Tactical seduction and POAS addicts

[FfayeN]

Hi ladies. I have started to feel a little overwhelmed with our usual thread and we are at different stages of our journeys now. Please feel free to leave this one if you don't feel the same but I feel so invested in your journeys and don't want to miss any news. Hoping this is ok, I don't think you can do DM as a group?
Hope you are all doing well and if there's anyone I've missed from the usual bunch feel free to add 😘😘😘

@MrsCristianoX @TheBirdintheCave @Indianna2006 @theblueflowers @bunnykins123 @LuckyMoonstone @mummatara

@mummatara Oh dear, how is it doing that?? 🤔

@mummatara how long ago was your D&C? Is there any chance it could be a new pregnancy?! X

@mummatara to me those look like the lines are getting darker? Are you sure this couldn't be a new pregnancy?

@mummatara it definitely is getting darker! I am with others - any chance this could be a new pregnancy??

@MrsCristianoX have you tested today? x

@lovenaps @mummatara I tested at 2am with a cheapie. Bfn so I'm awaiting AF in a sulk. I'll maybe have a better chance with a lateral flow 🙄

@FfayeN good luck tomorrow lovely 🥰 xx

@MrsCristianoX So sorry 😫 I don't get this because there def was a line in the test you posted here before 😫

@calimc83 @TheBirdintheCave @bunnykins123 well I don't think it is but as we have all discovered the body is weird 😂 so I suppose can't rule it out. I'll put a little timeline but I've had no temp rise. I'm CD19 today

CD1 surgery
CD8 hcg is at 114
CD10 I have a very strong opk but still a faint PT so I didn't log it as just assumed was hcg
CD12 I get sharp O pains. do opk it's peak according to premom but I don't normally use this app to log them my normal one had changed and doesn't consider it peak but still high. This is the first one I've logged on the pics below.
CD19 today

PT have been faint/squinty all week with Fridays being basically negative. No temp rise at all and opks are still a fair line though not what I would call peak. We've DTD every 2/3 days since CD9

@lovenaps sorry it took me so long to write my message I didn't see yours ❤️

@MrsCristianoX ahhh sorry lovely ☹️ that's sucks so much big hugs xxx

@mummatara based on all this I wouldn't rule out a new pregnancy 😯so hard to know now! I guess your test over the next few days will give you a clearer answer!

@mummatara @lovenaps bottle of wine and a straw with my name on it today. If I can get it down still feeling a bit sickly. I'm sure I'll manage 😅 yea but I'm not sure about one steps and early testing xx

@MrsCristianoX yes after a few sips you won't remember the sickness just the glorious taste of vino 🙊 so hard isn't it those bloody IC are just so addictive because they are so cheap but they can get you in a right tailspin of is it isn't it. And we all saw the line on it 🙄

@lovenaps so hard isn't it. I have a frer in the draw and a digi weeks indicator suppose I could see how faint the line is on the frer but it probs would be wasting it 😂

I think the only thing that makes me think it's not is my lack of temp rise

@mummatara 🤔🤔 it’s deff getting darker isn’t it. What the! And considering how long it was going faint for. Deff agree with others. New pregnancy perhaps.
hmm and from your time line. Could be legit. From when you seemed to get positive opk. I know I got positive opk whilst I still had pregnancy lines faint ones. And the opks were positive for a few days for me rather than my usual 1 day. I did then get a temp rise tho. But because of the mess of hormones it was harder to see. As my temp had only really lowered since the mc. Hmm few more days might tell if they keep getting darker. What a conundrum.

@MrsCristianoX sorry lovey 😘 cup of tea and cake for you. Or wine like you said. Even better!

@FfayeN best of luck for tomo hun. It’s so anxiety provoking I know. But just try go and hope for best. I have my fingers crossed for you. 😘😘🤞🏼

@Indianna2006 cake 🤢

This is the test I took at 2am..

@mummatara this journey just never stops throwing curve balls does it! It's frustrating to not know what's going on. When do you think AF would be due?

@MrsCristianoX oh hun, same as above, what an absolute bitch of a test!!! Are you going to test again tomorrow just incase? Do you only have IC? Would a FRER offer more clarity? Sending hugs to both of you 😘.

I feel awful these last two days. No idea if it's run down from my course, pregnancy, or a winter cold setting in...either way send me to bed with a tea and some greys anatomy 🤣 xx

@FfayeN yea I'll defo test again. I just don't know. I feel absolutely sick as a dog. I have FRER and clearblue digital ordered for tomorrow

@FfayeN enjoy your rest 💕 I slept 14 hours Friday night/Saturday morning and still woke up tired 😴

Good luck for tomorrow @FfayeN ! Will be thinking of you.

@MrsCristianoX How frustrating! Looks like there’s a faint line on that 2am test though.. how many dpo are you?

Got a promising temp rise this morning, so I’m pretty sure ovulation was yesterday. If correct then we DTD on O-1, O-3 and O-5. Every other day is definitely our limit, I have discovered. Last night was an absolute no-go 😂

@mummatara How strange… I don’t see how it could be increasing unless it’s a new pregnancy?! There can’t be any other explanation, surely.
The lack of temperature rise is very odd though 🤔

@pangolin84 every other day is recommended I think xx good luck this TWW ❤️ For me wine is on hold until I can brave an FRER xx

@pangolin84 I hit the same days as you this month! 12dpo I think x

@MrsCristianoX I can definitely see a faint line... and I know from experience that lines always look fainter in photos. I think it is positive?! Did it appear within the time frame?

@lovenaps yep took the picture and crawled back into bed. I'm like defo nothing and went to sleep. My eyesight isn't the best at 2am 😂 I've actual proper tests ordered for tomorrow ( I have an emergency FRER but am scared to do it today🙈) I will update tomorrow xx

@Indianna2006 a total conundrum 🤯 I think I'll be very shocked if it is a new one don't even know if you can be pregnant without a temp rise 🤷🏼‍♀️ I suppose the temping could be off though pre mc i did it this way and it wasn't an issue I got an obvious rise. I take my temp at all different times I just make sure I've had a good block of sleep. some nights I get a fairly full night and others DS decides sleeping is optional 🙄

@MrsCristianoX oh I can still see a line on that test 😍 def hold off on the wine until you take a different one 🤞🏼

@FfayeN eurgh doesn't it just 😭 I've been really fine considering how long it's taken but honestly this morning when it was darker I was like ffs I'm so fed up of this now 😂 my cycles have been anywhere between 26-33days I would hate to even try and guess. Last D&C she took 5 weeks to arrive but I had much higher hcg then as was 12 weeks at that point and hadn't started to drop. Sorry you're feeling rubbish could be a little bit of everything catching up with you. I love greys ❤️

@pangolin84 yay for temp rise 💪🏼 those sound like promising days got everything crossed for you 🤞🏼 it's the temp rise that's really throwing me off and making me think not. Sometimes I wish I didn't have to know everything that's happening with my body 🤣

So I know you will all think I'm bonkers but I actually just thought sod it and did the frer and digital. I have absolutely just wasted about £20 🙄 but I'm sure those weeks indicators don't show up until about 50mil? Surely my blood test that was 114mil 11 days ago wouldn't have only dropped such a small amount 🤔 I know there are no answers but honestly it helps me so much that I can tell you all my crazy ❤️