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Tactical seduction and POAS addicts

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FfayeN · 21/10/2022 21:40

Hi ladies. I have started to feel a little overwhelmed with our usual thread and we are at different stages of our journeys now. Please feel free to leave this one if you don't feel the same but I feel so invested in your journeys and don't want to miss any news. Hoping this is ok, I don't think you can do DM as a group?
Hope you are all doing well and if there's anyone I've missed from the usual bunch feel free to add 😘😘😘

@MrsCristianoX @TheBirdintheCave @Indianna2006 @theblueflowers @bunnykins123 @LuckyMoonstone @mummatara

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MrsCristianoX · 11/11/2022 16:13

@mummatara actually tried that once but either I'm the wrong shape or he's the wrong shape😂 was going to go further there but don't want blocked from mumsnet 😂

mummatara · 11/11/2022 16:18

@MrsCristianoX 🤣 yes don't get blocked. My description is probably too informative and will get blocked now but there's just no easy way to say it so I said it 😂🤷🏼‍♀️ sorry I have no further tricks up my sleeve

MrsCristianoX · 11/11/2022 16:20

@mummatara I think you're good 😂

Indianna2006 · 11/11/2022 16:49

@mummatara 😂😂

haha laughing so much at this. Deffo prob cos it’s an extra treat 😂 also men are SO visual and they get to see lots in that position 🙄😂

@MrsCristianoX 😂😂 haha I think it’s easier with your legs tucked up underneath there’s. Otherwise you need to be some sore of acrobatic woman 😂😂 maybe that’s where you went wrong.

LOLing. Always the way though. Minute it’s about making a baby they get stage fright. An take 45 mins 🙄
I’d just do some heavy moaning and say a few dirty things and that usually helped things along 😂🍆💦

FfayeN · 11/11/2022 18:17

@Indianna2006 @MrsCristianoX @mummatara to be fair that position hasn't been seen in my house for about 5 years 😂. If this one doesn't work out maybe it'll be time to bring that back into circulation 😆. However with the current wind situation for now it's staying in the past 😆

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Indianna2006 · 11/11/2022 18:21

@FfayeN stop 🤣🤣🤣💨💨

MrsCristianoX · 11/11/2022 18:30

@Indianna2006 @FfayeN @mummatara 😂😂 yep we went there and no defo didn't do the leg thing! What is it with men and visuals too?? DH is a bit of a control freak in the sheets so to be blunt he disturbs my rhythm on top🙈 (please don't block me 😆)

mummatara · 11/11/2022 21:55

@Indianna2006 @MrsCristianoX @FfayeN 😂😂 omg dying with laughter they are funny and so predictable arnt they 🙄😂 yea I wouldn't crack that one out unless I thought there would def be no 💨 coz that's just mortifying. It did happen to me once 😳 we both just pretended it never happened 🤣

bunnykins123 · 12/11/2022 07:47

Mega LOLz @FfayeN progesterone makes you feel so bloated and windy pops initially but it does settle down after a few days. Saying that pregnancy hormones may make it worse! Here's hoping it settles down soon!

@mummatara it's ridiculous isn't it. I think I've calculated I've spent in the region of around 1k in sups and fertility aids over the past year. That makes me so mad! Omg lol at your lucky position! I think DH would have a heart attack if I suggested that position. Jeez it's been years since we've been adventurous in the bedroom department 😂

TheBirdintheCave · 12/11/2022 10:23

Haha 😂 I should try that out with my husband and see what he thinks!

My temperature finally went up today at 5dpo 🤷🏻‍♀️ My chart now looks very very weird and makes zero sense to me.

@bunnykins123 Did yours go back up again?

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bunnykins123 · 12/11/2022 10:50

@TheBirdintheCave well our charts are similar in that we both had a temp dip on O pain day. Whether that means much or not 🤷‍♀️ here's mine for comparison...

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bunnykins123 · 12/11/2022 10:51

@TheBirdintheCave god I seem to have cropped half of it out 🤦‍♀️ O pains and peak on day 17

TheBirdintheCave · 12/11/2022 18:12

@bunnykins123 Yeah I suppose it is still a dip even if it's not a big one. It'll be interesting to see if the scan on Weds (for our first IVF appointment) shows whether it happened or not.

Our charts do seem similar :)

lovenaps · 12/11/2022 19:05

I developed a crazy anxiety after the first loss. Life has certainly changed since then, completely. Still struggling to sleep at night thinking of all the terrible things that could go wrong. I will take a little couple weeks break from mumsnet but will be back to see the upcoming BFPs 😍Will be thinking of you all!
Just wanted to say this in case someone tags me with a question and I don't respond - it would just be because I won't have the app!

mummatara · 12/11/2022 19:09

@lovenaps ❤️ hope you start to feel better soon lovely see you in a couple of weeks

MrsCristianoX · 13/11/2022 15:10

Jaysus I have nausea and I know it's the virus bug ...I really think the virus is like 'mmm when can we make her feel sick, oh I know a week before she tests🙄' (stalks off to get a cyclizine)

Indianna2006 · 13/11/2022 18:16

17+1 and scan was all as it should be 👶🏼✨

and we’re having another GIRL 💓
sister for DD 🥰🥰

MrsCristianoX · 13/11/2022 18:20

@Indianna2006 amazing news!! Congratulations 💗xx

calimc83 · 13/11/2022 18:38

@Indianna2006 yay! 🥰 amazing news. How did u feel going into the scan? X

TheBirdintheCave · 13/11/2022 20:25

@Indianna2006 Congratulations :D

mummatara · 13/11/2022 20:44

@Indianna2006 oh I'm so happy for you lovely 💕

FfayeN · 13/11/2022 21:00

@Indianna2006 awwww that's such wonderful news congratulations, so happy to hear everything is going as it should be 🥰 xxx

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FfayeN · 14/11/2022 07:51

Morning ladies, I have exactly one week til my scan and the panic is really starting to set in. Was up all night thinking what will happen if it's another MMC 😭.
No massive symptoms still, headaches every morning and a bit off some food and my boobs are a little achey but they all just so mild and I know my body will keep those up even if it's not turning out ok.
Also panicking myself that I've eaten some gluten and I know it probably won't cause a MC but I'm torturing myself. There's no response you can give I just needed to get the worry off my chest 😫.

How are you all feeling in your TWWs? Is anyone close to testing?

@theblueflowers how are you doing lovely? Xx

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MrsCristianoX · 14/11/2022 08:06

@FfayeN rant away.. are you still in New York? So 6po today but the last 2 nights have been having weird period like cramps lower back and pelvis and my skin is burning. I've had to use a deep freeze patch to get to sleep

Anyways now I've nearly convinced myself I have inflammation in the uterus like the killer cell condition. It just feels wrong to be cramping so much🤷‍♀️

@bunnykins123 and anyone else diagnosed with this, did the condition cause cramps a week before testing? They are bloody sore too.

theblueflowers · 14/11/2022 08:07

@FfayeN I'm so sorry you're feeling like this, but know that you're not alone- I could have written your exact post! It's why I've been so quiet. My scan is on Thursday, and my anxiety is building. I had horrible stress dreams last night, woke up every two hours and when my alarm went off this morning my heart was racing. I'm now worrying my worrying is going to cause harm! I both want this scan to come and to not come. Just can't help thinking that in a few days this could all be over.

I'm also with you on the very mild symptoms. It doesn't help listening to friends who talk about how bad they got it. They don't know I'm pregnant but I couldn't help but feel rubbish when they were chatting. Aside from my boobs and the mildest of nausea, I feel fine!

@Indianna2006 that is the best news! Massive congratulations lovely x

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