TTC after miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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New thread 🥰

@ChloeN there's a September one too. Can't figure out how to link though 🤣

@CaliGirl47 @Mannymoomin congratulations ladies 💕

@MrsJGrealish it was so hard to link it doesn’t let you bloody paste it in to a comment 🤣🤣

@MrsJGrealish thank you ☺️ and @ChloeN for the link
I have bookmarked a few threads for now but I won’t get ahead of myself, I’m still in CP territory, if I get past 6 weeks then that’s another anxiety but I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.
DH won’t be back until late tonight and I’ll likely be asleep, so he doesn’t know yet, he’s been asking everyday though

Hi Ladies,
I’ve been quiet for a few weeks, processing my endometrioma news. I have an appointment in Feb with a consultant in London to diagnose endometriosis via ultrasound and discuss next steps so feeling very anxious!

Just wondered if anyone else here is TTC with endometriosis and or endometriomas?

8dpo tomorrow on cycle 10 post mc!

xx

@ChickenT2b i can’t help you regarding endometriosis, sorry. It’s good though that you’ll see the consultant soon, hopefully you’re not waiting too much longer for your rainbow.

I got 1-2 weeks on CB digital this morning 🥰

Hi all, I've taken a test 4 days late, little scared and pickled, don't know to believe it or not had MC dec 22.

Should the lines not be stronger 😞 ?
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@Mannymoomin congrats, you cant beat seeing it in words.
@HopefulP everyone’s pregnancy is different and maybe you implanted late. Only thing you can do it wait two days and see if the line has got stronger. Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻
Hows everyone else getting on? I’m heading towards my fertile window and dtd every other day so dp is happy 😂

@Bubblesandballoons
Thanks hopefully evrything sticks, heads pickled scared to be exited.
Going to give it another good few days to rest again.
Thank you for your reply though ❤️
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@Bubblesandballoons thank you! Although I’m so so nervous, if I didn’t see it in words then I’d still be on the fence as my frer is still incredibly faint, at 14 dpo I’d expect it to not be a questionable line on frer.
DH is also not getting his hopes up yet, I think we forget how mc affects men too

What do we think? Line eyes?

@MrsJGrealish I see it! definitely not line eyes, fingers crossed it progresses nicely for you xx

@Mannymoomin yaaay for cb digital 💪🏼

@HopefulP they look like good positive lines it's hard to judge every test I feel is so different with concentration of lines. Did you test negative after your MC?

This was today’s frer, this was using the same urine for Cb digi

@Mannymoomin wow 😳 that's crazy just really does go to show that there's such variation with dye etc

@Mannymoomin ooh I have a digital. Won't risk it yet though. I'm so constipated I can't cope 😭 I'm just thinking chemical at the mo

@bringmearainbow I know if it wasn’t for the digital I wouldn’t believe it, it’s not even CB early so I don’t understand why frer is still so faint, although I do have a nagging feeling that it’s because it’s either going to turn into a chemical or an ectopic.
Im trying not to let those thoughts consume me without pain or bleeding, but the struggle is real

@Mannymoomin ahhh lovely it's so hard I get it though ❤️ only thing you can do it try not to think about those possibilities too much think today you are pregnant and all is fine xxx I'm on CD6 and the road to the TWW feels never ending doesn't help I'm still bleeding 🙄 I've tried to keep as busy as possible this weekend I think that's what you have to do just try not to think too much about it

@MrsJGrealish didnt even have to zoom in so looks an obvious line to me! Have you done any before this one? X

@ChloeN no FRERs. I had weird pains on Friday night and slight brown discharge yesterday and today. Just before eating dinner today I thought nope not happening😂

Hi just wondering if I can join this thread. Just suffered my 3rd miscarriage. Hoping we can no2 get some answers.

@bringmearainbow
Hey yeah tested negative 3 days after MC
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To all of you who have got your bfp's and are struggling to believe its real or to not let anxiety overcome you, I recently read a wonderful affirmation for pregnancy after loss and you may find it helpful.

It goes as follows:

Today I am pregnant and I love my baby.
I am pregnant with a healthy, growing baby until I am told otherwise.
My past is not my future and my previous losses do not mean I will have future losses.
Just because someone else is having a loss, doesn't mean that I will. Miscarriage and loss are not contagious but fear can be.
Hope does not make bad things happen. I cannot jinx my pregnancy by getting my hopes up or by telling someone about it.
There is nothing I can change with worry. Worrying about what's not in my hands does not prevent it from happening. And if it happens again - God forbid - I know I can survive.

That is beautifully worded and very helpful. Thank you for sharing that. @Rosegold3112 💐

@Rosegold3112 thats lovely and definitely something I’ll keep in mind.

@MrsJGrealish have you tested again today?

I’m feeling better today as frer was much more positive today, perfectly visible and no question about it at all.
I’’m still getting dark brown thick sludgy cm, which I’m not concerned about as I’ve had the exact same in perfectly healthy pregnancies too.
I’m really constipated too which then brings on red bleeding (definitely not from my bum) but again I’ve always had that in past healthy pregnancies and just assumed it was because of the extra blood flow to cervix, I know I have a very small cervical ectropian so possibly that.

How much tmi can I put into one post 😂