TTC after miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

[FfayeN]

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@mummatara I know exactly what you mean....I'm at "can it be February already!" X
@usedtolovenaps ❤️ x

@LuckyMoonstone sorry clicked the wrong person sorry xx

@usedtolovenaps thank you for sharing, I love that

@FfayeN ahhh that's good. I had a negative IC but still a faint line on frer about 8 days ago I was like not taking anymore now. I've classed myself as negative 😂 haha yes I hope she's got several luggage bags for you 🤞🏼 mines still going it's still light but it's def there 🤦🏼‍♀️ yes let's hope so I reckon I'll be CD16/17 as that's sort of my usual but I have been known to have the odd early or late one too 🙄 I was half wondering whether to really try this cycle and just let my body adjust back a bit more but it's so hard not to try isn't it. I think I probably will make sure there's at least one or two goes in the FW xxx

@usedtolovenaps awww that's so lovely and so true ❤️

@LuckyMoonstone I just want to go to bed because I'm bloody knackered 😂 DS did treat us to a 9.30 lie in this morning though which I'm very very grateful for because yesterday was exhausting and I need about 24 hours solid sleep to even think about shifting my eye bags 🙄

@mummatara not trying is hard, trying is hard....there's no win win 😂.
I don't know when to try, if I try and catch again before I get results of the biopsy it chances me not having the right treatment (if I need any!) during that pregnancy, but as you say, not trying is hard! There's no reason not to try after MC, they just say it to date the pregnancy but if you're feeling ok then no reason why not. xxx

@mummatara ooh 9:30, lovely. We got about quarter to 9 from DS which was good of him 👍

@usedtolovenaps what a lovely quote ❤️

7-9dpo and I've just had more spotting after going to the loo. Not feeling hopeful. Not gonna lie, a part of me hoped it was going to be implantation bleeding when it happened the other day. Had a dream I got a lovely clear bfp and it has made me feel so sad. Today has been a tearful day

Sort of just want to have a mega pint of vodka 😂 but I'm also keen to see what my temps are up to and I know alcohol raises them. Ugh why can't ttc be as simple as biology and sex Ed would have us believe?!

@FfayeN haha your right there def no win win 😭 I know there is technically no reason not to try. We really just too much get in our own heads sometimes 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ I was sitting here thinking oh what if my lining is too thin like that a stupid reason if I ovulate this cycle that's what the hormones do build it up 🤦🏼‍♀️ idiot mode on 😂 is the biopsy in feb?

@LuckyMoonstone honestly I couldn't believe my luck 😂 tbf he's not a massively early riser which is nice but he very rarely has a daytime nap now so it's kind of catch 22 there I get no respite in the day

@mummatara the professor I spoke with the other day said each cycle is different to the next and to the one before. Each time
Your body builds up it's lining it's a new attempt, a new egg and different sperm, each month has as good a chance as any before it 😘.
I can have the biopsy after I next ovulate, which I'll know once AF arrives 🙄. Hopefully mid Jan 🤞🏼. Results then take 4 weeks or so, so the debate is trying the cycle before we get the results through. I think we'll just take it easy xxx

@mummatara how old is he, when did he drop his nap? DS just turned 2 and I’m dreading the day he drops the nap, I need the break 😅 but I think it won’t be long 😣 fortunately he isn’t an early riser either and I have to drag him out of bed like he’s a lazy teenager 😂

I have lower back ache and some mild cramps and my boobs reeeally hurt but I’m only 6dpo so why am I even letting myself get sucked in 😫

@FfayeN ah yes I remember now 🤦🏼‍♀️ hmmm I think as it's prob only 1 or 2 cycles I would just try and go with the flow of it and if you fall then you fall and if not hopefully you will have an answer 🤞🏼I totally respect that that is soooo much easier to say than do though. Yes after I thought it I was like what am I even saying to myself 🤷🏼‍♀️ I need to order some more vits we've run out of a couple it's erks me they are so expensive 😂

