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TTC after Miscarriage Thread 8

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mummyofrb · 09/06/2022 13:45

Just starting this as last thread nearly full💕🌈

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mummatara · 21/07/2022 23:11

😂😂😂 hilarious ladies

LuckyMoonstone · 22/07/2022 09:08

@bunnykins123 yep I’ve used the preseed applicator before 😂

MrsCristiano · 22/07/2022 12:11

@LuckyMoonstone and I hesitate to ask 'the cup' ?! If so tell me your secrets of how to get DH to agree 🤣

I've finally got my taste back after a harrowing day yesterday. Things are on the up! Also I'll be wearing masks like a hypochondriac for a while. I just don't understand I had omicron in February and obviously again as it's the leading strain. Do vaccines only work for 3 months?? Where was my natural immunity?🤬

LuckyMoonstone · 22/07/2022 13:54

@MrsCristiano yes! And I thought he’d be horrified at the idea but I think he agrees with me that it takes the pressure off. We can DTD a few times in my fertile window without getting to the point where it just feels tiring and like it’s just a means to an end. And then ‘top up’ a couple of times throughout as well. So there’s no secret I’m afraid, I just pointed out the logistics and he agreed 😅

MrsCristiano · 22/07/2022 14:16

@LuckyMoonstone perfect sense to me! I said to him again and he's all like 'babe I only get turned on by you'
Absolute rubbish!!

Do you watch love island because in my head I felt like Davide..you are a liiarr,..😂

LuckyMoonstone · 22/07/2022 14:34

@MrsCristiano oh as much as we’d all like to believe that, it’s just not true is it 😂 bless him

Mabelledox · 22/07/2022 18:40

Can anyone else advise whether they'v gone from getting the low fertility sign on clear blue digital opks straight to peak fertility the next day? I haven't got flashing smileys for this month or last 🤷🏻‍♀️

Astar21 · 22/07/2022 20:31

@Mabelledox it hasn't happened to me personally, but I've heard it can happen if you have a quick LH surge! I had a big amount of EWCM yesterday, but 2 days of low fertility on CB, so not sure what's going on there! I hope it's more than just a blank circle tomorrow 😆

bunnykins123 · 22/07/2022 20:32

@Mabelledox is it the purple or pink tipped ones? With purple you're supposed to get flashies but I do know ladies where it skipped straight to peak. For me, it's varied - sometimes days and days of flashies and other just one. I've never had it go straight to peak though which perhaps could be because you're testing too late?

LuckyMoonstone · 23/07/2022 13:49

Opks was 0.17 this morning and 0.24 this afternoon so it’s slowly going in the right direction 😅

theblueflowers · 23/07/2022 15:53

@LuckyMoonstone on the way up!

My ovusense has confirmed my ovulation, and I am now 4dpo. This means that my period is due the day we fly home, ugh.

Is anyone else in the TWW?

Mabelledox · 23/07/2022 15:55

@Astar21 I find the blank circle so disappointing even when I'm expecting it 😆 maybe yours will go straight to peak as well! Do you know when you might be due to ovulate?

Mabelledox · 23/07/2022 15:56

@theblueflowers I am a couple of days behind you but will be in the TWW either tomorrow or Monday! Hoping I won't find it too stressful! Fingers crossed for you!

MrsCristiano · 23/07/2022 16:37

@theblueflowers not even in fertile week yet..

@LuckyMoonstone good signs hope you reach your peak soon 😊

Astar21 · 23/07/2022 20:09

@Mabelledox me too 😩 and another blank circle this morning! But had more ewcm today too, so must be heading in the right direction. I normally ovulate between CD16-19 and I'm CD15 today

pangolin84 · 23/07/2022 21:01

Hi everyone. CD16 here and OPKs aren’t budging. The CB digital failed this morning and I’d chucked the pee so just going by the easy@home strips. Have had some promising CM for the past few days so hoping it’ll happen soon. DH is very tired at the moment so not very keen on DTD.
This is only cycle two since the MMC so think my hormones might still be a bit wacky. Going to get my thyroid checked out anyway. On we plod.
Hope you’re all having a good weekend!

curliegirlie · 23/07/2022 21:23

Good luck @pangolin84 @LuckyMoonstone and everyone else waiting to ovulate - I think it's almost more frustrating than waiting for the end of the TWW....

