Tactical seduction and POAS addicts

[FfayeN]

Hi ladies. I have started to feel a little overwhelmed with our usual thread and we are at different stages of our journeys now. Please feel free to leave this one if you don't feel the same but I feel so invested in your journeys and don't want to miss any news. Hoping this is ok, I don't think you can do DM as a group?
Hope you are all doing well and if there's anyone I've missed from the usual bunch feel free to add 😘😘😘

@MrsCristianoX @TheBirdintheCave @Indianna2006 @theblueflowers @bunnykins123 @LuckyMoonstone @mummatara

@FfayeN I have just got off the phone with them it has gone down by 0 I'm still at 84 🙄 she said as I feel fine test again in a couple of weeks and see if it's negative. Honestly zero I'm bloody fuming 😂😭😤 also hospital is 40 mins away what a waste of time!

@mummatara NO!!! surely not?! How is that even possible? I really feel for you, what a bloody nightmare! It would just be nice for AF to show now so you know your body is trying to reset. Is it roughly due next week did you say? Fingers crossed for you! Xxx

@FfayeN I know that's what I said 😂 yes my cycle can be anywhere between 27-31 days. Last time she came on CD33 and today I'm CD25 so I reckon hopefully she won't be long🤞🏼 xxx

@mummatara 🙏🏼 everything crossed! So just thought I'd share my worst cannula bruise, I think there's almost a rainbow of colours there!

Motherf@&)er!!!

@mummatara you got me thinking so I also just counted when mine last turned up, 33days exactly from the procedure, how strange!!!

@mummatara wtf??

@FfayeN my war wound..

@MrsCristianoX awful isn't it!! They're so much more painful than they look too...they always go for the thinnest bits of skin! The Butchers doing their best work 😫 xx

@FfayeN I'm hoping my body hasn't just thought fuck it no more. But only CD5 plenty of time till ov

@MrsCristianoX BAGS of time for DH to up his foreplay game 😂. Or for you to get a few chapters into a saucy book 😂😂😂 xx

Jumping on the cannula bruises bandwagon 😂 This is the from the day after my son was born.I think she tried four times to get it in before switching to the other hand.

@TheBirdintheCave OUCH!!!! Wow 😣 xx

@lovenaps exactly! When you've been through so many miscarriages you have to question if there is more to it. With my 2nd recent one, I had the worst headache and fever - I then miscarried the next day. That felt like my body was fighting something. Anyhoo - I don't think we will know the full extent of immunology and miscarriages for a least a few more years whilst they trial pred etc. I so hope that when DD starts trying for a baby there is more known about reoccurring miscarriages!

@mummatara oh hun I'm sorry it's not dropped down! Literally your story matches mine. Mine went down by 1 in 2 weeks. I was gutted! Are you ok? I was really worried but I hope my story can reassure you that sometimes, your body can just take absolutely ages to shift the hormone even if nothing is wrong 💕

@FfayeN @TheBirdintheCave @MrsCristianoX those bruises! They used you as a pin cushion!!

@FfayeN @MrsCristianoX @TheBirdintheCave oh my dad those are some serious bruises 😳 thanks fully mine were never that bad !

@FfayeN lol how funny it was the same cycle day 🙊 I'm hoping she makes an appearance about the same time this time round 🤞🏼

@bunnykins123 I can't say I'm not frustrated because I am a bit but I'm not worried at all.I think if I get to the 6 week point and it's still positive I'll be well effed off 😂 but still 2.5 weeks to go for that

I've spent the whole day shopping I bloody hate shopping 😭 there is so much toot in the shops I thought I could bash the lot out in one day but apparently not 🙄

@bunnykins123 that's so strange because Friday I had THE WORST headache and almost felt flu like, pretty sure that would have been my day I actually MC too based on the measurements.
Had a rough day today, the rollercoaster of emotions is well on its way!!! Damn our hormones xx

@mummatara we are going to try and do most of ours tomorrow, I am dreading it!!! I also just want to get it done though and not have to worry about getting any thing else 🤣. You're right though, when you're trying to be conscious of money it's amazing the crap you start to notice in the shops 😂 xx

@mummatara I bruise like a peach damn aspirin. Massive bruise on my foot atm. I refuse to shop..I'm an online order kinda gal

@FfayeN 💔

@FfayeN @bunnykins123 I remember vividly having two bad migraines about the time the first baby stopped growing so maybe there's something in it 🤔

@FfayeN im usually pretty good at going into a shop and saying so and so would like that or that but honestly I walked in and just thought god this stuff is vile 😂 probs didn't help that it was heaving with people and they were walking at a snails pace 🤦🏼‍♀️

@MrsCristianoX oh me too but I asked DH for his card and he was like oh your not going to the shops I have cash 🤦🏼‍♀️ I said fine I'll go to the bloody shops 😭

@mummatara @FfayeN weird, isn't it. I read at the time lots of women saying the same and knowing they were about to miscarry. I only had it with 1 miscarriage but that was the one with the strongest line 🤷‍♀️

@mummatara I'm all for online shopping vs going into shops. The crowds make me grumpy 😂 totally understand that. It is frustrating and you are completely justified in feeling that way. It just adds to the pain when things don't go as plan. Green tea and exercise 😂😂

Tagging @LuckyMoonstone again as I'm not sure she's seen this group and can see she's back 👋

@bunnykins123 ooh thank you, I didn’t know there was a new group!

I totally do all my shopping online as well, I can have a wander around Boots or card shops but that’s about it!

Me and DH are about to head out to do ours, though lunch out is sweetening the deal!
I'd love to get it all done in one go but I think there's very little chance of that 🤯 xx

@LuckyMoonstone Boots is about as far as I can hack. Clothes shops are just evil 😂

@FfayeN enjoy your lunch today!

@LuckyMoonstone how are you doing lovely? xx

I’m frantically waiting for pay day to do more Christmas shopping 🤣

All of our Christmas shopping is being done online. I don't think there's anything I can buy from physical shops.

@bunnykins123 hard agree, and trying to shop with someone else in tow makes it 100x worse 😂 solo shopping only!

@Indianna2006 I’m ok thank you for asking. Excited for Christmas but it’s also come with a sadness that I should have been celebrating with my two little boys, not just one. And I feel sooo desperate to be pregnant again especially after the break we’ve just had!

@LuckyMoonstone do you think the break has helped at all? Are you starting back up after Xmas or now?

yes I understand that. I think having no children xmas is sad if your ttc. And having an only is sad. As you hoped for a sibling. Can’t say I didn’t think about the little one which would have been here with us now for this Xmas. Because I have a little. I think that’s normal. Even though I know we have a new life joining us in spring. Just wonder who’d they’d of been etc and how this xmas
would of been different.

Hoping you can fall again soon. Did you do anything different that cycle you fell! Like fertilily for anything? I know it didn’t work out and ended up being a bit confusing.
bit you did fall. Sperm met egg. And we can only take the small positives we have. 🤞🏼🤞🏼

@FfayeN hope you’re feeling okay after your surgery? xx