TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

[FfayeN]

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

@MrsCristianoX @FfayeN @TheBirdintheCave @bunnykins123 did you all have ovulation pain before your miscarriages too? I’ve only started to have it since but I have no idea why, didn’t get it this month though🤔

@ChloeN yep, defo had it before and also had it before DD so for me it's fairly normal.

@ChloeN ive always had ovulation pain, but it’s been much stronger since mc ♥️

Just had my hcg result from last Wednesday it was at 114. And tests have been considerably lighter since then so not long now. This was this mornings

@mummatara that's a squinter! Defo getting there - by next week it might be completely blank 🤞 must be such a relief!

@bunnykins123 yes a huge relief another crappy chapter almost over before we start all over again. It's like self torture really 😆

@bunnykins123 @Babydustmamma maybe I just didn’t take any notice before?🤣 it’s weird how things just suddenly start

@mummatara ahh nearly there!!❤️

@ChloeN its true! I do wonder the same thing 😂 I am scarily conscious of everything going on in my body now whereas before I was just going with the flow!

Just want to say this thread is amazing, the support for each other is great.

I asked this question earlier in this thread so I thought I would come back in case anyone is looking for similar info. I had my MC last month and have been anxiously testing since to check whether I will ovulate this month or have to wait longer. I just had my peak on my CB OPK, this is CD23 (counting from the first day of my MC). For reference, I was 5w6 when I had my MC.

Good luck to all xx

@ChloeN Yep, I've always had it. I didn't know what it was before I started TTC though.

@mummatara Not long to go! That is so faint now :D

Good morning everyone. I hope you’re all doing well?

I am currently 5 weeks +3 and the anxiety is becoming unbearable. Everything seems to be a trigger right now and I can’t escape it. I have such mild symptoms, only sore boobs, but I know that isn’t necessarily a negative thing as I was the same with my DS. But every ache in my stomach, every drop in resting heart rate (I’ve just taken my Fitbit off this morning) and my mind goes in to overdrive. I have an early NHS scan in a week and I don’t know how I’m going to get through it.

@ChloeN I’ve definitely only noticed ovulation pains/uncomfortable feeling since my MMC. Have to say I have never noticed it in all the years before this although majority of those I have been on the pill. So strange.

Anyone else only get EWCM a couple of days before peak? I’m on CD11 and noticeably had it on CD9 but not since and got my static face and peak OPK today so looks like ovulation tomorrow on CD12. This is also the earliest I’ve ever had it as usually CD13 or CD14. Hope that’s not a bad sign for this cycle? 🤔

@emhope ah glad I’m not alone!! I wonder why it takes a mc for it to start happening?

BFN today at 9dpo, so just going to wait for my period now. Hopefully I may get an appt soon to get the results of the blood tests 🤞🏻. Hope to see some bfps in the next week. It’s got to be a lucky month for some 😊
On the note of ovulation pain I only got it after I had my ds, never had anything before.

@mummatara that's looking great now! Pleased it's going down for you.
@RainbowSearching I know how you feel hun, try and keep positive (I say as I had my own meltdown this morning). I've only got very mild symptoms too. Good luck for your scan xxx

@ChloeN I was wondering the same about ovulation pain - I've never had any, but recently ovulated for the first month time since my miscarriage (D&C) it was really noticeable. I also noticed it specifically on the left side, and my EPU scan showed that I'd ovulated from my left ovary when I fell pregnant... Is it normal to ovulate from the same ovary twice in a row? 🤔

Thank you @FfayeN - how far along are you now?

@Rabbitjungle1 I don't know if this makes a difference but when I went for a scan when she checked my left and right ovaries, they both felt to the left, she said they were almost one behind the other. I have only ever felt ovulation pain on the left, so it could just depend on how it's all set up in your body ☺️.

@RainbowSearching I'm 8w2d now. This is about the time my MC happened and my MMC stopped growing so bit of an unsettling time xxx

@FfayeN its all consuming when you know what might be going on in there, right?

My scan is for 6w3d, and my miscarriage and 2 MMC happened around then. I’m not even sure how much hope I’ll get if everything is ok in the scan as it’ll still feel like a ticking timebomb

@RainbowSearching I can totally sympathise with you, it's so worrying. As others have said all we can do is take each day at a time abs just hope we get the answers we want when we do go for our scans. It's just so hard to have a positive head about it. The days where I'm able to forget are the easiest! But they're fewer between now I only have 6 days to wait. xxx

@FfayeN Positive thoughts ❤️

Well lovelies I actually think my body is trying to ovulate you know. Did an opk tonight and looks strong still. My pt is an absolute squinter now so I don't think there's enough hcg to set the test off that strong. I remember doing an opk when I got a positive hcg last time when the line was faint and it didn't show as positive at all. So a positive test with pains I think it's really trying to 🤞🏼 come on body you can do it. I'll see if I get a temp increase in the next few days.

@mummatara yes crossing my fingers for you🤞🏻

@ChloeN thanks lovely 💕 where are you in cycle now? Xx

@mummatara Cd19, keep getting odd cramps but seems a bit early for that! I’m just praying I actually ovulated🤞🏻 xxx