TTC after early miscarriage part 2

[RaisingCornishWildlings]

Hi guys, I've made a new thread! @ThelastRolo20 @bluebunny2 @Blueskies4 @miamiamia869 @Claudiasaz @mumsince2021 @Holly0609

Would it help you to reach out to your gp for support? You've been through a lot.

I'm so gutted to read there's been more early losses here 😭 it's just not fair! I still don't feel safe I've not reached 5 weeks yet. Still around here for you all don't want to leave you've all been such a great support. I just know how shit TTC is and with having these losses having had 3 myself. As hard as it is please try to keep hopeful for now ❤️

Thanks for the good wishes everyone but I’ve now started cramping quite badly so it’s definitely not good news. Think it’s going to be a long couple of days for me then I need to sit down properly with dp and decide what we want to do next. Hope everyone else is doing ok x

Love to you both..not at all what any of us wanted to hear and so sorry you're having to go through it again @Panda101x @bluebunny2

@mumsince2021 hugs to you too take it day by day and wishing you lots of luck x

I’m so sorry to hear of the losses again! I wish we could all just jump to having that baby in our arms rather than having to go through all the shit!

I’ve just started my tww and it’s the most stressed I’ve ever felt!

@TicklishDreamer I am in mine too I think now. Didn't track but everything suggests it's done down there tmi. I am trying so hard to ignore anything that happens 😂 as I convince myself it could be pregnancy every time 😭😂

Do you have any plans today to take your mind off it?

@bluebunny2 no need to reply. But i had terrible cramping in my lower back with my twins at around 6 weeks for a few weeks. Convinced I was losing them and they were perfect up to 29 weeks. Don't lose hope. Keep us updated

@Claudiasaz ive taken my other two children out for a walk/play in park! But there’s pregnant people everywhere!
we are going to have to keep very busy for next 2 weeks 🤣
hopefully its our month for a sticky bean!

My gp wont help. They only suggest progesterone to me when I get a BFP and proof from them. Otherwise on my own. No help.

I'm sorry they are so unsupportive. Dont be hard on yourself though. You did everything right. Xxx I wish I could say more to comfort you. It's so unfair

Thanks I will try again April onwards give myself March to just chill

You are so right and it will allow your body and cycle to recover. I hope you are treating yourself to some nice food and tv this evening. Things will turn right, you've just had a terrible time of it.

@Panda101x I'm on a break until April too. I hope march's break brings you a nice rest x

Sound like there will be a group of us approaching our April cycle with renewed vigour! I'm hoping my cycles don't lengthen again though- after 29 days then back to 34, we will see what occurs this cycle... I think I'll ovulate during the first few days of April. Hubby due home about 22 March I think, so I think I'll avoid ovulation strips and we will just try to have sex every other day from when he's home! 🤣

@RaisingCornishWildlings sounds like a good plan! My period will be mid- late April so my first TWW will be in May so I'll be one cycle behind you 😊 but definitely with renewed vigour 😂😂

@Ella31 yes. Slow cooker is on so didn’t have to worry for cooking today. Just me the tv blankets and cuddles with the cat as she won’t leave me alone ( all my losses she has become very close to me during the loss time ) to point where I get a hunch things may go wrong when she’s so needy on my lap.

@ThelastRolo20 I hope March is good to you and you have some you time to relax. That’s my goal.

@RaisingCornishWildlings I also fluctuate 29-34. Recently been a 30 girl. I wish you the best too.

@Ella31 full blown bleeding today unfortunately. I think I knew when I took the test and it wasn’t that strong a line that things weren’t going to work out. I certainly never had that feeling of excitement I’d had previously. At least it happened on a Sunday and I’ve been able to have lots of cuddles on the sofa. Planning to try again immediately though and have just ordered some coq10 tablets to try and boost the old eggs. I also don’t normally do opks but think I will next month just in case ovulation is thrown off. It’s made me feel better to have a bit of a plan.

@bluebunny2 hi I’m currently spending the weekend on sofa as lost mine. Can I ask what are coq10. I’m really sorry 😢. It’s an awful time. I hope ur getting support

@bluebunny2 @Panda101x glad to hear you're both taking it easy and being looked after xx

@TicklishDreamer I hope so! My due date is looming and I am absolutely dreading it. X

@Panda101x So sorry you’re going through this as well. Dp has been great and we have our little girl who is just amazing, she didn’t know anything but shes obviously sensed mummy isn’t quite right today and has been lovely. I hope you have some good support too.

coq10 is a chemical you produce naturally that supports mitochondria and supplementation could potentially be helpful particularly if you have aging eggs. Coq10. The scientific evidence for it is small at the moment but there is some possibility it could be beneficial and is very unlikely to be harmful so thought I’d give it a try.

@Claudiasaz I bet you are! I can’t even imagine it being the due date make sure you stay busy that day!
my due date is the day my youngest starts school so I’m praying I’m pregnant by September otherwise I think I’m going to be an absolute mess!

Sorry to hear this. It’s so tough isn’t it.

Ah bless her I’m yet to have any children but seven losses. I never heard of coq10. I’m young so maybe that’s why as don’t class myself as aging eggs yet. But I guess no harm in trying so may order some. Do you have a link if that’s allowed so I get the correct thing ?? Is it ok to take other things alongside @bluebunny2