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Hoping for BFP September/October

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mamazac · 02/09/2022 19:12

Follow on thread from the previous one, will take as many as I can remember!

@Baby3herewego
@BellaTheDarkOverlord
@EdinburghGirl1
@Missgemini
@kizzy97
@Missgemini
@My2boysaremyworld

Fingers crossed for more BFP's!

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wellhelloitsme · 30/09/2022 21:23

Thanks @My2boysaremyworld

I think we might try SMEP this month if AF doesn't arrive yet again.

My2boysaremyworld · 30/09/2022 21:29

@wellhelloitsme 🤞🏻xx

DiscipleMama · 30/09/2022 22:51

@wellhelloitsme don't be sorry. Sometimes we need to express it SOMEwhere...it's a tough road for so many. Biggest hugs

Daisy155 · 30/09/2022 23:20

@wellhelloitsme it’s good to rant and like everyone said it’s not easy, but a problem shared is a problem halted. I have prolactinoma, under active thyroid, fibroids, what looks like PCOS, going for my testosterone blood tests tomorrow morning I really hope I don’t have this I have had enough of medication each day. First pregnancy was easy to conceive, second pregnancy took a long time and only found out I was pregnant at my first IVF appointment last year. Our beautiful baby is not with us anymore unfortunately, so we are back to square one only sharing this so you know you are not alone! It’s not easy at all and such a hard journey that these movies made some of us think it was so easy to get pregnant and have a baby.

@kizzy97 so sorry AF has turned up again this month. Fingers crossed next cycle is yours and @My2boysaremyworld I really hope AF doesn’t turn up for you fingers crossed for you as well. I hope the cramps stop too for you!

My AF is due on Sunday and I am hoping it’s not coming feeling nervous because I am craving all the wrong foods, I am feeling really hot, acne, bloated and irritated!

wellhelloitsme · 30/09/2022 23:21

Thank you all for being so understanding and letting me have a moan. I wish nobody had to go through it but people being in the same shoes, or having been in them in the past, makes me feel less bad for how difficult I'm finding it emotionally Flowers

DiscipleMama · 01/10/2022 00:34

@Daisy155 so sorry to hear of your loss.

To all those whose conception journey is hard, I hope this comes out right, but when it feels like so many around you have it so easy in this part of their lives, though it may not make you feel better about your own challenges, I think -as with any challenges we face - it is helpful to remember that so many people have a variety of unseen/invisible challenges that they wish others understood. I've felt that more keenly this year when I very suddenly ended up with a neurological condition. Finding the silver linings in our challenges wherever possible - or in other things in our lives while we face challenges - and trying to find time to be thankful can be so helpful. I know it sounds cliched (and if you're just needing to cry/vent at this point in time, that's what you gotta do, don't get me wrong!) ...but it's true.
Much love

wellhelloitsme · 01/10/2022 00:42

@Daisy155

I cannot imagine how painful your journey has been, I am so very sorry for your loss Flowers

kizzy97 · 01/10/2022 06:01

Thank you everyone, I appreciate the love and support we give each other and it helps to know we all have this thread ❤

Had my mope yesterday and had a takeaway for tea, at work this weekend and then hopefully Tuesday I'll have come oft/starting to come off and I can get straight back into it again

@wellhelloitsme I know exactly what you mean with the panic, I had it yesterday and it hits me at random especially when I see my friends announcing pregnancies. Hopefully this'll be our month 🤞

@Daisy155 I'm so very sorry for your loss. Bigs hugs to you ❤

My2boysaremyworld · 01/10/2022 08:25

@Daisy155 sorry to hear your sad news xx

My2boysaremyworld · 01/10/2022 08:27

Still no AF yet. Iv got work today until 2 then if nothing by then might test when I get home before we go out to OHs parents house xx

DiscipleMama · 01/10/2022 10:34

So, does anyone get tender and fuller breasts 4-8 days before a period? Trying to be realisitic here. I am not 'well-endowed' but noticing not only the ache but feeling fuller esp around the sides. I knew that progesterone after ovulation could cause tenderness generally, but it seems to have upped the ante in past couple of days and the feeling of relative fullness (esp in those places) reminds me a lot of pregnancy breast growth. I'm due AF between 4th and 8th of this month.

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 01/10/2022 11:35

@My2boysaremyworld AF not arrived yesterday for me either. Expecting it any day. This happened last month. I wonder if my cycles have lengthened.

PatientlyImpatient · 01/10/2022 11:42

Hi all,
A newbie to the forum. Waiting to see if AF turns up this weekend and reading all of your posts gives me hope and makes me feel not quite so alone on this annoying as heck journey. Have been TTC for over a year now. Had a CP last October and a BFN every month since. Wishing a BFP to all of you who are waiting and so sorry for everyone who’s been visited by AF again this month x

kizzy97 · 01/10/2022 12:26

@My2boysaremyworld everything crossed for you xx

wellhelloitsme · 01/10/2022 12:40

Hi @PatientlyImpatient around the same length of time here so know how tough it is. Got everything crossed for you that it happens soon Flowers

Daisy155 · 01/10/2022 13:43

Aww thank you all so much for your kind words you have no idea means a lot thank you! And fingers crossed for us all we got this!

@My2boysaremyworld Really glad AF still hasn’t arrived for you and @BellaTheDarkOverlord fingers and toes crossed for you both!

@PatientlyImpatient welcome as well AF is due for a few of us this weekend sorry to hear of the CP wishing you all the best in this journey xx

mamazac · 01/10/2022 13:44

@BellaTheDarkOverlord @My2boysaremyworld are either of you going to test?

Have everything crossed for both of you. Would make me so happy to see you both get BFP's x

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BellaTheDarkOverlord · 01/10/2022 13:47

So I need help. So yeh me and DH decided this month fuck it we aren't having another. We'll get a bloody dog instead since then I don't have to TTC anymore and I don't need to cry when I get AF. I'm due yesterday and thought you know what let's have a laugh and take a test now and make sure. It's a bloody faint line 😅

Hoping for BFP September/October
Daisy155 · 01/10/2022 13:51

@BellaTheDarkOverlord oh my goodness!! This is wonderful 🥰 I can see the faint line 😃 congratulations!!

wellhelloitsme · 01/10/2022 14:01

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 01/10/2022 13:47

So I need help. So yeh me and DH decided this month fuck it we aren't having another. We'll get a bloody dog instead since then I don't have to TTC anymore and I don't need to cry when I get AF. I'm due yesterday and thought you know what let's have a laugh and take a test now and make sure. It's a bloody faint line 😅

Oh wow! Congrats, that's a clean line!

mamazac · 01/10/2022 14:04

@BellaTheDarkOverlord omg I'm so happy for you!!! This has made my day!

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PatientlyImpatient · 01/10/2022 14:14

Thanks all for the kind welcome and wishes

@BellaTheDarkOverlord that definitely looks like a line! Congratulations! I’ve said to my husband if I find out I can’t have children I’m getting a cat!

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 01/10/2022 14:14

Thanks all x it's a bit unreal right now. No symptoms at all. We only DTD around CD10 and CD17 so no clue how it happened as I ovulate about CD14 usually. I'm shaking as I've geared the family up to get a dog instead 😂Dh going to be disappointed about the dog haha. I've had no symptoms at all, no pains.

mamazac · 01/10/2022 14:15

@BellaTheDarkOverlord honestly so so so happy for you

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BellaTheDarkOverlord · 01/10/2022 14:16

@PatientlyImpatient Haha x get a cat anyway. I've got 4! I love my babies 💞

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