TTC after early miscarriage part 2

[RaisingCornishWildlings]

Hi guys, I've made a new thread! @ThelastRolo20 @bluebunny2 @Blueskies4 @miamiamia869 @Claudiasaz @mumsince2021 @Holly0609

Hi ladies I was wondering if I could join you? I have just had a MMC and had surgical management for this literally yesterday at what should have been 10+5. I don't know if it's a way to cope but my head has immediately got back into TTC mode and looking to the future.

I was wondering if it was OK to post in here?

Did any of you have surgical management? How long after your MC did AF arrive?

I have seen people talk about BBT. Where did you buy the things to measure this?

And for those that use easy@home and CB ovulation test - do you think one is more accurate than the other?

Thank you and sorry for all the questions!

Hi guy's, I had a positive test this morning, really happy but also very stressed and emotional, looks like I will be losing my job in May and so scared that this won't stick and I'll loose again

I tested and I got a bfp. I am all over the place and just feel such mixed emotions, hopefully will feel better tomorrow it's all really exhausting trying, waiting, losing, and wanting something so much isn't it. X

Sorry wrong chat please ignore the 2nd message xx

@UrsulaSings123 welcome, of ours you can join.
im sorry to hear about your loss. It’s so difficult, I found throwing myself into TTC helped me cope but I know others can’t think about it.
I use the OvuSense skin sensor for my temp - it records overnight instead of having to do it before you do anything else in the morning. But some just buy a 2 decimal place BbT thermometer from online.
i also use the Premom OPK strips.

Hi everyone ☺️ thanks @Ella31 for inviting me. I've been ttc for 21 months. Had 4 early miscarriages, have a few small fibroids and anti cardiolipin antibodies

First of all a huge congratulations and second sorry about your job, hope it doesn't turn out that way. Your emotions and stress will not harm the baby. So put that aside but it will harm you and make you anxious. Keep telling yourself, whatever happens now is already decided, you have no control over this. Keep taking your vitamins. And remember you are pregnant. Right now you are pregnant xxx

Lovely news, congratulations!

@Rockyslife congratulations on your BFP! Heightened emotions are only natural and it's totally understandable to be daunted. I hope your job issue works itself out.
Did you get a decent nights sleep? How are you feeling this morning? X

Thank you, the work situation is terrible and if I do have a successful pregnancy this time I won't be able to get another job as by the end of may I'll be 16 weeks and I'm not sure a professional job would take me on and I wouldn't get maternity anyway, so looks like I'll have to do some bar/restraunt work, it's scary but my husband has reassured me not to stress and what will be will be. I feel better mentally this morning after a good night's sleep, I am just ridden with the flu so just trying to rest. I am really anxious, I just have got to pray that my body will do it's thing this time and if it doesn't, I will just have to be strong x
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Congratulations @Rockyslife, take care and rest well 💐 I hope things work out with your job too, be gentle with yourself, there’s a lot going on for you x

Bfn 😢 10dpo. Had a good cry this morning. Stress is really getting to me. Have any of you done accupuncture. Thinking of it next month

I’m so sorry @Ella31 💐 I’ve heard really positive things about acupuncture and also reflexology but haven’t tried either. Hopefully someone wise will be able to advise. Take care of yourself x

Thank you. I'm nearly going more for the stress than anything.

AF just arrived ladies and I'm only 10dpo. First month post loss was 9dpo , last month was 11 and today was 10. Is something wrong with me? 😢😢

@Ella31 Hope you are ok. There's nothing wrong, your body has been through a lot. My periods have always been all over the place after birth. And also after my mc. Sending hugs to you xx

@Rockyslife congratulations

Thanks @Claudiasaz feeling so sorry for myself ti be honest. How many cycles were you on before your bfp this month?

@Ella31 honestly I get it. That's why I felt like I needed to comment because it is normal x

Cycle 5 x

I'm genuinely so happy for you. You deserve it. You also give me so much hope.

@Ella31 Thank you that is lovely. I'm taking it day by day and just hoping for the best🙏

I hope you're feeling better tonight and I can imagine tomorrow will be difficult - so sending you lots of love and strength xx

How is everyone?
I hope everyone got through mothers day yesterday. A tough day for all of us on this thread.

Hope you're doing okay @Ella31 was thinking of you yesterday actually. X

Havr u tried progsterone?
Had your progesterone checked ?

Miscarriage association have a support group tomo eve
For those with history of loss

Info is on their insta