TTC after Miscarriage Thread 8

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Just starting this as last thread nearly full💕🌈

@LuckyMoonstone it definitely looks like your temps have been stabilising over the past few days which is promising.

11 dpo today and I'm now just feeling so fed up and negative about this wait. I am doing my very best to ignore symptom spotting, but we had a long travel day yesterday and my mind was spiralling. My boobs have been heavy the last few days, but are now starting to become painful, which is a classic pre AF symptom for me. Ugh!

So many of you in the TWW 🤞🏻

@MrsCristiano I know what you mean 😂 sometimes I say to DH don’t worry about me on this one you just enjoy yourself 😅

@theblueflowers yes I’m glad to see them calming down a bit haha. Oooh 11dpo is such an awkward time, because you know it’s not too early to test but a negative could still be wrong

@theblueflowers I'm 11dpo too. Nothing unusual to report here either other than the normal sore boobies. Even the usual increase in CM at this point isn't here 😭 I think it's safe to say, this was an unsuccessful month for me! What day is AF due for you?

@MrsCristiano 'just want the goods'
😂😂😂 but seriously - 45 minutes?! At what point throughout that did you start planning your weekly shop?!

@LuckyMoonstone a lot of GPs actually advise against opks for this reason. I think they can add to the stress and not be that accurate for some people. When I conceived DD I never got a peak (I gave up testing!)

@bunnykins123 maybe lack of symptoms is a good thing for you?! I had a load of CM yesterday. I can't remember if I normally get it or not. I never record my symptoms in the TWW because I tell myself I won't get obsessed over it; sore boobs is the only one I remember!

I think I am due either Monday or Tuesday. I missed two days of temping, so not 100% sure of my ovulation date. How about you?

@LuckyMoonstone I think that's what it is! I can no longer be in my little naive bubble.

@bunnykins123 the weekly shop 🤣🤣🤣. Stitches!!!! @MrsCristiano with her though I think I'd have given up on that one!!

@LuckyMoonstone it could be you're missing it. I walk around with OPKs and a little pot when I'm testing to make sure they're frequent, if you're inconsistent maybe just leave those and rely on your CM and temps ☺️.

@Astar21 yep! Will start testing day 7/8, what feels about another year and half to wait.....🤣

@FfayeN I did give up. 'The cup' was mentioned shortly after😂 OPK is low tonight..yay!! TWW begins although unlikely I've conceived..

@LuckyMoonstone So annoying not getting an actual reading 😕

My opks have basically been exactly the same for 6 days 😐 including the one I just did

@LuckyMoonstone so frustrating 😞 even more than 45 minute sex 😩 is anyone tech savy enough to make a new thread? We are about to max out..I need this space!!

@MrsCristiano I won’t volunteer to do it I’ll end up doing it wrong 🤣 but yes new thread please!

i don’t understand why my opks aren’t rising at all! I can understand missing a peak but I’m not getting anything above 0.14-0.17 at any time of day! Yet tonnes of ewcm and all the usual stuff

@LuckyMoonstone which ones are you using again? Sorry if it's been mentioned before everyone is so chatty and my phone jumps around

@MrsCristiano they’re called One Step, I’m sure I’ve used them before

@LuckyMoonstone oh i never got any kind of a line on those ones. Like Amazon cheapies? Mine are easy@home also Amazon actually 😅 but much clearer

Just got home from holiday and have done a test and got the not pregnant words flashing back.

@MrsCristiano yeah just cheapies off Amazon. I have definitely used them before but I don’t remember how good they were, I think I was using them when I wasnt testing very regularly. Then the last couple of months I used Femometer and they worked fine. And now I’m back to One Step. Maybe they are just shit lol

@LuckyMoonstone I use them too but mine got from 0-100 in the space of a few hours! I used to use the Boots own brand which gave more progression but they were £4.99 for 5 so sacked them off!

@bunnykins123 a pound a test!! That’s absurd

@HoneyPea oh no 😔 have you had any more bleeding? Could it still be too early for a digital to pick it up?

@HoneyPea 😢😢

@LuckyMoonstone yea I blame the tools if you are DTD you are good 💕

@HoneyPea I'm so sorry lovely 😥

I've created a new thread ladies - thread 9!

Thanks @bunnykins123 :)