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TTC after Miscarriage Thread 8

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mummyofrb · 09/06/2022 13:45

Just starting this as last thread nearly full💕🌈

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FfayeN · 28/07/2022 21:41

@MrsCristiano Make him stop 🤣. Now is not the time for a romantic bath for one 😂.
@mummatara I've just left the nook but hubby is away so straight from there to bed for me!
Give me two weeks though ladies I'll be calling on you for encouragement too! X

mummatara · 28/07/2022 21:53

Lol @FfayeN you got it we will be there sending you on your way for more bone jumping 😂

Good luck @MrsCristiano 💪🏼

bunnykins123 · 28/07/2022 22:32

@MrsCristiano put on some frilly panties and go do a little dance for him whilst he's sat in the bath. Better yet, suggest you both hop into the shower. That show speed things along nicely... 🫠

@FfayeN here here 🥂 bish, bash, bosh - job done 🙃

@mummatara are you not in bed already?! Extra points for dtd outside of the bedroom! I'm snoring with my grannie knickers back seconds after the deed is done.

Astar21 · 28/07/2022 23:37

Just checked back in after being out for the evening, hilarious reading your comments ladies 🤣 good job we can laugh! If the men saw what we talked about 😳😆
Contemplating wether we should be having one last morning quickie tomorrow or not 🤔😩
@MrsCristiano hope your evening was a success!!

FfayeN · 29/07/2022 08:17

@Astar21 I would go for one today as soon as if you can and then you've covered all bases! Tomorrow morning may be pushing it if you O yesterday. Did you DTD yesterday? Xx

LuckyMoonstone · 29/07/2022 09:19

Well I forgot to test again last night because I fell asleep watching telly, then went to the loo half asleep and forgot about it! But this mornings is barely there. But again I’ve got loads of ewcm and everything else that goes with it! And even if I peaked last night I don’t normally go right back to 0 the next morning

Astar21 · 29/07/2022 09:31

@FfayeN yep managed it first thing this morning 😂🙌🏼 Classing yesterday (CD20) as Ovulation day. And DTD CD14, 16, 17, 19, 20 and 21. So should be covered with that 😂 Where are you in your cycle now?

FfayeN · 29/07/2022 09:38

@LuckyMoonstone have you thought about an ovusense or similar to help you? I'm sorry it's confusing for you at the moment 😔.
@Astar21 well done! You must be exhausted 🤣. Day 5...I'm sure the days are going backwards!! My OH is away so can only DTD 13,14 then 18 onwards, with the last couple of O days 17/18 I'm not hopeful this month but will give it our best shot x

LuckyMoonstone · 29/07/2022 09:48

@FfayeN yeah I use one! It hasn’t confirmed anything yet. Right now my temps kind of look like they did last cycle at ovulation, but it would be weird to ovulate without an LH surge, so I’m not convinced it’s happening

FfayeN · 29/07/2022 09:52

@LuckyMoonstone sorry I must have missed that in the previous posts. Hopefully your upcoming tests will give some answers for your irregular cycles. One of my friends did fall pregnant without realising she'd ovulated as no rise in the OPK but she wasn't temping. Hopefully your body is gearing up and it'll come soon 🤞🏼 xx

Astar21 · 29/07/2022 09:59

@FfayeN ready for a decent nights sleep without having to worry about DTD timing 😂 Got a busy weekend ahead so should take my mind off it a bit now. Fingers crossed you can still catch it during those days 🤞🏼 My DH was working away last cycle so we couldn't even try, it's a nightmare with timing it! Will you do opks?

Indianna2006 · 29/07/2022 11:40

I can’t keep up with all this DTD. I’m exhausted just reading these comments and I’m only CD9..so only entering fertile period.

we’ve had sex 3 times in 2 days so I’m gonna avoid now until CD11 lol. Gives me 2 days rest. Ovulation will be CD13 I expect.

@MrsCristiano whyyy does alcohol alwyas make it 1000 times longer 🙈🙈 sometimes you just want to job done!! Fingers crossed you managed it haha.

lots of you starting the tww by the sounds of it.

@LuckyMoonstone could you maybe post your chart of temps? Bloody opks. Does get confusing!

mummatara · 29/07/2022 11:45

Morning ladies I hope all last nights antics were successful baby making ones 🤞🏼 I jokingly said to DH when we went to bed last night what would you do if I tried to BD with you tonight he said I reckon I could just about manage 😂 bless him such a trooper 🙊 I was kind and told him to reserve his energy we didn't need to I just wanted to see his face 🤣

mummatara · 29/07/2022 11:47

@Indianna2006 yes I would wait it out too I forgot how exhausting it is 🙈

Astar21 · 29/07/2022 12:20

@mummatara 🤣 I think if I told DH I was still in my fertile window he'd be more than happy to keep powering through 😆 Going to stay at the in-laws this weekend so it's a good job we're not 🤣

MrsCristiano · 29/07/2022 12:27

@Indianna2006 oh my god it's the absolute worst. We didn't I just didn't have the energy to cope with it last night. I could have swayed him but I didn't 😢 will do another OPK tonight and see but I'm sure o is over now 😩

mummatara · 29/07/2022 12:30

@Astar21 🤣 haha yea not the place to be BD'ing 😳😂 well my diets gone out the window today I've just eaten a share bag of malteasers 🙈 good old hormones making me hungry

Astar21 · 29/07/2022 13:31

@mummatara definitely not 🤣 And I already feel like I'm going to be questioned about me not drinking whilst we're there for the weekend 😬 Oh why not, you deserve a treat after the stress of fertile week 😋😂

LuckyMoonstone · 29/07/2022 13:40

@mummatara haha aww bless him. Well we DTD Wednesday so due for another one tonight 😂 gonna have to go for it as we are too busy tomorrow and Sunday!

LuckyMoonstone · 29/07/2022 13:41

Here’s my cart. The temps yesterday and today are exactly the same as the day of and day after ovulation last month. And loads of ewcm to go with it. But no positive OPK! So I’m like, has it happened or not??

TTC after Miscarriage Thread 8
bunnykins123 · 29/07/2022 13:50

@MrsCristiano we were the exact same this month too. Did loads in the build up but then the sodding 40c day hit on technically my 'last day' and just had to allow it. There was no chance he would agree to bding in that heat!

bunnykins123 · 29/07/2022 13:51

@Indianna2006 is it awful but I don't let dh drink until after the deed?! I'm all for a quickie!

Indianna2006 · 29/07/2022 13:59

@LuckyMoonstone hmm yes it’s so hard to tell. I’d say looks like you haven’t but your temps are low and consistent so I think it’s perhaps very soon with your EWCM. Keep taking OPKs. I reckon next couple of days.
have you ever had cycles before where you don’t get positive opks?

@MrsCristiano aww man! Your still in with a good chance hun 🤞🏼

LuckyMoonstone · 29/07/2022 14:17

@Indianna2006 I have yes but I think that’s just because I’ve got fed up of testing and then must have ovd after I stopped. So when I got pregnant last time I think I got like a low-medium OPK and then just forgot about them/couldn’t be bothered, and I must’ve ovd around that time without noticing

MrsCristiano · 29/07/2022 15:35

@Indianna2006 @bunnykins123 once it lasted 45 mins and he was still going..it's usually a 3 minute job including the foreplay sans alcohol 😂 much preferable when ttc and you just want the goods (sorry ladies tmi😅)

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