TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

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Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

Well done to you all DTD and heading in to your TWWs, I have everything crossed for you all xx

@ChickenT2b I fell on a cycle where we did it twice in one day, the day after O so it can happen. You just don't know if it was the first or second attempt lol. If it accidentally happens I wouldn't stress 😆. Bless all our DHs it's one extreme to the other, mines now the opposite and gone over 5 weeks without 😬 xx

@ChickenT2b @Bubblesandballoons @bunnykins123 Im due to ovulate tomorrow, so I’ll be following close behind you guys!♥️ Have been seeing bloody loads of rainbows in this mad weather at the moment so hopefully it’s a good sign for this month for us all 💪 xx

@bunnykins123 we do every other day, so this month it fell as o-4 o-2 and ovulation day, altho I had cramps on peak day in the evening, so think I may have ovulated then, so would mean one on ovulation day won’t count. How many attempts have you got in? Did you say you’ve had blood done? If so how long did the results take?
@ChickenT2b I conceived my ds from everyday in the fertile window. My dp is over 40 now, so I think every other day gives me a better chance of good sperm, plus I think I’d die of exhaustion doing it daily now 😂

Just something that is bothering me. I started getting ewcm over a week ago. The past 3 days have been the fertile stuff snd had mild pains on Saturday. Died down yesterday so assumed I’d ovulated but crikey about an hour ago I’ve got the pains that feel like ovulation is happening and is so much more painful! Plus I’m very horny 😳👀dh thinks this is fabulous and can’t believe how much I want him 😂dtd this morning. The last two cycles I didn’t ovulate. Seems my body is going into overdrive this month! Cycle 3 after MMC

@Babydustmamma ooh yay. I hope your right and all the rainbows bring us luck. Would be amazing to see some bfp’s

@Everythingzrosie bet your DH can’t believe his luck🤣🤣

@ChloeN No he can’t 😂 I’m getting the feeling though that the ‘not again surely’ is going to be spoken soon enough 😂

@Everythingzrosie we got a bit like that last month, never thought I’d see the day when he moaned 🤣🤣

Period due in 4 days. Had a positive last month on period due day and the day after, but then had bleeding a couple of days later (period due the Tuesday, bleeding Friday). Sort of v early miscarriage/ chemical territory. Had a miscarriage at 12 weeks in the summer. Have everything crossed for this month, where we hit the fertile window quite successfully. But also a bit nervous. Not quite brave enough to test yet.

@Babydustmamma fingers crossed! We've had a lot of bfps on this group recently which is lovely!

@Bubblesandballoons exactly the same as you! I had o-6, o-4, o-2 and o which I assume was last night as I had all the usual cramping over night so last nights was probably too late. Oh I've had the works tested. I'm just waiting to get DH tested but couldn't this week as I obvs needed his spermies 😂 let me know if you specifically want to know what I've had tested though, happy to explain. The one thing that's come back as abnormal for me is high NK cells which I'm now on meds for.

@Everythingzrosie dependant on when I'm due to O, I get pains for up to a week too. I only got this since having DD. I find the longer my cycle, the more crampy I am. When I O, I get backache and hip ache the side I'm O from so it kinda builds up to that. Then completely disappears. I've had all the tests done apart from testing for endo - all normal. I think age and previous children is a factor in it. Have you had any scans done?

@ChloeN @Everythingzrosie DH is defo at that stage now, bless him!

@EsmeSusanOgg im so sorry to hear about your loss. Good luck with whatever decision you decide to take. This ttc business is stressful especially after you've experienced a loss 💕

@bunnykins123 yes I think the more children you gave, the more obvious it becomes. I’ve had 5 children and I’m very aware of my body now. So today is 2ww day 1 because yesterday was intense pains and today I have the ache x

Hello all just checking in. CD 23 now and just started to get ewcm today. Even though we are not TTC this cycle I still want to keep an eye on ovulation. So I am using OPKs and my ovusense (when I remember!). It will be very weird to DTD using protection next time we do it, I’d rather just not bother doing it at all 😂

Hope everyone is ok! Lots of new names I haven’t chatted to much whilst I’ve been having a break. Where is everyone at in their cycle?

