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11dpo BFN

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happymum1001 · 20/11/2023 12:05

Has anyone had a BFN at 11dpo then went on to be positive? I’m starting to think I’m maybe out this cycle:( I got a BFN on a clear blue early detection with FMU today. AF is due on 23rd.

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Alexandra1993 · 12/12/2023 12:18

@happymum1001 @LilPearl drop me a message if you want to message on WhatsApp! Mumsnet seems to be messing up for me a lot x

therealpatmustard · 12/12/2023 12:18

@CPHB2021 Of course, I tend to do the same as I have 2DC so there is a lot of cross refencing, it's completely fine to go crazy and over analyse, I find it quite nice to admit I've gone a bit bonkers. x

Dixon0389 · 12/12/2023 12:22

@therealpatmustard Im at 2dpo I think but I'm not tracking 100% as don't like the pressure of it as I stress too much

Daisydog93 · 12/12/2023 14:50

I’ve been testing with OPK sticks daily since CD 3 and now on CD 18 and still haven’t had a peak or high result 😩 we’ve been dtd every 2 days since I came off my period but so confused as to what’s going on as I normally peak day 14/15 and ovulate cd 15/16! I thought the tww was bad enough but checking for a higher result somehow feels worse!

Alexandra1993 · 12/12/2023 15:00

Hey @Dixon0389 welcome! What dpo are you today!

Alexandra1993 · 12/12/2023 15:01

@Dixon0389 oh just seen 2DPO so just one day behind!

Alexandra1993 · 12/12/2023 15:02

@CPHB2021 your not out yet. I didn’t test positive with last one till 13dpo! X

Alexandra1993 · 12/12/2023 15:03

@Daisydog93 if your DTD every other day you will catch it.

have you been testing twice daily or once? I find sometimes I test in morning and it’s higher LH but not peak then I test a couple hours later and it’s peak, then next morning negative again! So you may have just missed the peak test x

Daisydog93 · 12/12/2023 21:45

@Alexandra1993 I’ve been testing twice daily but I’ve been working quite long hours recently so just wondering whether I literally have spiked midday and dropped back down but they just seem to be so low constantly! Normally test in the morning and then can be as late as 10pm by the time I’ve tested again so hoping I’ve just missed it and not that I haven’t ovulated at all/yet! I would normally be 2dpo by now!

Tiffany88 · 12/12/2023 21:50

Hiya can I join this thread I'm 3dpo today so it's nice we are all very close together I think a WhatsApp group would be good as I get confused in here who I'm talking to but I don't know how to message people on here as I use the app, AF due 23rd x

Tiffany88 · 12/12/2023 21:54

@Alexandra1993 I'm using the clear blue advanced monitor as well how are you finding it? X

Alexandra1993 · 12/12/2023 22:00

@Daisydog93 yes that’s probably what’s happened! It’s so easy to miss! X

Alexandra1993 · 12/12/2023 22:01

@Tiffany88 hey! Of course, I’ll drop you a message with my number 😊, and I the monitor is fab! Very accurate but I use strips inbetween as I find that the monitor picks up on the day of ovulation not the day before, I often get postive strips in the afternoon after a negative in the morning so it’s quite easy to miss the very start of a peak just using the monitor! X

Tiffany88 · 12/12/2023 22:08

@Alexandra1993 I don't know how I read messages on here so I need to go on the internet? Yes I fount this month I had a positive opk and the got peak the day after on the monitor so I'm going to start using strips along side it

Alexandra1993 · 13/12/2023 06:54

If anyone would like to join our WhatsApp group let me know 😊

Dixon0389 · 13/12/2023 08:49

I would love to join the what'sapp group please

CPHB2021 · 13/12/2023 10:27

I'd love to join too!

