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Hoping for BFP in May

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Catred4 · 08/04/2022 07:16

CD1 here, starting a new thread for those who are hoping to get a BFP in May for a January/February baby 🥰

This is my cycle 3 trying for #2. I've got an 18mo old son.

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Skylark1990 · 20/04/2022 08:49

Thanks all for the kind words re chemicals. I am definitely pretty confused and sad about them. We conceived DD so quickly, and I just wasn't expecting it. I'm really hoping it's just been a couple of bouts of bad luck.

@LemonZestDribbles DD is 19 months 🙂 do you have any children yet?

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing I did a FRER at 9dpo (it may have actually been 8dpo) and it was negative, but got a positive two days later, so don't lose hope! Of course sadly that pregnancy ended a week later. But often 9 dpo is just too early!

I've got a huge work event the week my period is due in May I've just realised. I'm now wondering if we should even try this month. If I had an early MC again I'd not be able to be there for it 😣 and I can't miss it really, well it would not good at all... Not sure what to do! What do people think?

LemonZestDribbles · 20/04/2022 10:11

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing sorry about the negative. It's so hard when you want something so bad :(

@allthingssparkly ooh rise sounds like ovulation. I can't really remember bbt charts so can't remember if it stays up or not

@TeddyBeans glad the opks are moving. My luteal phase used to be 7 days. Makes the tww fast but freaked me out about ttc

@Skylark1990 I have a DS who is nearly 19 months. We were probably both on MN the last time we were ttc/preggers too 🤣. On the ttc this month I'd go for it as you've got to be hopeful that if you did catch it wouldn't be another mc. It's very hard though ❤

Cd4 here and having a really heavy and sore period. Getting central heating installed too atm so the anxiety of that isn't helping. Hoping to be more zen by fertile time

allthingssparkly · 20/04/2022 10:20

@LemonZestDribbles Fingers crossed it was a sucessful ovulation, I did have some mild lower abdo cramping this morning too! Seems to have subsided now though 👍

Hjudge56 · 20/04/2022 11:46

Just done a test at 9DPO & BFN! It’s mad because I am so sure I’m pregnant from my symptoms and I’ve got this twinge and dull ache but keep worrying AF is going to come early! Due next Tuesday so I feel like If I was pregnant I should be getting a BFP in the next couple days. I did use a Cb ultra early and wasn’t my first morning wee.

Will use FRER tomorrow morning hoping 10DPO is the one!

QueenBee22 · 20/04/2022 12:29

@Hjudge56 best of luck for tomorrow. It might just be too early to show positive yet.

salia12345678910 · 20/04/2022 12:57

I've had a dip in bbt 4 days after a dip in bbt and 3 consistent high temps 🥺 any thoughts on what's going on?

Hjudge56 · 20/04/2022 12:57

@QueenBee22 i hope so as I’ve done an FRER too and it’s BFN!!

salia12345678910 · 20/04/2022 12:57

I've had a dip in bbt 4 days after a dip in bbt and 3 consistent high temps 🥺 any thoughts on what's going on?

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Hjudge56 · 20/04/2022 15:16

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing i think we are both the same DPO! I did the same in testing today and BFN!!! I’m 9DPO is that the same for you?

hoping the next few days we start to get a faint line at leasT!!

thebloodycatwontstopmeowing · 20/04/2022 16:10

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Hjudge56 · 20/04/2022 16:43

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing yes we can!!

my FRER was the same this morning and I also did a one step cheapie which was BFN for me! I can’t see a line on your Cheapie but it may just be my eyes! I think FMU at this early stage is the best bet! I have made the mistake before of testing before 12DPO in the afternoon and I think it just heightens the chances of a BFN on a test at that time!

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Hjudge56 · 20/04/2022 16:56

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing ah yes I can see on the one posted on the test checker app a very very very slight line!

will you be testing in the morning?

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Hjudge56 · 20/04/2022 18:11

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing That’s so interesting that evenings would give you a stronger reading! I’m going to test tomorrow AM too on FRER so we can update each other 🥰!

when is your AF due?

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LemonZestDribbles · 20/04/2022 18:41

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing and @Hjudge56 got my fingers crossed for your next tests. It's very frustrating not knowing so feel for you both ❤

@salia12345678910 did your body maybe try to ovulate but failed so did it a few days later?

Hjudge56 · 20/04/2022 18:46

good luck for the morning @thebloodycatwontstopmeowing !! Sending lots of baby dust! Will update on here of result!

and thank you very much @LemonZestDribbles !!

salia12345678910 · 20/04/2022 18:52

@LemonZestDribbles I have no idea, this is my first cycle on letrozole after 2 failed clomid cycles, & only my second month of tracking bbt, last cycle my temps were all over the place whereas this cycle they've been abit more consistent and almost textbook standard up until today morning, unsure if lack of sleep or room temperature has played a part to it but looking forward to seeing the reading will be tomorrow morning 🥺

thebloodycatwontstopmeowing · 20/04/2022 23:24

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elsbells98 · 21/04/2022 01:57

Hi, hope you don't mind me jumping on the wagon! This is my first ever mumsnet post!

Currently on cycle 1 of ttc our 1st. Currently CD6 and hoping to test around may 10th.

Best of luck ladies, I hope we see a good few BFPs!💜

Hjudge56 · 21/04/2022 08:17

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowingI had a BFN on both FRER and CB ultra early this morning..

im feeling quite sad to be honest as I have generally short cycles and could have sworn I had implantation bleeding on 7DPO. At 10DPO today I would have built up enough hcg hormone if I had implanted 3 days ago so it’s thrown me off. I have got the sorest nipples, so fatigued, cramping on one side, bloated etc.

I got a BFP last year on 11DPO so If tomorrow morning shows nothing I think I’m out!

Harriet669 · 21/04/2022 08:54

Morning all, jumped on earlier and went quiet as I've been sat waiting for a peak on OPK's, CD 12 and I'm sure they're getting lighter 🧐 sorry about the BFN's, still not out till AF shows 🤞🏼