@LuckyMoonstone he is 22 months 😳 he's dropped it fairly consistently for about 2 months now but he was never ever a great day napper even as a baby so I'm not shocked. He will fall asleep in the car on random occasions and the childminders always try and get him to nap in the week sometimes they are lucky and he gives them 20mins 😂 oooh that's good I'm glad I don't have an early riser that would actually kill me 😂 ahhhh lovely it's hard not to get sucked in we're all there with you ❤️

@Rosegold3112 ahhhh so sorry lovely I must have missed your message in the replying. So sorry your spotting always a crappy sign sending big hugs ❤️ lol the alcohol is a bummer when your temping 😩

@mummatara oh that’s quite early to be nap-less, but not all children need as much day sleep as others, especially if they get a lot of sleep overnight, like mine does and sounds like yours does too! Oh he’s been through plenty of early-wake stages but they tend to only last a few weeks and then he’s back to normal

Hi all! TTC baby #1 after miscarrying back in March. I’m 8DPO today (according to Flo), tested on a whim cause I can’t help it. Anyone see anything? In person & feel like I see a line but also aware it’s very very early and I could be very much wishful thinking.

@ElleBelleLou ooh I feel like I can see a little something!

@mummatara @LuckyMoonstone my 25 month old has been nap free since 18months 😂 she sleeps 7pm-8am reliably though so I don't complain! She's always been a terrible day napper though

@ElleBelleLou Hi Elle! I remember you :) I think maybe I see something on the last pic! I hope it turns into a stronger line for you.

My temp has gone down again 😩 only slightly but even so. I don’t know what’s going on?? Even in past cycles where I haven’t been pregnant, my temp has never dropped this early and carried on dropping.

I have had a cold/sore throat since last Wednesday, and my sleep hasn’t been great (waking in the early morning and then going back to sleep a while later), and some nights I have a few drinks, but i thought these things can make your temps unusually high, not low?

This is the first time I’ve ever temped in a winter month (I didn’t do Oct & Nov) so it could be that as well? I’m on 36.34 today, never had a temp that low in the TWW! But all the rises are there to confirm ovulation did actually happen. Urgh this referral to gynaecology can’t come quick enough 😤

@LuckyMoonstone Could it be an implantation dip maybe? Or is it below the cover line? 🤔

@TheBirdintheCave well it’s the 3rd dip in a row so I don’t think implantation. My average bbt is about 36.04-36.06 so it is above cover line still but not as much as I’d expect

I'm out this month. My AF was meant yo start on the 30th Dec however I started this morning. Didn't even get a chance to use my FRER. So upsetting, we timed it right and still didn't work. Trying to get answers through the NHS is so hard. I am also waiting for blood tests to come back this week to confirm whether I did or didn't infact ovulate. My gyne in South Africa prescribed me Clomid and on the first cycle I fell pregnant but after 6 weeks I MC. I don't think I'm ovulating to the levels I am meant to hence my gyne suggested clomid. Private in the UK is crazy prices.
I gave birth in South Africa and it was brilliant medical care and my gyne was amazing. Private care in South Africa is amazing, yes you pay but it isn't as bad as UK.
I literally don't even know what my next step is.....

@RG84 sorry to hear af is here. Hopefully you get your blood results back this week and it's good news! If you're not ovulating then perhaps you'll be prescribed clomid here too. But trying to get the NHS to do anything is challenging at the best of times sometimes, plus it's Christmas week and strikes. Hoping the new year brings lots of new chances!

@LuckyMoonstone how many days dpo are you? There's so many variables that can affect temp it's an absolute nightmare!

I'm 8-10dpo today. Temp is staying up, no more cramps and so far today no spotting. I've got my bfp's on 9dpo and 10dpo in the past so I took two tests this morning and stared at them willing so hard to see a line. I feel I'm like a woman gone mad. It really doesn't help we're in that weird timeless void between Christmas and New year where I feel out of sorts at the best of times. What's everyone up to today?

@Rosegold3112 7dpo so I guess I could be implanting now but 3 drops doesn’t look good to me. Will see what tomorrow brings

@LuckyMoonstone ive got everything crossed for you that it's implantation 🤞