41

@Ella31 yes, I only took them a couple of months- I think it might have been in the lead up to falling pregnant last time and then I just didn't start again after the loss. As I type though it occurs to me it can't have been the immediate cycle before pregnancy as I would have remembered them working!
I'm sorry you're finding it tough. I hope you manage to relax and have a fabulous break away! 💕xx

jellyfish2 · 22/05/2024 19:45

@Ella31 hope you're doing ok. Have a lovely, relaxing break with your husband 💕

Ella31 · 22/05/2024 20:07

Onthedouble123 · 22/05/2024 19:41

@Ella31 yes, I only took them a couple of months- I think it might have been in the lead up to falling pregnant last time and then I just didn't start again after the loss. As I type though it occurs to me it can't have been the immediate cycle before pregnancy as I would have remembered them working!
I'm sorry you're finding it tough. I hope you manage to relax and have a fabulous break away! 💕xx

Im half and half about coming off everything bar folic acid next month. I'm just wrecking my head as to why it's taking so long. Sigh 😕

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DonnaWhat · 22/05/2024 21:46

@Ella31 I hope you enjoy your break and I hope the sun bloody shines for you. Watery cm is good, I'm sorry that it's coming upto 6 months. Just remember what your lovely mum said. Xxxx

Ella31 · 22/05/2024 22:15

DonnaWhat · 22/05/2024 21:46

@Ella31 I hope you enjoy your break and I hope the sun bloody shines for you. Watery cm is good, I'm sorry that it's coming upto 6 months. Just remember what your lovely mum said. Xxxx

Thanks @DonnaWhat I just wish I was joining ye in the bfp. Don't know what I'm doing wrong or what's wrong 😕

Watery /sticky. I think I'm over thinking this month. I'm hoping the coq10 won't mess things up but I've taken it for nearly 10 days now so might as well see it through this month

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Figtree11 · 23/05/2024 02:57

Thank you @Claudiasaz hope you are doing well

@Ella31 ive also started taking coq10 for the past 2 weeks. I had very long cycles after the first MC and expecting it again this time so hoping it helps.
I'm sorry you are having a tough couple of days - a few days away sounds lovely

DonnaWhat · 23/05/2024 10:16

@Ella31 you'll be joining me soon enough. You're body's just doing what it needs to do to prepare you for your rainbow. How's your tests this morning?

Ella31 · 23/05/2024 10:50

DonnaWhat · 23/05/2024 10:16

@Ella31 you'll be joining me soon enough. You're body's just doing what it needs to do to prepare you for your rainbow. How's your tests this morning?

Haven't tested yet. I always test afternoon and evening as lh is higher then.

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emmatcc1 · 23/05/2024 12:07

Only 4dpo but my boobs already feel sore, also had a bit of ewcm yesterday? Anyone had that before?

Ella31 · 23/05/2024 16:56

So weird. Weak opk all day yesterday, today it's higher again. No real cm though bar a little watery but it's barely a drop. Not sure what to think. Worried I shouldn't have taken coq10

TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3
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emmatcc1 · 23/05/2024 22:21

@Ella31 Maybe it’s gearing up to an actual peak now. Have you started coq10 this cycle or before?

Onthedouble123 · 23/05/2024 23:15

@emmatcc1I have sore boobs too! I usually do to be fair-but they feel more so I'd say.
@Ella31 that's interesting. I always stop once it goes down after the first rise. I wonder if I've ever been missing my real peak.
Plenty DingTD on your trip away! Xx

emmatcc1 · 23/05/2024 23:40

@Onthedouble123 I used to have sore boobs and nipples from like 8 dpo until af but ever since my MC I don’t get that anymore. They’re not sore to the touch but just achy in general. I also had pretty intense cramps earlier. How many dpo are you?