Hi all, I’ve been lurking in the background from the last thread. I’ve no idea what my actual cd is, I had spotting for a few days before af like bleeding during Mc. If I go by first day of red spotting in pregnancy I’d be cd32 if I went by when the bleeding got to like af I’d be Cd26. I’ve had EWCM last 2 days and half EWCM and creamy cm today. I’m not tracking with OPKs but found a wee lonely strip in my draw from 2020 when I was tracking with ds, it was faint so not sure where that leaves me during the fertile window. I’ve had an ache on my side and hip for 3 days now. I’m not holding my breathe this cycle, I’ve been ill ever since mc just colds and coughs my immune system must be low.

hope everyone is ok!

Hi, I haven't posted in a while but I will be ttc this month after taking a month off when I was on holiday without my SO for two weeks. This will be our 5th month of trying since the loss. The baby we lost was supposed to be due today, I've been upset about it for the past two weeks. I can't stop thinking about what could have been.

@Everythingzrosie sounds like we are cycle buddies! I had the pain last night too so think I've O'd. Oh god, here we go into the TWW 😂

@LuckyMoonstone hi lovely 👋 im still here! Yeh I think tracking your cycle is a good call, just to get an idea of what day you O etc. I'm either on O day or 1dpo (I suspect the latter). Threw the kitchen sink at it this month but will probably be unsuccessful 🙄 how are you doing?

@Cheetocat im so sorry to hear that today is your due dates. Those dates are hard 😢 it's totally natural to feel sadness at that time. I still feel sadness at my 1st mmc due date 4 years ago, I think it always stays with you in some way. Big hugs from me 💕

@Luna57 welcome back lovely! Glad you're doing ok. I get a mixture of EWCM and EWCM which is a bit cloudy and I never really know what's my most fertile cm. I get O pains in the build up to O and it peaks on O day, so I always have an idea of when it's about to happen. Ah me too, worst virus type thing I've had in a long time, so I suspect that's nuked my eggs as I had 5 days of fever!

@bunnykins123 oh good luck!! We can go crazy together 😜I’m already panicking!

@LuckyMoonstone I've just started the TWW too (sigh)

@bunnykins123 Thank you, I didn't expect to feel this down since I already did a lot of grieving and healing. Hope your tww flies by!

@bunnykins123 thank you for the welcome back. I’m the same I had lots of slightly cloudy EWCM yesterday and the day before and today not as much. I’ve actually tender boobs today which I’ve never noticed during ovulation before. I never write anything down during cycles cos I’ve only ever tried for 2 cycles to get pregnant. The first being my ds which I tracked everything- how I felt, OPKs etc and the last time I was pregnant I tracked it lightly but sure I wasn’t even ovulating til a week after when I thought I was 😂 when I looked back on premom from dec 2020 I had tender boobs over ovulation and 2 days of EWCM before I ovulated so maybe today is O day who knows 😂

we must be all syncing up TWW’s here ladies 😂

@Luna57 🙌

@Luna57 I don't even want to think we will meet in an NI hospital because of the jinx factor. Better to think it'll never happen this cycle for me 🙄

@MrsCristianoX ooh are you allowed to TTC again now? Wasn’t sure how long you had to wait.

@bunnykins123 I’m alright thank you :) looking forward to TTC in December and enjoy exams at the same time haha. I hope all your hard work pays off this month 😆

@MrsCristianoX oh I’m definitely out, I can barely dtd without coughing a lung up… very seductive 😂

@Luna57 are you ok? Is it covid?

@LuckyMoonstone the tablets made me v sick. Was on them for 5 weeks. 🤞 for blood test 😂

@MrsCristianoX just one of those viral coughs courtesy of a snotty toddler. Hopefully be gone soon 🤞🏼 When are your blood tests to see how the meds worked?