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11dpo BFN

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happymum1001 · 20/11/2023 12:05

Has anyone had a BFN at 11dpo then went on to be positive? I’m starting to think I’m maybe out this cycle:( I got a BFN on a clear blue early detection with FMU today. AF is due on 23rd.

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Outliers · 20/11/2023 12:31

It's still a little early. I would wait and test again with first pee in the AM in a couple days.

therealpatmustard · 20/11/2023 12:36

@happymum1001

I also have AF due on the 23rd and BFN so far on the internet cheapies.

I feel your pain, if it really is AF then can it just hurry up now.

Next month I'm temping, charting being super organised but I won't take a PT until overdue, I've driven myself crazy this month. Especially when you see 8dpo positive tests 😣

Hope you're okay

happymum1001 · 20/11/2023 12:48

@Outliers thank you! I thought it would maybe show on the early detection test but it didn’t. Keeping my fingers crossed 🤞🏽

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LilPearl · 20/11/2023 12:57

I'm 10dpo and taken 3 tests today. All BFN! I really feel different and can't accept it's all in my head. I guess until AF arrives. Due tomorrow!

Wishing all the positives for you ladies. X

happymum1001 · 20/11/2023 12:58

@therealpatmustard I also used an Amazon cheapie test and was negative. I hope af doesn’t show for both of us, I have the usual sore boobs before and shows though so I really do think I’m out this month. It’s just so draining isn’t it!

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happymum1001 · 20/11/2023 12:58

@LilPearl Please keep us updated! Hopefully AF doesn’t show🤞🏽 x

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therealpatmustard · 20/11/2023 13:33

@LilPearl @happymum1001 fingers crossed for us all.

@happymum1001 how long have you been ttc? It can be v v draining, torn between trying to "go with the flow" but then feeling like I'm not giving it my all. a nightmare for an overthinker!

SydneyFlower · 20/11/2023 13:39

I got what I thought was a BFN on the cheap Amazon tests at around 11DPO as it was pure white with no line but later on I noticed a very faint line had appeared hours later. I know it’s not the way to use these tests but I did test positive the following day so there’s definitely still hope! Xx

happymum1001 · 20/11/2023 14:11

@SydneyFlower I threw my cheapie out but this did happen with my clear blue from last night & this morning… I’ll try again tomorrow morning 🤞🏽x

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happymum1001 · 20/11/2023 14:17

@therealpatmustard This is cycle 9 for me! How long have you been trying? We where more relaxed the first few months but I had a Chemical pregnancy in July, we started using opks and tracking properly after.

it’s so draining 😭x

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HP89 · 20/11/2023 14:31

Me! Had BFN’s all the way till 13dpo earlier this months Had a glass of wine on 12 DPO after 4th neg test as I was so sure I was out- oops! Fingers crossed 🤞🏼

happymum1001 · 20/11/2023 14:50

@HP89 this gives me some more hope! Thank you ❤️🤞🏽

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therealpatmustard · 20/11/2023 16:19

Just had a BFN on a clear blue early detection. Pretty sure I'm out now. Waahh.

@happymum1001 only Cycle 3 for us but already driving myself mad. I usually have 30-32 day cycles, flo is suggesting 32 this month. The good news is it looks as though my next period starts just before Christmas day so hopefully I won't feel too bad about drinking and definitely won't be testing early! Fingers crossed for you still 🤗

@HP89 congratulations on BFP!

happymum1001 · 20/11/2023 16:50

@therealpatmustard I’m the same I had one this morning, i hope we’re not out🤞🏽 don’t feel too confident in my case though as I have my usual cramps like I get before AF..
if AF appears this cycle I won’t be using opks in December, I want to be able to enjoy the Christmas period with no stress😂xx

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LilPearl · 21/11/2023 14:29

Any updates from you ladies?

Still no AF here and milky cm which is a bit unusual but stark BFN on boots this morning and I'm 11dpo today.

PinkRoses1245 · 21/11/2023 14:37

Yep I was negative 11 dpo. Didn’t test again until 15 dpo faint positive: there’s a reason they say wait until period is due!!

happymum1001 · 21/11/2023 15:34

@PinkRoses1245 thank you! I’m 12dpo today, period is due in 2 days so I’m keeping my fingers crossed x

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therealpatmustard · 21/11/2023 18:18

Still BFNs here!

due Thursday 🤞🏼

Daisydog93 · 21/11/2023 19:18

BFN for me too on a cheapie and a Boots early test, I’m 10 DPO today and my period is due on Saturday. It’s so disheartening seeing so many positive tests at 9 and 10 dpo online, keeping everything crossed for us all! 🤞🏻

LilPearl · 21/11/2023 20:42

@Daisydog93 agreed it's really hard not to give up completely but this thread has helped me keep a glimmer of hope for this month. There is always next month if not x

happymum1001 · 21/11/2023 21:05

I tested tonight just with a cheap strip test😭😂 dropped the whole test in the collection cup and had to fish it out lol. Not sure if it would be classes as invalid? I dried it and hoped for the best, it dried abit funny on one side but I swore I though I seen a vfl after it finished drying

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LilPearl · 21/11/2023 21:16

@happymum1001 oh no 😂😂 I really don't know about that as I guess it might have been 'flooded'. Do you have more tests to test first thing in the morning? Unless you can hold a wee for a few hours tonight!

happymum1001 · 21/11/2023 21:24

I thought that might be the case! I will hold my pee until I’m going to bed and will try again🤞🏽

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LilPearl · 22/11/2023 07:41

@happymum1001 any good? I'm officially 12 of maybe even 13 dpo now and BFN. I guess I can thank pregnacare for the late AF!

Daisydog93 · 22/11/2023 08:14

I think I’m 11 dpo today based on the OPK kits and trying not to test today for my sanity after the very stark white cheapy I took last night 😖

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