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SMEP-ing our way to a BFP πŸπŸ‚πŸΏοΈπŸ‚πŸ

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Aurora81 · 09/09/2022 15:31

Our SMEP plans continue.... The old thread is almost full, so I started a new thread so we can continue on SMEP-ing to a BFP ✨☺️✨

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LucyFraser1981 · 11/10/2022 16:49

@allgoodthings84 sounds like they've been really thorough with your blood tests, that's brilliant!

Sorry the spotting has started, but you're not out until AF shows πŸ€

allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 17:40

um ladies am I imagining these super faint lines? They are from the same wee. I took the top one first and saw a very very light shadow so got another test as they are mega cheapies. They had colour. I’ve done loads of these after my period has come other cycles just to see if I ever get an evap (never gave always stark white).

I’m concerned they are so faint considering I’m 12dpo but I did only take them at 5pm after only a 2 hour hold. I only took them as I’m not used to spotting not starting until 12dpo

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allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 17:50

So of course I’m now scared that they are so faint as I’ve started to spot so going to be a chemical πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ this is why I never take tests before AF due as I know what I’m like I’ll worry and obsess now

allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 17:52

@LucyFraser1981 they were so thorough. Tested way more than I imagined.

NSx · 11/10/2022 19:15

@allgoodthings84 ooohhhh I can see it β˜ΊοΈπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•
can u maybe get a frer as they are more sensitive than this. The spotting doesn’t mean anything 🀞🀍

NSx · 11/10/2022 19:16

@allgoodthings84 ps - I’ve never even had a hint of a line on those kinds of test always stark white like you said 🀞🀞🀞

allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 19:29

@NSx I can’t get frer until weekend as I use my brothers Amazon prime so can’t order from there πŸ˜‚ and will have my daughter straight after work all week and she’s very quick to notice things so will notice me buying a pregnancy test. Her auntie (her dads sister) had a baby last year so she’s clued up on the word pregnancy etc and can read pretty much anything πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ. I have got a boots own one in my drawer which I’ll use in morning (it’s what I used for my daughters bfp but I was nearly 7 weeks so I’m not expecting it to be as blazing as that was πŸ˜‚). I think these cheapies are meant to be for when AF due FMU (which is usually 14dpo) so I’m hoping they are just faint because I’m only 12dpo and it was late in the day with only a 2 hour (max) hold and not faint as I’m going to have a CP

NSx · 11/10/2022 19:35

@allgoodthings84 stop saying that it might not be a chemical I have faith!!! We’re due some BFP in here and ur on cycle 5 why wouldn’t u get your BFP … you’ve done your time. Let’s hope it’s good news in the morning & we can potentially all get our BFPs this month 😁🀍🀞🀞🀞

fsr111 · 11/10/2022 19:38

Ooh @allgoodthings84, I can definitely see something too. Will be keeping everything crossed for you - fingers, toes, eyes, arms, you
name it ( not legs though as it is fertile week 😜). Will you try with another cheapie tomorrow? In the absence of the FRER? @pomdownunder1, my mind was blown by the advice of keeping your uterus and feet warm after ovulation. Will be wrapping up very warm at the weekend! Haha!

allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 19:41

thank you @NSx I need telling πŸ˜‚ I just want a darker line as I keep thinking it’s an evap but I don’t think it is as it’s as thick as the control line and had colour.

funny story. I’m the person who when I got a blazing positive with my daughter I went to the doctors and insisted I do one of their tests for her to confirm! She must have thought I was nuts πŸ˜‚ she told me that her tests are the same as the ones you buy so if it was positive then I’m pregnant and then just dipped it and said immediately yes you’re pregnant congratulations and good luck. I felt a right idiot πŸ˜‚ to be fair I was in shock as wasn’t ttc but yea still the test line was darker than the control line.

yep I’m the biggest overthinker

allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 19:43

@fsr111 I have a boots one I’ll give a go in morning and hope it’s more obvious.

