TTC after miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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@mummatara oh no 😔. You may struggle to get any answers for a few days now but I would definitely ring the epu or your GP once the bank holiday is over. See if they have any advice for you. I hope you're ok xx

I tested this morning and the line is still there maybe slightly darker than yesterday. I put a test under the tap to see if they’re dodgy. The water test didn’t have a line. So I don’t know. Dh is working from home today so he caught me looking at the tests and he can see the line too. I didn’t get a pic I think I’ll try and get a frer later today. I had some wee cramps last night too and boobs are still veiny and burny. Would maybe explain why my dogs are 100x more needier than normal with me 😂

Top one was the water one. What do we think? Dodgy or maybe a wee line?

@RG84 i think a frer is better. I’ve seen so many people on here burned by a clear blue after getting their hopes up and turning out to be an evap line. I do like the e@h as well I’ve always used them they’re sensitive but not as sensitive as frer but a lot cheaper

@Luna57 thanks for the advice, I'll get the FRER test. I MAY take a risk and take a test on Christmas day in the hopes it being positive. However Monday onwards would be more accurate. Undecided

@Luna57 That looks like a line to me 🙂 looks similar to my cheap test yesterday! Defo try and get a FRER! 🤞🏻

This is mine from yesterday…think it looks similar to yours?

@Luna57 Looks positive to me! Congrats :D

@emhope i think the mom med are 25miu sensitivity and the e@h are 10miu so either I ovulated later than I predicted or I implanted later but my line looks quite faint? I said to dh I’ll go out and get a frer but he told me to be patient and just test again tomorrow. The most sense he’s talked in 10 years 😂. Think I’m just worried about a chemical

@Luna57 I would say that looks good to me 🥳

Hey ladies x

been awol. Came on 4 days ago bang on time. I felt relief. So I think that concludes my ttc journey. I can’t do miscarriage anymore. I can’t let this consume my life.

So I no longer belong here 😌 I wish you all well on your journeys and hope each and every one of you get your BFP x

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Aw lovely lady - I hope you are doing ok. You will get through this time, whatever you decide. Stay strong, sending you huge hugs. I am finding it so hard seeing everyone get their BFPs - I re-joined because I thought it would help but I think it's making it worse for me so I might leave as well xx

@Everythingzrosie Best of luck with everything, Rosie :) x

@Luna57 looks like a line, congrats.
@Everythingzrosie Wishing you all the best xx
@Moosey82 sorry your finding it hard at the minute. Always hear if you want to chat xx

@Everythingzrosie best of luck lovely! Xx

@Moosey82 awh hun, I know how you feel. I've been on this forum for nearly a year and to see the bfps coming thick and fast can be hard. On the flip side, I found it reassuring as so many ladies had successful pregnancies and that gave me hope. I think I needed the hope and a good network of gals who totally got 'me'. Try and have faith that it will happen for you, it will 🤞

Aw I am on cloud nine. 3 different brand this evening and those lovely lines appeared right away and the line progression from last night's also 🌈❤️

@Moosey82 don't underestimate how gruelling TTC truly is, I found secondary infertility more tough and harder to cope with than the miscarriages - you need to look after yourself. I snooze anyone on social media with newborns and block pregnancy and conception boards when I need to. Look after yourself ❤️

@mummatara could that be that brown/pink cm is that you are actually ovulating, your body won’t ovulate until hcg gets back down, so if your hcg is only last week undetectable, this might be actual O.

I really feel for you stuck in limbo like this xx

@Mannymoomin I don't think it is. has progressed a bit more today and I checked my cervix it's quite low so I think it's just taking a while to get going 🙄 never mind. I was saying to my mum I wondered if it was so light because it hadn't had much of a chance to build up I had D&C in June fell pregnant in July and then another D&C in Nov 🤔 so maybe there just isn't really much there as it's had 2 scrapings now 🤷🏼‍♀️

@mummatara oh well it’s definitely reassuring that your cervix is lower.
It definitely could just be a light one, my first AF after MC was really light. The 2nd one I’ve had finished yesterday, 8 days of AF, normal for me.
First AF after mc was only 4 days and 3 days of that was light spotting.
This one has been 6 days of full/heavy flow and two days of light spotting.
It is horrible when you just want to be back in the game though and all you can think of is AF/DTD/O then DPO

@Mannymoomin mine are usually light and only last a few days but this was super light even for me 😂 I'm glad it seems to have perked up a bit now makes me feel better 🙊 oh god it really is annoying isn't it I feel like I'm never going to ovulate again atm 🙄 glad yours seem to have been more normal though that's a v good sign 🤞🏼 are you gearing up for the DTD section? When is normal O for you?

@mummatara I bet your gut is right and you’ve just not had much of a lining to shed.
I’m CD9 now, CM is beginning to change so CB OPK came out today.
Normal O is CD 13 for me, but it’s definitely my luteal phase that’s going to bother me, I’m still not over only having a 7 day LP last cycle when my normal is 12/13.
Short cycles and long AF definitely helps though as I finish AF and almost immediately in fertile window

@Mannymoomin ahhh def not long to wait im a little jel. I'm the opposite 2/3 day period then I have to wait to O day 16/17 or even as late as 23 🙄 my LP is 11/12 days. Gosh I hope this one is more normal for you. Do you temp at all? Maybe you didn't actually ovulate last cycle and that's why LP was only 7 days 🤔

@mummatara no temping sadly, I love my weekend lay ins far too much to have to wake up at 6.30am to temp 😂
My CM is quite reliable though and it matched up to the static smiley and went away as usual after, I think I just had an immature egg last cycle as I got that static on CD9 so presumably Od on CD10.
so don’t be too disheartened about your long follicular phase, you’ll at least have nice mature eggos.
When are you going to start tracking O?

@Mannymoomin lol I never thought of it that way 😂 they just seem long to me 🤦🏼‍♀️ I think I'll get the CB's out CD7 just incase it's a shorter cycle I have been know to have a 27 day cycle on the odd occasion just to keep me on my toes 🙄 I'll start doing a strip in the evening once I get a flashing smiley so I don't waste any expensive ones 😂 ahhh see I wake up about 5 everyday and then just go back to sleep so it works for me stupid internal clock is used to getting disturbed by hubbys alarm every morning and thinks I want to wake that early on the weekend too 😭

@mummatara oh no! I thought AF was properly on her way, I'm sorry to hear it hasn't progressed much. Has it stopped now? Maybe it'll pick back up a bit over the next few days.

@Mannymoomin I have long AF. Never used to but since my miscarriages, I can bleed for 5 days and then spot afterwards sometimes up to another 5 days. My avg is about 8 days in total. I've had the works looked at to see why - absolutely no reason so I assume hormones maybe (these are also normal so 🤷‍♀️). Oh I hear you - my life is ruled by stages in my cycle!