Alexandra1993 · 13/12/2023 11:39

@Dixon0389 @CPHB2021 I’ll message you my number x

Dixon0389 · 13/12/2023 11:57

Alexandra1993 · 13/12/2023 11:39

@Dixon0389 @CPHB2021 I’ll message you my number x

Thank you I have sent you mine x

LilPearl · 13/12/2023 14:37

@Alexandra1993 I'd love to join! Just took a test at 4dpo 😂 what is wrong with me! Will pop you my no. in a msg x

Alexandra1993 · 13/12/2023 15:20

@LilPearl haha we have all been there 😂😂 I’ll also message you my number x

Original poster
happymum1001 · 13/12/2023 20:21

I’d love to join the WhatsApp group! Unfortunately I’ve been so done in from work that I am most definitely out this month😂🫣 we’ve only managed to BD once because of our work schedules x

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Alexandra1993 · 14/12/2023 10:38

@happymum1001 I’ll message you! X

Phoenix32 · 16/03/2024 19:09

Hi all!

First time poster, desperate for some words of wisdom and advice.

My Partner and I recently underwent our 2nd natural IUI using donor, and I am currently 11 DPO.

I am going absolutely stir crazy! I have experienced symptoms that I was sure were pregnancy symptoms, but have tested on cheap supermarket own brands at both 10DPO and 11DPO both BFNs :( AF is due on Tuesday.

My symptoms have been basically ongoing since the procedure but I’m not sure if I’m just too much in my own head.

My symptoms have been as follows;

  • Cramping- under my ribcage and around my bellybutton area.
  • Nausea- but this seems to have tapered off the last couple of days unless I’ve just eaten.
  • Reduced appetite- I can still eat just not looking forward to meals as much.
  • Tender boobs, my right nipple seems to be itchy but not painful as such.
  • CM- however discharge seems to have reduced in the last couple of days so concerned this is because AF is en-route.
  • heartburn and indigestion, which I don’t usually get.
  • Today (11 dpo) I have been an emotional wreck, a bit yesterday too. I’m crying over almost nothing, and this never happens when AF is due, moody yes, emotional wreck no.
  • Ive also had some very odd symptoms that I’m not sure are relevant; Sore throat at 10DPO, stuffy nose, sore neck at 10DPO, and the most odd is pain the arches of my feet despite not doing anything that would cause this.

Can anyone relate to this and had BFNs at 11dpo but went on to get a BFP eventually?

My parter has been great, but I feel like I need some wisdom from here.

I’m so desperate for this!

OneHeapedTeaspoonOfSugar · 08/09/2024 10:44

Phoenix32 · 16/03/2024 19:09

Hi all!

First time poster, desperate for some words of wisdom and advice.

My Partner and I recently underwent our 2nd natural IUI using donor, and I am currently 11 DPO.

I am going absolutely stir crazy! I have experienced symptoms that I was sure were pregnancy symptoms, but have tested on cheap supermarket own brands at both 10DPO and 11DPO both BFNs :( AF is due on Tuesday.

My symptoms have been basically ongoing since the procedure but I’m not sure if I’m just too much in my own head.

My symptoms have been as follows;

  • Cramping- under my ribcage and around my bellybutton area.
  • Nausea- but this seems to have tapered off the last couple of days unless I’ve just eaten.
  • Reduced appetite- I can still eat just not looking forward to meals as much.
  • Tender boobs, my right nipple seems to be itchy but not painful as such.
  • CM- however discharge seems to have reduced in the last couple of days so concerned this is because AF is en-route.
  • heartburn and indigestion, which I don’t usually get.
  • Today (11 dpo) I have been an emotional wreck, a bit yesterday too. I’m crying over almost nothing, and this never happens when AF is due, moody yes, emotional wreck no.
  • Ive also had some very odd symptoms that I’m not sure are relevant; Sore throat at 10DPO, stuffy nose, sore neck at 10DPO, and the most odd is pain the arches of my feet despite not doing anything that would cause this.

Can anyone relate to this and had BFNs at 11dpo but went on to get a BFP eventually?

My parter has been great, but I feel like I need some wisdom from here.

I’m so desperate for this!

Did you get your BFP? In a similar boat!xx

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