TTC after early miscarriage part 2

[RaisingCornishWildlings]

Hi guys, I've made a new thread! @ThelastRolo20 @bluebunny2 @Blueskies4 @miamiamia869 @Claudiasaz @mumsince2021 @Holly0609

Always good to get some basics checked

A year ago i was very low in
Feretin
Vit d
B12 ..

I got all those 3 fixed
Before we started trying...

When we then started trying we concieved 2nd cycle trying but i had an early miscarriage. Im over 35 so on age alone - thats a possibility

Many brits are deficient in vit d
Theres a vit d and miscarriage link
Good to take vit d daily...

Good to get your amh , thyroid , prolactin etc checked...

Good luck with everything

Thank you. I take vit D and folic acid daily ☺️ They won’t do any tests in uk usually unless over 1 year trying or 6 months if over 35. I’m 33 x

Hi all and @RaisingCornishWildlings would it be possible to join this thread?
Just had my second early miscarriage in 10 months of trying for DC #2 and feeling super fed up and like there's no one I can talk to in real life. About to start month 11 TTC!
Sending bfp vibes to all!

Hertility health are very worthwhile if your ever curious re your amh

Hertility health hormone & fertility tests are 150 gbp very well spent

I used them

I used Hertility last month and it was a smooth experience, bit strange doing the blood test but the results came back quickly and everything was within range thankfully.

I’ve got a feeling I’ll be back on this thread again soon. I’m 5+5 today but been spotting for a week light brown/pink and then yesterday it progressed to red and there’s more this morning. My boobs aren’t sore/tender any more so I’m not feeling hopeful. We have a scan at EPU at 10am so I’ll know more then, but it doesn’t look great.

I eventually had good line progression but it started off very faint and I wonder if late implantation has caused the MC this time? It seems so unfair to have a MMC with my first pregnancy and now (probably) a MC. I’m going to ask for progesterone to take from just after ovulation to support a pregnancy next time, in the hope we conceive again relatively quickly.

Just feeling a bit numb so far, I can’t even cry yet and normally I cry at everything. Poor DH wants to be a dad so much and my body keeps letting him down.

@meepthebeep in sorry to hear that 😢 will keep everything crossed for you later this morning. Some people do spot and/or bleed throughout so you don't know for sure at this point. Will be thinking of you. Keep us updated. 🤞🏻💐💕

I’m so sorry @meepthebeep. Glad you have an appt this morn and hopefully it’s reassuring. I did have spotting with my first pg from 4-7 weeks and a lot of people do so I really hope it’s fine for you too x

Coming back to sheepishly update. It’s a small hematoma that’s been bleeding/spotting all this time and everything else is looking ok so far. Thank you for your kind words and I’m so sorry for my panic earlier. You see blood and assume the worst. They’ve put me on progesterone following the Tommy’s/PRISM study which is a relief.

How is everyone doing? @Ella31 hope you’re enjoying New York, it’s incredible there. Have you tried Kossar’s Bagels on the Lower East Side? 🙂

All the love and good wishes to you all, really hope you get the BFPs you deserve 💐 this group is such a special community

@meepthebeep that's amazing news! Congratulations. It's only natural our minds jump to the worst scenario- even as much as we advice each other not to! Wishing you a smooth pregnancy from hereon 💕
We are approaching O day so a couple more attempts at DTD and then back in the TWW insanity...! Xx

AF due yesterday or today. I’m 15dpo now. Was bfn yesterday so haven’t tested again. Confirmed with okps. Nothing. Tiny amount of pink/brown CM and cervix remains high. Sore boobs continued.

Just want AF to start now so I can get on with next cycle!

Just back from holidays. Waiting for ovulation. Another week away I reckon. How is everyone

That's great. Relieved for you

Welcome back @Ella31 ! Hope you had an amazing time. I’m out this month sadly. AF started yesterday. Onto cycle 3! X

I'm sorry @ToeBeans24 I've started smep this month with the hope it will take pressure off.

@Ella31 at 6DPO and the waiting is actually killing me 😫

Oh I know that waiting. When do you plan to test?

I’m going to try and wait until next Saturday if I can! If not the Sunday as long as AF doesn’t show up! I’ve a really busy week planned so hoping that I won’t be tempted 🫣

I'm probably a 1 or 2dpo. I'm really going to try my absolute best not to count the days this time in the hope it will creep up on me quicker and without the symptom spotting etc 🤞🏻🤞🏻
Good luck @TicklishDreamer xx

@Onthedouble123 don’t count down the days it’s horrible! I find myself every morning saying oh another day done 🙄 I’m trying not to symptom spot because I know makes no bloody difference either way it’s like torture!
hopefully it creeps up quick on you and it’s time to test before you know it!
luckily if AF does turn up it’s school holidays so hoping having both the kids at home full time will be distracting from the disappointment!

Hi ladies, I hope everyone is doing ok. Just wanted to update on my situation as don’t want to talk to anyone irl yet. After last months faint line then bleed at cd 34 I’ve just tested this morning again at cd34 and have a much stronger line. I don’t seem to have any trouble falling pregnant but getting it to stick is the issue so I’m not getting ahead of myself.

@bluebunny2 I have everything crossed for you - the wait is so difficult. Have you spoken to your GP about whether it's worth taking anything else to try and up the chances?

Sorry I haven't been around for a while everyone, I've had nearly all my friends announce pregnancies so I've been focusing on me :D I'm in my last cycle of not trying before we start again in April/ May. Very much looking forward to my holiday in 3 weeks!

@bluebunny2 oh hope this is it for you. Hugs to you x

@ThelastRolo20 that has come around so fast!

Hope everyone else doing ok?

@bluebunny2 I hope this is the sticky one for you!!

Still waiting for AF I’m 20DPO but getting BFN my Premom app says I’m about to ovulate again soon but without AF can that actually happen. if I did ovulate then but didn’t get a really high peak on OPK. I mc 2nd Feb and had a very very light AF 28/2 for 4 days.

Good luck @bluebunny2 🤞🏻🤞🏻
I've gone awfully quiet because I'm trying desperately to forget I'm in TWW. 7dpo today so really trying not to symptom spot.

I did though get sucked into reading a due December 2024 thread which popped up on active this morning and had to give myself a talking to that I do not belong there (yet!) Xx