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TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

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Ella31 · 19/04/2024 23:16

Part three of of our previous threads.

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Ella31 · 21/05/2024 12:40

Forgot the pics.

TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3
TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3
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DonnaWhat · 21/05/2024 13:00

@Ella31 the blue one looks promising x

Ella31 · 21/05/2024 13:02

DonnaWhat · 21/05/2024 13:00

@Ella31 the blue one looks promising x

Edited

I'm so confused though. I've been cycle day 20 since my sons died. I'm only cycle day 10

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Onthedouble123 · 21/05/2024 13:11

Huge congratulations @DonnaWhat 💕💕 wishing you a sticky and then healthy pregnancy!
@Ella31 Ive not had coq10 but took Agnus castus for a month or two a while back and that played havoc with my timings! That doesn't look peak levels just yet though so I suppose could stay high a few days before a full on peak?
Nothing for me this month supplementwise but ended up 3 or 4 days early. I swear there's something in the air this month! X

Ella31 · 21/05/2024 13:25

Onthedouble123 · 21/05/2024 13:11

Huge congratulations @DonnaWhat 💕💕 wishing you a sticky and then healthy pregnancy!
@Ella31 Ive not had coq10 but took Agnus castus for a month or two a while back and that played havoc with my timings! That doesn't look peak levels just yet though so I suppose could stay high a few days before a full on peak?
Nothing for me this month supplementwise but ended up 3 or 4 days early. I swear there's something in the air this month! X

When you say timings, was it just making it late or early? I'm bloody delighted if it's the start of ovulation because dh and I dtd last night randomly lol

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ThelastRolo20 · 21/05/2024 13:27

@Ella31 I mean, it brought mine forward by 2-3 days I reckon but that's quite a bit earlier! It's not quite at its peak yet but maybe it'll get there in the next day or two 🤞🏻

Definitely keep testing and keep dtd!

Best of luck xx

ThelastRolo20 · 21/05/2024 13:28

DonnaWhat · 21/05/2024 09:18

@Ladyinpink1 I've just got a digital and its a BFP!! I'm bloody scared.

Congratulations! How are you feeling? Xx

Onthedouble123 · 21/05/2024 13:28

I think it basically extended my luteal phase in both directions so it started early and then I came on later.
Ooh, intuition at work! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 You've timed it perfectly! Xx

Ella31 · 21/05/2024 13:33

My worry is that it's not a real ovulstion lol but and this will sound weird I can feel trickling down there and I'm checking the loo to see if I've cm. I genuinely can feel it coming lol

Realise how crazy I sound

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Ella31 · 21/05/2024 13:36

ThelastRolo20 · 21/05/2024 13:27

@Ella31 I mean, it brought mine forward by 2-3 days I reckon but that's quite a bit earlier! It's not quite at its peak yet but maybe it'll get there in the next day or two 🤞🏻

Definitely keep testing and keep dtd!

Best of luck xx

I used to ovulate around day 15/16 prior to my boys so maybe it's coming back.

Oh rolo I'd be so happy if I am. Dh and i are going away on a romantic break Thurs so the timing is good

How are you doing?

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DonnaWhat · 21/05/2024 13:42

@Ella31 Trust me, nothing is crazy these days! I'd say your well on your way to peak. Maybe the new supplements are working better? I have everything crossed for you this month.

@ThelastRolo20 Feeling really anxious. I've self referred to hospital again to get on the system and they're going to get me in for a reassurance appointment with midwife sooner than the first 8 week appointment.

@Onthedouble123 Thankyou 🥰

ThelastRolo20 · 21/05/2024 13:45

Ella31 · 21/05/2024 13:36

I used to ovulate around day 15/16 prior to my boys so maybe it's coming back.

Oh rolo I'd be so happy if I am. Dh and i are going away on a romantic break Thurs so the timing is good

How are you doing?

I really hope the timing works with your break away! How lovely would that be ❤️ Where are you off to?

