@Ella31 that sounds just wonderful!
@Chellooo I've had 8/9 days of flashing smileys before, our plan is always every other day from the end of my period until the static when it's the day of and then after. Everyday from the flashing is just too much if it goes on a bit 🙈
@TheBirdintheCave I know what you mean, if I'd not lost my first last year there would have been a 2 year gap, the second a 2.5 year gap and if this one is born then there will be a 3 year gap. Not too much longer and the gap is just too large for me to have another one. Makes me really sad.
I'm 5+6 today and started bleeding overnight, not much and just brown sludge but but I'm so scared to be here again. I've had bleeding in 2 of my 4 pregnancies and neither ended in miscarriage at that point - one is the 2 year old trying to climb on my head, the other was a loss later at 16 weeks so I know it's not necessarily the end. But why can't I just have a smooth stress free pregnancy. GAU have said I can go in for an examination if I want but they aren't worried and have booked me in for a scan on Thursday. Thursday! So I've booked a private scan for tonight, not sure it's the best idea because I don't think they'll really be able to tell me much at this point, but I guess at least I'll know if it's ectopic or something I guess. Cramping is now getting me down, but it's aching rather than sharp pains like an ectopic would be