Tactical seduction and POAS addicts

[FfayeN]

Hi ladies. I have started to feel a little overwhelmed with our usual thread and we are at different stages of our journeys now. Please feel free to leave this one if you don't feel the same but I feel so invested in your journeys and don't want to miss any news. Hoping this is ok, I don't think you can do DM as a group?
Hope you are all doing well and if there's anyone I've missed from the usual bunch feel free to add 😘😘😘

@MrsCristianoX @TheBirdintheCave @Indianna2006 @theblueflowers @bunnykins123 @LuckyMoonstone @mummatara

@mummatara 😳 holy crap..that's a strong line. It's the increasing one step that gets me too thinking new pregnancy too. Don't worry about the crazy..come join me over here 😂

Oh I just looked it up apparently that weeks indicator can show 1-2 with 10mil so there goes that theory 🤣 I'll just see if the cheapies get darker and ring the EPU tues/weds

@mummatara 🙈🙈 what a bloody pickle. It’s a fair line on a frer. But with no other frer from another day with comparison hard to know. Could still be residual as frers are very sensitive but 🤔🤔 another cheapie tomo I think! Let’s analyse these lines!!

@MrsCristianoX 😂 I love our crazy club 🙊 lol I was a little shocked how strong the frer was was def expecting a little faint one! I'll test tomorrow with the IC and it will be negative you watch now I've peed all over £20 😂

@Indianna2006 😂 haha it's our favourite thing to do

@MrsCristianoX I can defo see a line on your 2am test. Have u compared with the one u took the other day? @mummatara I haven't a clue about temping 🙈 but does it look like your temp is rising today or have I totally read your chart wrong, I think If you've been dtd since the D&C there's every chance it could be a new PG, especially if your cheapies were pretty much negative? X

@mummatara ohhhhhhhh just posted and MN hadn't updated your latest post. Those are strong lines on the frer and the 1-2 weeks...🤔🙈..x

@calimc83 it did rise ever so slightly today but not enough of a rise to signal anything there are always small fluctuations it should read more clearly like this one. They were so faint all week then Fridays you would have called negative I could just see a light shadow in certain lights and when it dried there was nothing there at all

@calimc83 I'm not going down compare and contrast yet otherwise I'll be in the fully crazy club (there's still time for that😂) If there's nothing on a test tomorrow I'm out this month. DH was watching me last night and asked if I had lost weight. I said yea I haven't been feeling well so he asked if we were pregnant. I said no but Af due Tuesday. So I don't have to sneaky hide tests anymore 😅 actually glad he mentioned it we haven't really spoken about it since fertile week.

@mummatara I binned the test earlier and my one step dried slightly darker. Imagine if it was a new pregnancy. You two are super fertile!!! Are you gonna ring epu tomorrow? Xx

😂 this really tickled me! The things we do to TRY and stay sane 😅 xx

@mummatara ahh ok. Are u going to call EPU tomorrow and see what they say? Did u say if u had any symptoms?@MrsCristianoX 🙈🙈 sorry I'm a bad influence! I've everything crossed for you. AF better stay away or else xx

@calimc83 thanks lovely ☺️ I'm bad enough on my own I need no encouragement 😘

@MrsCristianoX I'm glad you don't have to hide them anymore that must feel a little relief. I'm would be very pleased and shocked at how fertile we are but I think I'm 95% certain it isn't a new one 🙈

@FfayeN I know 🤣 I think you just get to a point where you think well why not just throw a bit more money at it it's only £20 😂

@calimc83 no I think I'll wait until Tuesday and see what that one is like as that would be basically 3 weeks since surgery and at which point if my test is still positive I have to call them anyway would then be another 48 hours and would see if it's really getting darker or just the tests being freaky. Got zero symptoms

@mummatara that latest photo you posted of your chart. I don’t get the dates at the bottom. Is it this months chart. Cos it says dates from like July 🙈🙈

help me out lol. I don’t use that app. Was trying work dates out to see a pattern but dates are confusing me 😂😂

@mummatara ignore me jsut looked at it again and see it IS a different chart and that was your point. I was then gonna say. Thought it was a clear shift. But it’s obv not this months 🤣🤣

fml I need bed I think haha. No brain cells left

@Indianna2006 😂 no that was Julys chart I was showing @calimc83 what the temp rise should look like. This is this cycles chart showing no rise. Sorry to confuse you 🙈

@Indianna2006 🤣🤣🤣 that's baby brains started

@mummatara it so is. Honeslty I’ve lost several cells the past few weeks 🤣 it’s a real thing I swear.

ahh yes I see what you mean. Let me look at what my temp did when I ovulated with hcg still in system.

what I would say is your temp shift even on your other chart where you clearly do see a shift. It still is only a subtle one. Compared to some. Mine is always like woah obvious. So because yours is more subtle and mc hormones etc etc. could be it has but just not Uber clear perhaps

@mummatara okay so on my 2 mc charts. The temp always seems to drastically drop close to ovulation as it’s when the progesterone from the hcg falls. Mine fell and dropped on my chart even when I was still get fainting positives. And then I ovulate soon after.

so only thing I can make of that chart is perhaps date 15th was a fluke high temp. An if it has been somewhere more in photo. Then I’d of said date 12/13th is when your progesterone hcg dropped to be able to ovulate. So could make you like 7/8 max I guess. But still quite early for a positive.

only thing I can try work out cos yes otherwise all seems static doesn’t it.

@mummatara sorry meant to add that obv your progesterone dropped and then you ovulated quickly and had a slow rise back up to temps that seems to match the higher progesterone level. If that makes sense?! 🙈😂

@Indianna2006 haha Oh I know it's real even now I try and recall words and it takes me a good 5 mins sometimes 😳

Yes my shift is never very much at all so it could be esp combined with my terrible sleeping the temp might just not be accurate 🤔

what you said would tie in with dates as I had sharp O pains on the 13th. I'm trying to remember if I had a glass of wine 😂 to make that temp a bit higher in the middle but I really can't remember that's so bad 🤦🏼‍♀️ ahhh yes I get what your saying with the progesterone

Just gonna have to be patient and wait and see. I want to go to bed now so I can wake up and test 🤣

Tonight's opk has gone from .49 this morning to .66 this eve so that's hovered back up a bit

@mummatara ooh interesting that it perhaps would tie in with dates that you felt pains.

if I’m right I’ll be like best chart reader ever. I think having bad night sleep or just waking bit later can change the temp and make it high. Sometimes we get a random high one and it can change the picture and affect it. First chart after mc is always more confusing as it is let alone with a more subtle shift.

@Indianna2006 you lady are like a wizard with working these things out! I am totally following you and you're right @mummatara if you had a drink or particularly bad night that could explain the high temperature and then your chart does look super promising.
It's hard to be patient isn't it. Apparently your OPKs can rise if you're pregnant too?
I hope the next few days go super quick for you so you know one way or another xxx

@Indianna2006 haha you'll need fruit baskets for fertility and chart reading 😂

Sometimes I wonder why I still bother to chart. I did consider the Ava bracelet or the ovusense but I just haven't got the extra money in the run up to Christmas to spend on it. I either have a good nights sleep (rarely), ds wakes up about midnight and is all over the place so can take an hour or so before going back to bed (at least twice a week atm) or I wake up about 3am (this happens most nights) then DH gets up 5/5.30 most mornings so my temp taking ranges anytime between 3am and 6am which I know doesn't help it at all 🤦🏼‍♀️

@mummatara 🤣🤣🤣 I’m gonna be inundated with fruit 🍏🍌🍇

ooh only time shall tell 😚