evening ladies, this is my first time ever posting on mumsnet however have been religiously checking up on others posts for assurance but I'm now going mad! I wasn’t ttc but wouldn’t mind if it happened. Im between 12-13dpo and I’m expecting my af tomorrow or the day after and have a usual 31 day cycle however I have had every single symptom imaginable since predicted ovulation. I tested last night however and got a BFN on an early response boots test I’ve had for a while, as I was loosing my mind not knowing what’s happening.. anyway I come to you lovely ladies for any advice or comparisons in symptoms so far in the chance it was a false neg? During the 2ww I ended up starting a daily symptom list by dpo to track because they truly were so noticeable, I have so far had the following:
approx 5-7 dpo - bloating, twinges, fatigue, lots of cm, constipation, extremely hungry constantly
7-9 dpo - twinges, nausea, fatigue, unimaginable insomnia not going to bed until 7am laying awake all night, diarrhoea (sorry tmi), had a fever through the night and woke up had to strip.. my SO noticed instantly my boobs looked massive (I’m tiny 34b), tenderness defo present in them
9-11 dpo appetite decreased massively to 1 meal a day, bloating, gas, sharp cramps almost like af, emotional as hell!, dizzy in the afternoons/evening, high body temp, weird unrealistic dream (I dreamt up a frisky moment between myself, SO and stranger🫠 so not my style!!!!), WORST FEVER EVER, waking up dripping in sweat literally had to change my clothing and sheets.. on top of this woke up on 10dpo congested as hell with the worst flu imaginable (I still have it) my nose is so dry throat so dry I’m unbelievably thirsty.. my taste buds have completely gone also. Started having some streaky blood when blowing few days ago didn’t realise it was significant however …
11-13dpo (I’m estimated at 13dpo now could be wrong) one meal a day still, yellow ish when wipe, dull uncomfortable cramping,
unimaginable insomnia, I’ve barely slept in days and when I have I’ve fallen asleep at around 6-7am and woken again at 11am or like last night kept shooting up every half an hour like I was being electrocuted and covered in sweat literally drenched kept my SO awake all night long just kept shooting up and having to re change my clothing 4 times!!! Managed to sleep from 8-11am woke up drenched again and didn’t realise SO had put a towel under me whilst I slept, woke up immediate nausea couldn’t get out of bed, toilet wasn’t that bad didn’t really have constipation, nausea increased by 1pm took my dog to the park and almost passed out.. blood pressure felt very high so I took it and it has increased quite a lot since I started testing 3 days ago to track - it was defo high as I was super dizzy and an emotional wreck for some reason I ended up picking a pointless fight with my SO and it became so explosive I started crying uncontrollably for no reason and it ended in a nosebleed which I don’t often get… and I read somewhere nosebleeds can be a sign.. I’m sooo thirsty, absolutely no taste buds and no smell, horrible taste in my mouth.. I sit here rn feeling so confused and so sick😷 anyone been through anything similar having a BFN then a BFP / similar symptoms before their BFP? I’m not sure if AF will arrive tomorrow or the day after… but I’ve never felt like this before any sister says she had basically every single symptom I’m having before her DS including a stuffy nose / flu before BFP.
I’m so sorry this was so long to read but I sincerely appreciate anyone who takes the time to read and or reply I also appreciate I should probably just wait for AF but I’m kinda dreading it at this point maybe I kinda want that BFP now🥲 I’m having so much anxiety, please don’t feel I’m wasting your time by asking when the actual wait isn’t so far away! 🙈kindest regards in advance and
The most stickiest baby dust to everyone trying 💜💜