🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 5 💕✨🤞🌈

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 🌈🌈🌈

Thanks for starting this!

@cruz86 I'm 5/6 dpo and I'm symptom spotting all day.

@peachiekeen the app I use is called my calendar. Its handy enough and predicts period and fertil window with a reasonable amount of accuracy

Just saying hi on this new thread...👋

@Skl2021 thank you, I know its hard to stop yourself spiralling into the negativity. We need to start telling each other off when we are being too negative 🤣💕

@speake thank you for the reassurance 💕 its hard isnt it such a rollercoaster of emotions the mum guilt doesnt help either x

Gosh this thread is flying...how are u all doing? @Skl2021 @Ganesh2022 ? Been thinking about you xx
@arianasky defo jump your OH tonight 😂
@Cindy974 I feel exactly the same re concentrating on the other children that I have - I'm incredibly lucky to have them, feel like I'm pushing my luck going for a 3rd..worry this is taking over everything and I don't want it to affect them..gosh it's a head f**k
@Passenger87 @Cruz86 how u ladies doing? Im around 3/4 DPO..when are u thinking of testing?
@aesgriff those numbers sound fab
Gosh I hope I've not missed anyone 😅 xx

@calimc83 I'm going to try hold off until Saturday/ Sunday....try being the main word there.

What about you?

This cycle is weird as I'm having moments where I feel like this cycle is the one and others where I'm certain it's not gonna happen.

Total rollercoaster

@calimc83 thats exactly how I feel, its so awful isn't it. Its hard not to beat ourselves up about it but the fact we do shows how much we care for the children we already have 💕

Joining the new thread, I can't believe how quick these threads are flying by 😂 here's to a lucky thread for us all bringing BFP's and healthy happy pregnancies for us all ❤️

@calimc83 I did 😂 at least I know I DTD tonight even if I'm not actually ovulating yet 😂

Wowee new thread already!

@Passenger87 erm....I'm away this weekend..AF not officially due ( according to my app till next Fri) but I think it'll be more like Monday ( if looking at previous months)...might take a test with me? 😬
Doing my best not to be a mad symptom spotter this cycle..ha ha, will see how that goes! X

@Cindy974 yes, that's a good way of looking at it! I really struggled for a good few days last cycle when AF showed her ugly face. Can't let that happen this cycle..it's not fair on anyone x

Hi ladies, hope I can join. I read the most recent posts from the last thread a few days ago to take my mind of things this week - reading all of your stories definitely helped to refocus after a difficult week and be more positive for the future, so thankyou. It definitely helps knowing that I'm not alone, it's just a shame that we've had to go through this. Just a back story - I found out last week that I'd had a MMC at 10 weeks, just waiting for everything to finish happening (however long that may be, I have another scan in a few days but still in pain/bleeding) and then I will be back on my TTC journey. It took 15 months to conceive this time so hoping for a miracle 🌈

Hi @bumble44. Welcome and so sorry to hear about your loss.

I completely agree, it really is a weird comfort to know there are others going through the journey with you.

@calimc83 it can be so hard to resist the urge to test. I have ordered some cheapies incase the urge gets too strong. At least that way I won't be basically peeing on money

Thank you everyone who sent birthday wishes on the previous thread

Just replying to you in this thread @aesgriff. I've done it on what I believe to be 6dpo, so a couple of days earlier than my last one! I got 15nmol so I'm really hoping it's more than that this time round 😩

@Passenger87 @calimc83 I tested this evening hahaha I just couldn't resist. I'm probably going to test every day now too. The temptation is too strong! How are you both feeling?

@Bumble44 welcome and I'm so sorry you're going through this right now. We'll be here for you throughout the process ❤️

@Skl2021thanks for starting the new thread, how are you doing? ❤️

@Cruz86 @Passenger87 oh maybe I need to order some cheapies 😬 which ones did u get?? How many DPO are you again @Cruz86 I 💯 contemplated a test earlier 😆 xx

@Bumble44 Welcome 🤗 I'm so sorry for your loss xxx

@PamelaDoov Happy Birthday lovely x

@Cruz86 I'm feeling ok. Pretty tired. No sore boobs or anything but feeling a little unwell in a way I can't put my finger on.

@calimc83 I get the one step cheapies from amazon (about 8 for 50) they are handy to use in the early stages. Then I test with frer from 10 dpo....I feel like I have the testing down to a science at this point haha!

@aesgriff it's pretty boring tbh they go over all your details take some bloods and tell you a bit about future appointments and take a urine sample. Xx

@Cindy974 we need our heads bashing together 😝🤣 xx

@bunnykins123 👋 xx

@calimc83 I'm hanging on 🙌 I'm sure I will get through it xx

@Bumble44 welcome sorry for your loss 💐 xx

@Sassy144 I'm doing ok thankyou I need a good sleep 🤞 xx

@Cruz86 please keep us updated with the daily testing 🙌🤞 love a good line eyes! Xx

@Passenger87 oh god I've just ordered them as well! 😆😆..guess I can test to my hearts content now till I dare risk a Frer!
@Skl2021 Glad u are ok, get an early night. Remember, we are stronger than we know 😘 xx

Haha I would definitely order some if I were you @calimc83! I've got easy @ home ones from Amazon. So good to cure that urge 😂

@Passenger87 I feel exactly the same as you. I've been mega hungry for the last 3 days and really tired, but today I've started sneezing constantly and my left boob is a little bit sore haha. Hopefully the next few days will bring us some good news!!

Of course I will @Skl2021! I know you love looking at tests 🤣 x

@PamelaDoov Happy Birthday! I sincerely hope next year, on your 31st, you are holding a however-old-a-baby-conceived-now would be (math...).

@Bridgey8 thx for telling me re spotting
@Bumble44 welcome to this lovely group . Wish none of us were in this club, but the support has been incredible for me.
@Skl2021 I hope tomorrow brings a much, much better day.
@Cindy974 I've read that despite OPK's etc, most people are wrong re their exact O day, sometimes by several days. I think that, plus conceiving w/o AF, could definitely skew the numbers. They were happy with scan?
Still spotting a bit of brown...just not feeling very positive andagainst everything I've told othersgetting sucked into test progression. I mean, multiple times a day. None look amazing or even particularly good.

...and to everyone else, too...have a good, restful night and may tomorrow bring only good.

Hi everyone. I'm back after a few days with my OPK results so far. Sorry I haven't read or caught up with much of the thread so far but wishing everyone well 💜
I'm TTC with one Fallopian tube after an Ectopic rupture. My OPKs before this were really simple. Would get a high and then a very high peak of at least 2.0 the same day. But this time seems drawn out. Don't know if I've got a low peak. Or whether ovulation is failing, or whether it's just a slow riser this month 😮‍💨 what do you ladies think? 😬