I'm okay thanks lovely. Just counting down to the scan on 13th June, luckily work is busy and although it seems far away now it'll be here before I know it x

ThelastRolo20 · 21/05/2024 13:46

@DonnaWhat that'll be great if they can see you earlier. How many DPO do you think you are? X

Ella31 · 21/05/2024 13:52

ThelastRolo20 · 21/05/2024 13:45

I really hope the timing works with your break away! How lovely would that be ❤️ Where are you off to?

I'm okay thanks lovely. Just counting down to the scan on 13th June, luckily work is busy and although it seems far away now it'll be here before I know it x

You are flying it. Just keep telling yourself that. I'm delighted for you. The wait is hard but it will be worth itxx

We are off to Clare, it's a costal country about two hours from where I'm from in Ireland. Sea, traditional music, pub food and, cliff walks for two nights.

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Ella31 · 21/05/2024 13:55

DonnaWhat · 21/05/2024 13:42

@Ella31 Trust me, nothing is crazy these days! I'd say your well on your way to peak. Maybe the new supplements are working better? I have everything crossed for you this month.

@ThelastRolo20 Feeling really anxious. I've self referred to hospital again to get on the system and they're going to get me in for a reassurance appointment with midwife sooner than the first 8 week appointment.

@Onthedouble123 Thankyou 🥰

Like I'm not crazy am I? I'd hardly get a random fake high rise? I'm not on any medication or anything so it's surely real. Lol

Don't let the anxiety take over. I convinced myself I'd miscarry my boys and I didn't. I tell you what I've said to others here who have gotten their bfp. What's done is done now. That lovely baby is nice and snug now. It's out of your control now, it really is. Today you are pregnant. Enjoy the happiness xxx

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DonnaWhat · 21/05/2024 14:26

@Ella31 Thankyou. You're really not going crazy. I didn't even get a peak this month and I genuinely thought I was out for the count so anything can really happen.

ThelastRolo20 · 21/05/2024 15:04

@Ella31 that sounds lovely! My kind of holiday ❤️

You're not going mad, that's a high (but not peak) lh surge. Your body is starting to try for sure but don't be disheartened if it drops again for a few days - it'll come back up! Xx

Ella31 · 21/05/2024 15:48

ThelastRolo20 · 21/05/2024 15:04

@Ella31 that sounds lovely! My kind of holiday ❤️

You're not going mad, that's a high (but not peak) lh surge. Your body is starting to try for sure but don't be disheartened if it drops again for a few days - it'll come back up! Xx

I think what's worrying me is do I dtd now for the next few days but what if it's not ovulation

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Ella31 · 21/05/2024 16:18

DonnaWhat · 21/05/2024 14:26

@Ella31 Thankyou. You're really not going crazy. I didn't even get a peak this month and I genuinely thought I was out for the count so anything can really happen.

What did you gey remind me? Did you get high or lows?

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emmatcc1 · 21/05/2024 16:22

@Ella31 If you dtd yesterday I would keep on going every other day until ovulation is confirmed.

Ella31 · 21/05/2024 16:25

emmatcc1 · 21/05/2024 16:22

@Ella31 If you dtd yesterday I would keep on going every other day until ovulation is confirmed.

I think you're right. I'm delighted it's early but freaked that it could be false

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DonnaWhat · 21/05/2024 16:51

@Ella31 low tests on ovulation, bled for 12 days on my last period suspected chemical. Anything is possible.

Ncl31 · 21/05/2024 21:58

@DonnaWhat here’s hoping for a sticky pregnancy

ThelastRolo20 · 22/05/2024 10:07

@Ella31 have you done any OPKs today? X

Ella31 · 22/05/2024 12:46

ThelastRolo20 · 22/05/2024 10:07

@Ella31 have you done any OPKs today? X

Did one there and not that strong tbh. Not sure what happened yesterday. I don't think I ovulated as I test everyday and i didn't have highs or anything. Now I did have coffee 1 hour before it so maybe that's effected it. So we'll see. I'll test again at 4.

I posted on a pregnancy loss group on FB and one poster terrified me saying I should be more concerned that I'm ovulating day 20. But what am I supposed to do? My body is literally this way after my twins birth. I can't change it. I have to hope ill get pregnant again. I think I was around day17 ovulating before them.

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