TTC after miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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@Rosegold3112 thank you, I don’t feel particularly hopeful but I’m glad I have you guys to talk to

@mummatara and @LuckyMoonstone @MrsC2018 I’m so jealous of your dc sleeping in! My boy is 6am on the dot 😳.
@LuckyMoonstone I have no idea about temping, but hoping it is implantation for you 🤞🏻
@Rosegold3112 hope you get a line in the next few days x
@RG84 sorry you are stuck in limbo with the nhs. I’m in a similar boat waiting on test results, and in the mean time just left to go it alone and hope for the best. Hopefully you get the results soon, so they make a plan for you moving forward.

Had my peak opk yesterday, ovulation wasn’t delayed at all from the covid (if I have ovulated 🤞🏻). Wondering if it’s because I have no symptoms. Into the tww I go. Anyone else just going into the tww?

Hey @TheBirdintheCave I remember you too! How are you?

I’ve tested again this evening - couldn’t test with FMU, I can see something in person and my partner thinks he can too. 9DPO (I think). Anyone see anything?

@ElleBelleLou I see it! Fingers crossed for you 🤞🤞

@ElleBelleLou I see something too! Really hope this is your bfp 🤞

@Rosegold3112 @bunnykins123 thank you both - it's really a good feeling to know it's not just me that can see it! x

@Bubblesandballoons yaaay for peak OPK.
I’m still waiting on my 2nd but real peak, My CM has changed to EW this evening though, will dip again before bed as pretty sure I’m going to Ovulate tomorrow, I usually peak in the evening or small hours so fingers crossed I get that static smiley.

@mummatara how are you getting on?

@ElleBelleLou I see it! :D

I'm ok. Nine weeks pregnant at the moment but have had similar spotting to my MMC. The last scan was ok though I was measuring a few days behind which scared me more than the spotting. The next one is on Friday and I'm terrified 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Mannymoomin did you get your peak?

@ElleBelleLou I think I see something 🤞🏻 have you tested this morning?

@LuckyMoonstone how's your temp looking this morning?

@ElleBelleLou I also see something there 🤞🏼🤞🏼 have you tested again today?

@Bubblesandballoons ahh don't be too jealous I always say to DH our next one will probably be a rubbish sleeper and we've been sucked into a false sense of security 😂 good luck in the TWW 🤞🏼 I never have any O symptoms so you probably have do you normally get a lot of symptoms?

@Mannymoomin oooh yay for ewcm 💪🏼 how did the opk look? I'm on CD9 and weird AF is still in the house 🙄 I did start the cb opks yesterday blank circle yesterday flashing smiley this morning. Last time I had 8 days of flashing smileys before peak so I'm still thinking there's a while to go maybe 🤷🏼‍♀️

@mummatara urgh no good, exactly the same as yesterdays!

@LuckyMoonstone eurgh sorry lovely that's crappy 💕

@mummatara I did test today, with FMU. Don’t want to get my hopes up but is this it??

@ElleBelleLou i can definitely see something on those ones☺️

@ElleBelleLou They look much clearer this morning :D

@ElleBelleLou yes!!! I see it on both 🥰

I think this is it 🥹🥹

@ElleBelleLou I saw the line yesterday too .. tentative congratulations ❤️

I think I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby but I feel confused/cautious!!

I had a very early (<5weeks) miscarriage on 5th dec. I only ever got 1 positive test on a sensitive test 4 days after my period was due. Bleeding started day after and I had 2 regular tests that were negative the day after then 1 week later.

During this new cycle I had 2 positive ovulation tests at cd14 and 18 so presuming was the later. More ovulation symptoms than normal so we did wonder about hyper ovulation.

my temperature dropped a bit after miscarriage but never below cover line and my boobs stayed sore. So I decided to do a test at 9dpo just to completely exclude the chance that pregnancy had continued but slow to rise hcg. We were fully expecting a negative as it was a regular test and done so early. We thought the only chance of a positive is if last time was actually only a threatened miscarriage in which case we’d get a strong result now 3 weeks later! We figured it would either be (unlikely) very positive (it continued) or completely negative (as we were only pregnant for less than 5 weeks so hcg would drop fast)

But in fact we got a weak positive. Followed up with a sensitive 6 day early digital test which confirmed pregnancy though it’s not showing on a regular ‘how many weeks’ digital test yet.

i think it must be a new pregnancy as can’t see how I’d have 2 negative tests soon after miscarriage then a faint positive now. Especially as the first test I did wasn’t a sensitive one. I also had smell aversion over the turkey on Xmas day and cried over a song 4x!

but I still just have a niggling doubt! Probably nerves after last time!

we have family visiting tonight for our engagement meal and usually my fiancés parents live abroad so today is our only chance to tell them face to face which would be so special!

however we do we want to be really sure it’s a positive before we do (happy not to wait til 12 weeks for close family though as I needed family support last miscarriage)

Any thoughts? Or similar experiences? Should we tell them?

And showing so early on a cheapy test +hyper ovulation symptoms, could we be expecting twins?!!

@ElleBelleLou no doubting that, congrats!!

@ElleBelleLou Congrats :D

Just been to the loo and have some brown tinged cm, it’s quite dry and sticky. I can just about reach the tip of my cervix and it’s firm but I think closed. Normally at 8dpo i would think oooh implantation but with my temps being lower than they normally are at this point in my LP, I feel more inclined to say it’s the start of AF. But at 8dpo that is just taking the piss, I’ll have to tell my doctor next time I see her

Congratulations to all the newly pregnant ones ❤

@Leanne0333 I'm not 100% but I think hyperovulation can only happen when you're on fertility meds?
It does definitely sound like you're pregnant, if you feel comfortable telling family this early then go for it! Congratulations x

@LuckyMoonstone I have everything crossed that it's implantation, the next couple of days should give you a clue. Are you temping at the same time each day? Mine can be different if I then temp later as my heating comes on 🤣 x