I think given last cycle, this time I'll be testing multiple times of the day from CD9. Last cycle I think I missed the positive OPK because I only tested once on CD11 and it's only luck we had any chance at all...

mummatara · 23/07/2022 21:29

Hope everyone is doing ok? @pangolin84 I'm the same CD13 and 6 days of flashing smileys 🙄 thought I was in for a short cycle but obv not my strip opks don't look like anything promising is going to happen soon either. We've been DTD every other day I'm worried by the time it actually happens they'll be no petrol left in the tank 😂 never mind he isn't complaining 😂

@MrsCristiano how's your covid symptoms? Feeling ok?

MrsCristiano · 23/07/2022 22:37

@mummatara hey chic thanks for asking, back to work today just feeling a little tired and nauseous now ❤️
(So much so I did an IC which was obviously negative 🙄)

CD7 for me and I'm not sure about doing OPKs yet. Strangely feeling a little anxious about pregnancy again😞 so might just let this month play out naturally. Or might totally change my mind tomorrow.

As long as DH isn't complaining all is good!! Hope you get your static soon! And everyone else waiting for the O xx

Indianna2006 · 24/07/2022 08:15

@theblueflowers good luck in tww.

CD4 and still in slump of AF. Finding it harder to pick myself back up. Think it’s always the way isn’t it…just feel so sad how much time is passing by after a year of ttc.

gonna have a little break from Mumsnet as I think somehow it doesn’t help to try distract me 🙈🙈 think I need to take a step back and try focus on other things this month.

wishing you ladies lot of luck

mummatara · 24/07/2022 08:24

Good luck @Indianna2006 hope you feel better soon sometimes a little break is all you need to pick yourself back up 💕 you know where we are if you need us!

@MrsCristiano glad you're feeling better enough for work. Ahhhh I think it's only natural to feel anxious esp as everything has been so dragged out for you and hopefully it's all back on track after your big bleed 🤞🏼 haha they never complain do they 😂

Astar21 · 24/07/2022 10:02

@Indianna2006 take care 💕 will do your mind good to have a bit of time out. It's too easy to get consumed by it all. I find keeping busy helps and focusing on the good things in life x

Another blank circle for me this morning 😩 never had it like this before. Normally jumps to highs quickly! Oh well going to keep DTD for now and hope for the best 😆

HoneyPea · 24/07/2022 10:07

After getting my positive on Weds i started bleeding last night. It's still fairy light. How long did it take everyone to become heavier when you had your miscarriage? Not had this before as my last loss was second trimester

LuckyMoonstone · 24/07/2022 11:25

Tried testing again yesterday about 6pm but I’d had a couple of drinks and it was too diluted so didn’t bother last night. So I could’ve peaked for all I know but I doubt it. Only 0.22 this morning so I’ll see what I get this afternoon

MrsCristiano · 24/07/2022 12:17

@HoneyPea I'm sorry for this worry. I miscarried at exactly 6 weeks but had been spotting since 5 weeks. Really the only reason I was scanned is because pregnancy tests kept getting darker and clear blue edged up to 2-3 while the spotting was happening so I was at a bit of a loss. And I had miscarried before. It might not be bad for you I don't think it always means a loss.

@Indianna2006 I'm sorry to hear this but do understand. Take care lovely ❤️

Right girls waiting to ovulate let's do this @LuckyMoonstone @Astar21 @pangolin84 @curliegirlie @mummatara (and anyone I've forgotten) 🤞😘

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