I hope all of us get our bfp this cycle and mine is just the first of many πŸ’• we all deserve it πŸ₯°

allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 19:47

And @fsr111 definitely do not keep your legs crossed! πŸ˜‚

I did have one massive symptom. One day I kept have sharp stitch like pains that started at the from the front and would shoot right to the back which when in the back felt a bit like sciatica. I then put it out of my head as I don’t take any proper notice as been let down by β€œsymptoms” so many times. I can’t even remember what day it was. Apart from that I’ve felt exactly the same as every cycle

fsr111 · 11/10/2022 19:56

I'm feeling positive for you @allgoodthings84! Keep us posted! ✨

NSx · 11/10/2022 20:04

@allgoodthings84 i am also feeling positive for you 🀞it all sounds so promising 🀍 will look forward to seeing your test in the morning - I have a good feeling 🌸 what days did u DTD

@fsr111 hopefully were not far behind!

Im supposed to ovulate tomorrow 🀞

allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 20:17

@NSx @fsr111 thank you ladies. I’m honestly terrified to test tomorrow.

@NSx we dtd 4 days before ovulation, 2 days before, day before and day of ovulation. Then 4dpo but that was just for fun

allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 20:19

I want to see all of us getting bfp. It would make me so happy to all be in this together

NSx · 11/10/2022 20:26

@allgoodthings84 🀞 it would be lovely β€” I’m not even in my 2WW πŸ˜‚πŸ˜… going to be a long 2 weeks πŸ˜… …

can’t wait to see your test - don’t be terrified 🀍

Iwillstayhopeful · 11/10/2022 20:38

This thread is making me feel hopeful! Currently on cd 12 of smep. Still waiting for LH surge, but don't think it will be until CD14. Also, the last two days, I've had bloody discharge. Sorry, TMI! I came off my period last Monday so I don't think it's from that. I recently started taking proceive supplements and I wonder if it's linked to that? I also get a bad headache everytime I take them. Praying it hasn't messed up my ovulation Xx

NSx · 11/10/2022 20:48

@Iwillstayhopeful hi ❣️
I haven’t taken proceive myself to be honest but I take Pregnacare and it’s fine, im sure it will be similar β€” I have a 29 day cycle so I usually get a peak around cd14, sounds like you’re the same.
try not to panic 🀍

pomdownunder1 · 11/10/2022 21:00

@allgoodthings84 I have everything crossed for you!! Hopefully you can get some sleep and won't be long until you test in the morning 🀞🏻

I finally got my positive opk on cd19 😳 so been a busy few days. Don't think we'll be dtd again from cd8, too long for me 🀣

LucyFraser1981 · 11/10/2022 21:33

@allgoodthings84 ohhhhhh I can see that line!! Keeping everything crossed for you πŸ€žπŸ€ if you want me to amazon prime you a FRER for tomorrow just shout, if I do it in the next hour it should get to you tomorrow xx

allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 22:48

I think I’m going to wait and test Thursday morning after AF is due as I really feel like AF is coming. If AF doesn’t come tomorrow I’ll feel a lot better about things.

@LucyFraser1981 thank you so much for the offer that’s really kind of you but think I’m going to hang on as it’s so faint I’m not feeling good about it and I’m feeling like AF is about to arrive

god luck to all of you ladies fingers crossed for lots of bfp

allgoodthings84 · 11/10/2022 22:49

*good luck

LucyFraser1981 · 12/10/2022 06:28

@allgoodthings84 ok, that's alright, just do what you thinks best. I will say that when I was pregnant with my son I was convinced AF was coming as I had what I thought were the beginnings of period cramps, it's only when I happened to glance down at the bathroom bin and saw that my IC pregnancy test from a few hours earlier had a faint line on it (I swear it had been blank) that I got my hopes up, got dressed and drove to the 24 hour tesco (it was after 10pm), came home and got a faint line on a FRER. So I'm going to keep my fingers crossed for you πŸ€žπŸ€

allgoodthings84 · 12/10/2022 06:59

@LucyFraser1981 i really hope I am pregnant I’m just so scared to get my hopes up too much and then see a bfn but if AF doesn’t come today then I will test in the morning. My spotting had stopped when I went to the toilet before tea last night but I know (like yesterday morning) it can start again at any point. If AF isn’t here by bedtime tonight I’ll be feeling a lot more optimistic as it always starts 14 days after the positive opk and I don’t think I could have ovulated later than expected or my 6dpo progesterone test would have been lower than 51.5 surely

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