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11dpo BFN

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happymum1001 · 20/11/2023 12:05

Has anyone had a BFN at 11dpo then went on to be positive? I’m starting to think I’m maybe out this cycle:( I got a BFN on a clear blue early detection with FMU today. AF is due on 23rd.

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therealpatmustard · 22/11/2023 11:34

Any luck girls?

AF still due tomorrow according to Flo, I would be 12/13dpo today depending on when/if egg released. I've got a BBT now so I will hopefully have a chart to confirm next month.

certainly not feeling pregnant so very much expecting AF.

LilPearl · 22/11/2023 11:54

@therealpatmustard AF came just now for me. I'd been expecting it since yesterday and feel oddly okay about it. Planning our next cycle and I'm buying a bbt too. Hopefully we can support eachother next month ☺️
Although still fingers crossed for those of you waiting on bfp still!

therealpatmustard · 22/11/2023 12:52

@LilPearl SAME, shes just arrived! according to Flo I'm ov on 7th next month but would be great to temp it to confirm alongside the strips. Also fortunately due on next AF on 21st December which is pretty Christmas friendly timing.

Would be great to have a ttc friend.

I'm still hoping for the best for the rest of you!

LilPearl · 22/11/2023 16:04

@therealpatmustard oh gosh we're right in sync! Sad to hear it.

My ov is slightly later on 10th and AF due 23rd. ☺️ Agreed! BBT is one more element that will help us. I guess I'll see you here in 2 weeks haha!

happymum1001 · 22/11/2023 16:57

I’m 13dpo today, took a digital before work this morning with first wee and it was negative… AF is due tomorrow so I’d say I’m out this month ladies, hopefully we can all track next cycles together too xx

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therealpatmustard · 22/11/2023 19:01

Favouriting this thread ladies and returning in a couple weeks when it’s Ov time so we can all cross reference 😂💕

Alexandra1993 · 23/11/2023 17:24

I’m in the same boat now. 11dpo and bfn this morning.

feel so so deflated.

happymum1001 · 23/11/2023 18:51

Alexandra1993 · 23/11/2023 17:24

I’m in the same boat now. 11dpo and bfn this morning.

feel so so deflated.

I’m now 14dpo, AF is due today but not sign yet. I took a clear blue ultra early digital this evening and it was negative, it’s so confusing and draining😭

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Alexandra1993 · 23/11/2023 20:10

It’s horrible isn’t it. I keep getting told so many women don’t get a postive till days after their period is due. Hang on in there. When are you going to test next? I’m going to do one in the morning x

happymum1001 · 24/11/2023 02:01

@Alexandra1993 I have heard the same too but it’s conflicting when so many get positives @9&10 dpo. In June I had a chemical and when I looked back on dates earlier i realised I didn’t get a vvvv faint line until 15dpo (af was 3days late) & then positive digital the following morning so it is possible it’s just hard to be patient 😂

im testing in the morning too:) keep me updated on how it goes I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you ❤️

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Daisydog93 · 24/11/2023 07:22

Just took another test, stark white and I’m now 13dpo 😔Thinking of going to get an early test today to see if that makes a difference but I think I’m out and just waiting for AF to arrive now

Alexandra1993 · 24/11/2023 10:37

Same here babe. 12dpo today, bfn this morning on a clear blue 6 days early. I want to get an frer and see if that makes a difference as they’re 6mui and clear blue early are 10 I think. Honestly feel so deflated but we have to stay positive until AF arrives. I also remember first time I was pregnant I didn’t get bfp till lunch time 13dpo, the test I took in the morning as bfn!

Alexandra1993 · 24/11/2023 10:38

Your totally right, my sister didn’t get positive till a week late! Must stay positive.

BFN this morning and got a lot of period cramps but also had that when I was pregnant so not thinking about it too much!

did you test? X

happymum1001 · 24/11/2023 10:51

Daisydog93 · 24/11/2023 07:22

Just took another test, stark white and I’m now 13dpo 😔Thinking of going to get an early test today to see if that makes a difference but I think I’m out and just waiting for AF to arrive now

i tried an early clear blue digi and was negative😭 let me know how u get on if u get one🤞🏽tww makes me awfully impatient 😂😭

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happymum1001 · 24/11/2023 10:55

Alexandra1993 · 24/11/2023 10:38

Your totally right, my sister didn’t get positive till a week late! Must stay positive.

BFN this morning and got a lot of period cramps but also had that when I was pregnant so not thinking about it too much!

did you test? X

I tested this morning and was a BFN this also, I have some slight cramping but I also had cramps until 11 weeks with my first child! If AF doesn’t show I’ll test again tomorrow morning x

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Alexandra1993 · 24/11/2023 11:02

Yes exactly, cramps are part of it and generally a good sign! I keep feeling sick on and off and got sharp pains in my womb area On and off but trying not to overthink because I could have sworn I was pregnant the last month and I wasn’t x

Daisydog93 · 24/11/2023 15:24

@happymum1001 Just took an early response test and nothing 😭 bought a few in case AF doesn’t arrive for a few days but not holding out much hope now x

Alexandra1993 · 24/11/2023 15:29

I thought I might have been getting some very very very faint positives today on the easy at home but they’re just indent lines argh, checked an unused one and they all have them! Next month I’m only gonna test once period is due, well I’m gonna try 😟

happymum1001 · 25/11/2023 02:57

Well ladies after such a stressful day with my son ended up in a&e,, we are only home now and AF has just arrived 😭

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Daisydog93 · 25/11/2023 09:18

happymum1001 · 25/11/2023 02:57

Well ladies after such a stressful day with my son ended up in a&e,, we are only home now and AF has just arrived 😭

Sorry to hear about your son, I hope he’s ok! Don’t think I’ll be far behind you, fingers crossed for a lovely Christmas present of a positive test 🤞🏻

Daisydog93 · 25/11/2023 09:19

Alexandra1993 · 24/11/2023 15:29

I thought I might have been getting some very very very faint positives today on the easy at home but they’re just indent lines argh, checked an unused one and they all have them! Next month I’m only gonna test once period is due, well I’m gonna try 😟

Ahhh no!! I’m with you there, hopefully with it being December it will go so quickly with lots of distractions!

Alexandra1993 · 25/11/2023 09:21

So sorry babe!! On to next cycle x

Alexandra1993 · 25/11/2023 09:23

13 dpo today and negative at 6am. Will try this afternoon as last time 13dpo had negative in the morning. Boobs are sooooooooo saw. Period due today aswell and getting cramps but again had this last time and I’ve had it for a good couple days now. Did you test again? X

Daisydog93 · 25/11/2023 10:47

Alexandra1993 · 25/11/2023 09:23

13 dpo today and negative at 6am. Will try this afternoon as last time 13dpo had negative in the morning. Boobs are sooooooooo saw. Period due today aswell and getting cramps but again had this last time and I’ve had it for a good couple days now. Did you test again? X

I haven’t tested this morning but was negative yesterday pm on an early response test- I’ve told myself if there’s no sign of AF tomorrow (due) I’ll test Monday morning but I’m not holding out much hope!

Alexandra1993 · 25/11/2023 11:00

Yes that makes sense. I’m going to test one more time this afternoon then I won’t anymore as I’m convinced AF will arrive today or tomorrow anyway. The thing is I know there is still a chance until AF arrives, lots of women don’t get a positive until days late, even a week or so. Next month I think I’m not going to buy any tests or have any in the house and then just test if I miss my period or have overwhelming symptoms x