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TTC after Miscarriage Thread 8

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mummyofrb · 09/06/2022 13:45

Just starting this as last thread nearly full💕🌈

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theblueflowers · 04/07/2022 10:15

Oh @LuckyMoonstone what a rollercoaster for you. Is your temp below the cover line?

TheBirdintheCave · 04/07/2022 10:26

@calimc83 Yeah but to be honest you can barely see anything on there so there's not much point in posting it. I put it on a line eyes thread though if you wanted to see. If I didn't feel as rubbish as I do I'd be less inclined to believe it :/

bunnykins123 · 04/07/2022 10:28

@LuckyMoonstone that's a really clear line, what a rollercoaster, I'm so sorry you're going through this. As if ttc isn't hard enough. Have you had your progesterone checked? It might be worth having that checked if you are having short LPs?

@theblueflowers oooo send us a picture! We can be your line eyes too 👀

LuckyMoonstone · 04/07/2022 10:33

@theblueflowers its 36.35, I don’t know what my cover line is, ovusense hasn’t set it. But right before I ovulated I was 36.07

LuckyMoonstone · 04/07/2022 10:34

@bunnykins123 I am thinking about going to the doctors but I feel like I won’t be taken seriously

MrsGrealish · 04/07/2022 10:35

@LuckyMoonstone I use those clear blue ultimate early too and mine have never developed into a line like that. (I also keep my negatives until they start to look manky) have you got cramping with the bleeding? It really sounds like a chemical 😞

bunnykins123 · 04/07/2022 10:41

@LuckyMoonstone I agree with @MrsGrealish it could be a chemical. Would you want to confirm that with another test? If it's a chemical, you likely will get a faint line again today so at least you'll know. And if that's the case, given your LP length I think that's defo grounds for your GP to give you a blood test at minimum. Or you could go private.

FfayeN · 04/07/2022 10:46

Really got my everything crossed (apart from my legs 🤣🤣🤣) for you ladies 🤞🏼 xxx

MrsGrealish · 04/07/2022 10:56

@FfayeN 😅 you go girl 😂 Xx

LuckyMoonstone · 04/07/2022 12:48

@MrsGrealish a little bit but not like my normal period pains. All seems to be in my lower back today

LuckyMoonstone · 04/07/2022 12:49

I just feel so defective and rubbish 😞

calimc83 · 04/07/2022 13:28

@LuckyMoonstone I'd 💯 speak to your GP. Sorry u are feeling so down and rubbish xxx

calimc83 · 04/07/2022 13:28

@FfayeN 😆😆😆😆 that made me lol x

calimc83 · 04/07/2022 13:29

@TheBirdintheCave I managed to hunt down your line eyes post! I feel like I can see a shadow of something 😬🤞🏻 xx

TheBirdintheCave · 04/07/2022 14:30

@calimc83 I was more sure this morning but the more I look at it the more I'm convinced otherwise. Husband has collected the FRERs now so hopefully I'll know tomorrow :)

Chellooo · 04/07/2022 16:40

Sorry to hear @LuckyMoonstone, I think I'm out as well... did an Internet cheaper and got nothing but stark white... had begun to hope as I'd lower back pains and feelin absolutely shattered but looks like not to be this month...

mooneagle · 04/07/2022 17:13

Hey ladies unfortunately no joy for me as AF has arrived again… :( here’s to the next cycle

mooneagle · 04/07/2022 17:16

Fingers crossed for the rest of you though. Luckily I was on holiday so forgot all about testing early!!

mummatara · 04/07/2022 17:22

Sorry to hear about all the negatives ladies 😩

mummatara · 04/07/2022 17:23

My temp went up yesterday with some flashing smiley so was feeling hopeful but it went straight back down this morning. Still had flashing smiley this morning though

calimc83 · 04/07/2022 18:15

@Chellooo sorry to hear that. Remind me what DPO u are? I've not dared test but feeling v crampy today 😫 x

calimc83 · 04/07/2022 18:16

@mooneagle Hope u had a lovely holiday, sorry about AF. Hope u are ok? X

Chellooo · 04/07/2022 18:31

@calimc83 I think I'm 8dpo, and I know that's early, but I'd a faint line at this stage when pregnant with my mmc, so am not holding much hope 🙈

calimc83 · 04/07/2022 20:33

@Chellooo that's so so early...defo give it a few more days if u can ( easier said than done I know 😬 ) x

ballet-shoes · 04/07/2022 20:43

Hi all - first time poster here (on any forum!) I've been a long-time lurker but now finally feel ready to join. You all seem like a lovely bunch - who have been through a lot, but who all seem super supportive Star

Basically, I feel like I'm totally in limbo and looking for some advice from people who have been there.

I'm currently 5 weeks post-miscarriage (38 days since I first started bleeding). I miscarried at exactly ten weeks with my first.

Right now, I feel like I'm in this weird fuzzy stage where I'm just waiting for a sign of what my body is doing. Physically, I feel totally back in to normal. But AF still yet to appear, OPKs negative - and have been for a while. POAS also negative.

Really want to TTC again (have been DTD but without knowing where I am in my cycle it hasn't been strategic). Either just want AF to come back so we can start again from scratch, and will know when I'll ovulate, or by some miracle, a positive test.

How long did it take for your first AF to return?

Thank you in advance you beautiful humans